Soul Mate Vs. Twin Flame

The version of 'soul mate' we usually use is a little skewed. This is just a post explaining what it means, spiritually, and the difference compared to what is known as a 'twin flame'. I thought someone on here might find this interesting.
So, from what I know.
Soul mate is generally a term that we use to describe our other half, or the person out there we're destined to be with and love. However, if you believe in the type of views I'm going to express, it in not in fact. First off, everyone generally has more than one soul mate. You meet each other in multiple life times and the purpose of these people are to teach you something or to further your soul into a stage of maturation. You only meet them when your ready, and once you have gained your lesson from them, they often have a way of being pulled away from you/out of your life. Soul mates can be anyone. Your sister, father, friend, etc, all have the potential to be your soul mate. When you meet, you usually will feel some kind of connection with them and may even think you've met them before.

Your twin flame is the one you should watch out for. This one is literally your other half. When you meet this person, you may feel an extremely strong connection. Since you would be on the same wavelength, finishing each others sentences and the such would be normal. It is also said that since this person and you are connected, you can transfer your emotions over to them. Basically, if you ever get a sudden feeling of sadness or happiness wash over you, that is potentially what your other half is experiencing. This person, however, will not stay in your life very long. In fact, it's rare that you will even meet this person in many or any of your life times. The reason being is that since your soul isn't mature yet and probably have a lot of wounds or negative karma built up, you two will cause each other harm, and in turn, more wounds will appear. To get rid of these wounds, you would need spiritual help. Anyway, you and your twin flame rarely share lives, as I've said. Apparently, one is usually in heaven while the other is on Earth. If the more mature soul is in heaven, it will help guide the other down the right path to soul maturation or any other important lessons. If you were to meet your twin flame and got separated, it would cause severe emotional pain. So, when will you get to spend time with your twin flame?

It's said once both of your souls reach full maturation, which can take many many life times, you two will be able to spend your last life time together and then ascend to heaven.
Anyway, I put this all down from what I remembered reading from this topic: http://anybodythere.net/cgi-bin/paranormal-forums/YaBB.pl?num=1249939328<BR> If I got anything wrong or someone has other opinions on this, let me know. It would be interesting to hear everyone's opinions, especially since I'm unsure if I remembered some of the things right or not.

I've heard the same thing.

I haven't read anything on that site about that in particular, but I honestly don't see why it can't be either gender. I know in the Greek mythology where Zeus split the four armed and legged creature in half (which is their version of 'your other half'), it was mentioned they could be either. So, I think I would believe that it could be a heterosexual or homosexual relationship.

It is mentioned that gender means nothing as far as souls are concerned, since when you leave your body, you're all just energy, or something along that line. That's why they say you can be reincarnated as either gender. So, that would support my belief that it would not matter the orientation of the relationship.

Posted by xygeneration
Weird. Lately i've been doing a lot of letting go of bitterness and forgiving myself. I even reached out to those who wronged me. I'm doing my best to overcome challenges with people I have a lot of differences with. I've also said and acted out on my apologies. I feel light, but then it struck me.. am I going to die? It's such a different feeling. I only have one more bitterness to let go off. I've also been trying to bring people together..

I have encountered death before, three times... and in those encounters I felt the danger before it struck.

Going off topic.

So the twin flame is for sure human? Okay, are twin flames supposed to be a mirror of you? Damn why can't technology find my twin flame!

I think perhaps what you're doing by letting go is creating good karma for yoursself, which will help your soul in future incarnations. Though, it's just a nice thought, I'm not an expert.

Yes, a twin flame is the other half of your soul. You and this other person will share the same wavelength and you could say, would be a mirror of yourself. As far as it being human or not...I'm unsure of that. I have the belief that humans can be reincarnated as animals and the such, too, so perhaps your twin flame wouldn't necessarily be human. As I've said, when a soul leaves it's body, it doesn't have a shape or gender. I believe also that if your twin flame is guiding you from the other side, you might perhaps feel like someone is guiding you. Like, a guardian angel. So, you can always look out for that. I wouldn't try too hard to find this person, since you may not have actually shared any time here on earth with your twin flame. It's a bit sad.

@dimplez, I don't believe I have. I have someone I felt a strong connection to, though I don't have enough experience in this life time with soul mates or a twin flame to discern what the connection actually means. And it's strange, throughout my life I've seen the number 11 constantly. Psychics have even pointed me out as being psychic, when a distant family member would visit one, or I would hear about it online. I don't feel 'awakened'. Maybe a bit more intuitive than the actual person. A psychic I once met, who I firmly believe is the real deal, mentioned that I had a 'long life', which I could take in two different ways. Being an older, more mature soul, or just living long in a previous life. Though, apparently the idea of older or newer souls is in question and not strongly believed in.
Have you met a soul mate or twin flame?

Posted by xygeneration
Wow this is deep. Twin Souls

The lin constantly takes me to a different page, however, the layout I caught a glimpse of looks very familiar. I believe I have read that recently, myself.

Mhm. Sometimes I envy those who have awakened abilties. They often can detect those things better or understand it all. Some even claim to have telepathic communications with their twin flame, which sounds really out there. I know a guy though who I swear is the telling the truth when he says he communicates with his spirit guide, who is actually incarnated as a human right now. All this stuff sounds really crazy, but sometimes you just start believing it.

@xy, I haven't heard too much on what happens to us when we return to our source, but many say that we all become energy and, since we're all going to the same place, we become one with all the other souls. That theory kind of takes away from individuality, but eh. People usually just stick with saying we go to heaven.

Posted by xdimplez
http://www.twinsoulrevelations.org/tag/twin-soul-reunion/<BR>
i like this, it answers alot

Woah! There's a whole board about it. Thanks. I'll take a look at this later.

Both of you guys sound like you have it good!
@dimplez, it's interesting that you get those sensations.
I saw the title on the board about running, but I haven't looked at it. It makes me hopeful in a bad kind of way. I'm overthinking now and want so hard to apply the title to the guy in my past. However, logic tells me no. To me, also, 'coming back' could mean in other life times, and it just makes me sad to think you're going to have to live the rest of this life out longing for that, and your next few possibly starting over again and wondering if yours it out there. Though, in the end, all of that is less relevant since we go through so many lives. I guess if that makes me sad, that means I still have much to learn! I hope whatever happens with yours, that you stay strong!
Good luck to you, too, xy!

@dimplez, I indeed think spending time with your twin flame could be very painful. First off, when you separate, that would be asolutely terrible. It's almost literally like being ripped in half, or losing part of yourself. And in the relationship, if things aren't harmonious, it could be painful to hurt each other so bad, or the hurt you feel caused upon you might hit deeper. Not to mention, the sharing of emotions part would hit you hard, since you'd both be feeling negative emotions.

Mm, I was actually the one running away in this situation, though. I think perhaps it's best to not worry about it and just live my life, as you've said. I've been slowly trying to better myself as a person, so I think I should put my focus on that.

I wish I understood more about the karma aspect of this all. Like, what it exactly comes from...is it the negative experiences you have with your twin flame, or just overall, etc? That's something I'll have to delve into.

Also, if anyone else reads this thread, please share any experiences you've think you've had with soul mates or a twin flame. Or any other input is nice! : )

I'm glad you've learned from your experience. It's interesting to think about this layout....you're placed on this Earth for many life times, and your goal is to slowly develop yourself until you've learned everything you need to. It's a good way to teach us, and it's a challenge. It wouldn't mean as much if it weren't. I hope to one day find out what awaits me at the end of this journey. : )

Aww, you're so patient, Jynja! I'm glad reading this helped!

And, I wouldn't doubt that you two could be perfectly astrologically matched! That would be a good thing, even without believing in these views. I'm inclined to believe there will be some coincidences involving you and your twin soul, including compatible charts. As dimplez has said, you sometimes experience the same events, having other similarities, etc, as your twin flame, so I think your situation would be connected to that thought, in a way.

Are you still with yours? It'd be good to hear about a match that works out. Even though what I read said you'll never be together long until the end, the views listed on the site dimplez posted says otherwise. : )

You shouldn't think of yourself as a burden or trouble to him. I'm sure he took something away from being with you, too. And besides, if he's the more mature soul, then in the end, he'll be guiding you anyway, so he can get over it. Haha. If you believe, then he'll be placed back in your life when the time is right. It really is admirable of you to be taking it so calmly since it's apparently not easy for anyone to go through.

Posted by Jynja
I also noticed other older souls meet you two and already know who you are to each other. Then they question why you're not together.

This sentence was a little confusing to me, but if you'd care to reiterate, I'm interested in understanding what you mean!

Ohhh, I see. I've talked to a few different psychics, or people with abilities, and it's interesting to see what they can all do. I believe even having those abilities and figuring out how to use them and the purpose of using them, it's a very big learning process for those more mature, 'awakened' souls.

I posted a topic on the site I linked in the first post about older souls and newer souls. The only response I got was that they didn't exist, because it would bring up too many questions, such as 'when were they created', etc. But, I'd like to get more opinions on that. There's just so much floating out there and no one knows for certain, though some of those who are 'awakened' claim to know.

Interesting experience, though. That must have been a good validation!

As for the last bit you wrote, I've read about that. That we choose who we want to be born as for reasons such as, we have a lesson to be learned in that particular life. There was a topic of miscarriages and how they say the soul is either called back or chooses it's not the right time. But, I assume this is a conversation many would not find pleasant, so I don't want to delve further into that. Interesting about recognizing other souls like that. Thanks for your input, and I wish you luck on your journey! I'm glad things feel clearer for you. : )

Your actions now say a lot. : ) I don't like judging people based on their past behavior, mistakes, etc, unless they continually prove to me they haven't changed. You become stronger through pain, and that's something worthy of being noted. Just like how everyone does embarrassing things when they're a kid. Haha, you learn a lot through those terrifying experiences.
I just love derailing threads by talking too much.

All in all, this is a very broad topic, though, so I'd like more input from people on their views. So, I hope no one hesitates to post if they want!

@PosterBoy, he's still in your life? It's good to hear of a currently ongoing relationship between twin flames! Good luck to you both. I wonder if that kind of acceptance you show - such as, being okay with him seeing other people, etc - is common among twin flames? Maybe for the more mature souls, perhaps. Or, maybe, even just for those who are more mature in this life. I do think that if you're immature in this life, that it doesn't necessarily mean that you're an immature soul. Everyone has to learn to mature in each life time.

@XY, to me, it sounds more like soul mate materially, but I don't know. It could very well be a twin flame. It depends on what you think and how you feel about it. : ) Though, it sounds like what you have is really special, either way.

@Piscesmoon, I'd definitely love to hear what you have to say! Be sure to come back, if you're in the mood for posting.

It's interesting relating it to all the zodiac. I mentioned before about hearing Pisces are the more mature souls. I feel like that would make some people angry, saying one zodiac sign is more 'superior' over the other, though. So, I'm unsure of whether I want to get myself believing that or not. But, it's neat how you can relate the traits of the signs to possibly where they would be at or what they need to learn. I also don't think it's very...idk, correct to assume I will be a Pisces forever, or that since I am, my journey is done. So, once again, it's an interesting concept, just not sure if I believe in it, fully. Though, perhaps this theory is different than what I see it as. You might be able to explain it to me more, if I am missing parts to understand this. Thanks for sharing, also!

Posted by xdimplez
oh no problem. i definitely can see how a twin flame can be mistaken for a soul mate. some people may even cling to the idea of the twin flame theory to hang on to a relationship that is coming to an end

i think the only real way to find out is when we pass over to the other side

i've also read that normally people who have already awakened spiritually will soon meet their twin flame. also seeing numbers repetitively...like 11 11, 1/11, 12 12, 10 10, etc

have you met your twin flame?

So let me get this straight....

A SOUL Mate, teaches us life/karmic lessons so that we may mature or pay our debts to Karma so that we may eventually meet our TWIN Flame?? I had to read up else where on the difference between the two because I was getting confused reading it from here.

Oh as for the repetitive numbers, on 12/12/12..I was writing a status on FB and it was after I hit "Send/Post" I looked at the time and it was 12:12pm. I also come across 1:11 or 3:33, ALOT its ridiculous. I hope it means something good.

^^NICE. Thanks!

Now you got me thinking about the growing population thing. It could be that:
A.) There's a whole ton of souls in heaven/elsewhere and more of them are just needed to be here, now.
B.) Since I believe we can be animals, perhaps the dying out of some animal species might count for the souls going into the human population. But then, other animal species may be growing at a higher rate than those ones that are becoming exinct.
C.) New souls are actually created.

I'm inclined to go with...A, perhaps. That's kind of sad, though. It sounds like they'd have to reincarnate faster to keep up. Though, I don't fully understand that, so who knows. Any other theories on that may help me to come to a conclusion on what I believe. The more I think about it, the more irrational new souls sound, too. But, I honestly don't know! I hate not knowing! Then again...maybe souls are even necessarily 'created' but just come about. I mean, if they're all energy, what if that's just a natural or random process of new souls forming from or breaking away from the energy and becoming their own existence?
Okay, now I really don't know what I'm talking about and I'm tired as hell, so I'm going to stop thinking about this and go to bed.

I didn't go to bed.

The one thing that's holding me back about animals, is that someone I believe that is authentic (she is really wise, and posts a lot of things about why we're hear or different energies, and does readings, etc), once mentioned something about a cat. A poster had been sad over the loss of her cat, and the psychic posted about her experience with meeting the spirit of the cat. She said it mentioned all the things it said it learned, and how simple life was as a cat, and then it moved on. I feel that if animal souls can talk and have the same abilities as human souls, then why can't they switch between animal and human bodies? It could be the purpose, but if all souls look the same, why is there a serparation? Why is one soul bound to that of animals, unable to experience the same as us and not have the same path, while those chosen for humans are somehow special? But, once again, that is all up to interpretation. In your beliefs, the souls may in fact not be the same. I think truely, if anyone is looking for guidance, having a chat with the lady I mentioned above would be truly enlightening, whether you believe in what she says or not. To her, we're all here to love and learn how to love, and that is what life is based around. To let go of all our desires and instead of greed or other selfish things to love. Which, I would think, follows the same line of thought that soul maturation follows. Anyway, I got off topic. You seem to believe one thing and then go back to what your dreams say! Haha. Not saying that's bad, I'm also very uncertain. What I was actually trying to get to is that your dreams seem interesting. It seems to happen a lot that those who are spiritually inclined have dreams about their past lives. You should consider more about the meaning behind your dreams and if they're actually past lives or what. Maybe that would help solidifying some of your beliefs? Idk, I wish I had something like that.

I wouldn't think that much about your dreams if he didn't confirm having clear dreams with you in them, as well. It's a pity you don't know if they were exactly the same as yours or not. Though, if you both are experiencing the same thing, then I'd definitely say you're connected in some way. Whatever way that is, is up for you to decide. : )

Thanks to a lil angel on this website, I now know why I feel the way I do about this gem/cancer man I always discuss on this website. Thanks to that angel I know it's called having a twinflame. I think some of the qualities of having a twinflame are far fetched and too fantasy like. However, there are so many I did feel when I saw teh gem/cancer man. Too bad it was one-sided. I don't think he feels what I'm feeling or maybe he does and hides it well.

Hmm, well, I don't think the connection dissipates. More like, for one reason or another you just can't be together? My relationship with the scorp ex failed, but I still feel a certain connection with him. I was the initiator of the break up, too. We had a connection, but we weren't best for each other. If we ever got back to hanging out, etc, I'm sure I would still feel that. Whether he was/is a soulmate or just someone I loved, who knows. I think some people may be less able to feel the connection and remain oblivious. Just like, some people are inclined to having paranormal experiences, and some never have them. I didn't think about that before, but I would guess it could be sort of like that. Perhaps a person with a more mature soul would be more inclined to sensing those connections? Maybe less mature souls are more caught up in the other things in life, or even in themselves, to notice?
Well, who knows.

I like this topic, I've always considered the soul mate term to mean much the same as you originally put scenic. That we can have multiple soul mates. Which is why I've always found it hard to place things into words when it came to my particular pisces gal.

The circumstances of meeting was rare, she just offed a plane and I was merely there for those particular hours and we met. There was just something about her that attracted me like no other before. I have never been so happy in my life and it wasn't her beauty or looks and I didn't even know her at the time but all she did was radiate warmth.

When we met again funny enough it was also at odd times I don't know what struck me but I started looking for a bandaid and soothing cream because I could feel this sharp pain and seconds later guess who cuts herself on broken glass. I've always described it as an unspoken understanding. It's just there was no reason for me to trust her but I felt safe and comfortable around her.

This is where PPB's experiences mirrors my own. I think it really is loving unconditionally because I do feel she compeltes me and to feel that with no preconceived notion of who she really is. It felt right. For now we are together and it's absolutely magical but our feelings remain the same. No matter what happens, no matter the distance or if the other person moves on that we still can't deny this feeling for each other and to have experience it all was good enough for the both of us.

Wow...never been to this forum before (idk why)...I accidentally clicked on it on my phone...love this topic.

Yes I believe that we all will experience soul mates in our lives...people to teach us things, help us grow etc.

Twin flames/souls...whatever you prefer to call it are on a totally other page.

I believe I met mine...

We grew up the same...same type of struggles. I moved to his town when I was a sophomore in HS...we instantly hit it off (he actually approached me,he said he didnt know why but he felt like he had to meet me and I know this sounds ridiculous but he told me he loved me from that moment before even coming up to me.) Yada yada yada....It was not the best relationship...it was just years and years of ups and downs. We knew we werent good for each other (it seems we brought out the bad sides of each other...not always but most of the time) but we just couldnt stay away...as much as we tried (and we tried). This wasnt one of those...drug, alcohol, abusive relationships either...where they cant stay away...for those reasons. He was the one always running...I was the one with the broken heart because of it...but for some reason I would always take him back (if anyone here knew me...they would know that this is not like me to take that kind of crap from anybody (this is what family and friends, even myself have said) nobody understood....I would try to explain it to them..but I honestly didnt know why myself...its just this deep down gut feeling.

We could just sense things about each other...even being far away. I know I've written about this before on here...not sure where and I probably hide the post afterwards...but I will give examples. and I believe when sensing things about someone ...it doesnt have to be in the conscience mind to be able to. My biggest senses where in dream form

He was working for a oil company ...drilling for you guess it ...oil lol. Anyway...so one night I was passed out sleeping...I had a dream, where he was drilling and got somehow tangled into the drill and he died...they sent for me to try and identify what was left. As I was dreaming this...I woke up to my phone ringing...it was him. Hes like your never going to believe what just happened..I was like what? I just got smashed into the drill...Im like wtf are you ok...he said he was fine but it hurt and he was pissed off..I asked are you sure your not bleeding internally...and hes said ...I dont think so ...why.

So I told him...we both were just floored by this (goosebumps and all). So basically as this was happening to him...I was dreaming about it. If one of the guys werent quick on their feet (his words) he would of been dead.
I know what most people are thinking...just a coincidence. well wait...


Some more years go by...we are living in our house. He took a fishing trip with the guys...didnt come home when he said he would....blah we got into a fight over it (stupid I know). As my leo moon is showing...he all the sudden tells me dont touch the glass. I just gave him a look like wtf are you talking about...two mins later...whole arm goes thru are glass window on the door to the laundry room. As im bleeding all over the place...hes like I just knew, knew this was gonna happen (he said he could feel a pain in his arm before I did it). I was like ..why didnt you warn me better than lol
freaky shit...yeah still could be a coincidence...

Every time he ran...it literally felt like I lost half of myself...but being a virgal...I sucked it up and tried to move forward. Ok so some more years go by..

About three years ago...we were living in an apartment (my apartment...that I got as one of the times he took off) I wake up again from a dream...I wake into the living room and im like wow...just wow. Of course hes like what?! So I begin to tell him. I dreamt that he died (idk know what from exactly)...I was at the funeral and I kept getting text messages from him. Everyone was giving condolences...and I was like hes not dead, they kept saying he was...i said no, hes sending me texts. I showed everyone, but all they could see was a picture of the galaxy...i could see written words. Of course everyone is looking at me like Im crazy. So the funeral is over...I go back to my apartment. He started visiting me....we would talk daily... So finally I asked him why did it take him so long to come see me. He said he had heaven orientation. I asked how was he able to come see me...he said he received a day pass from God to make sure I was ok. so I asked him when I can come visit him he told I cant cause it not my time then I woke up. Seriously he laughed his ass off at this...I did too...what a weird fucking dream to have...well about 2 months later he did pass away, in a car accident 😢

I had some d?j?? vu moments at the actually funeral and some weird things happen after...which have dissipated over time.

Oddly enough...I was supposed to move with him but decided not too...something told me not too. If I would have...I might have ended up in the vehicle with him...that ill never know.

Still these could all be coincidences...but really...thats just too much IMO


Man there have been so many other occurrences...just him being to know exactly what I was thinking (which is what I do best...and he seem to just know).

Ever since then...I dont not feel like myself. Like honestly someone has ripped the other part of me away...which happened. Its just hard to explain...I dont think I really can ever put into words the connection/s that we had and I dont feel them as strongly anymore...which is sad in itself :/ I honestly though think that I was more intertwined with him then him with me...or maybe I was more opened with it...since my occurrences were on a more deeper level *shrugs* But I have no doubt in my mind we were and still are twin flames/souls. He truly was an amazing guy with the biggest heart...my family couldnt help but love him...even though they hated the way he was with me sometimes, they just couldnt help it. My scorp dad actually kissed him on the forehead at the funeral....he still doesnt know why he did, hes like that is not me going around kissing dead bodies lol.
I'll find out when I'm supposed to I guess...i hope so at least.

Thats my experience...

I miss him every single day....and its been almost three years (Aug 20) and the pain is still the same...deep soul wrenching pain. When he used to take off (seriously once every year) I always sense when hed be back...now to not have that feeling anymore...its just weird and sad. I will move on but I dont think Ill really ever really move on...that pain is not fair to carry over to someone else. :/

Posted by xdimplez
holy crap lost in my mind, you're story is touching.

i was confused about the arm though, was it your arm that went through the window?

did he ever at all, take it as a sign of his impending demise when you dreamed about his death?

have you had dreams about him sense? ever thought of going to see a psychic?



i could feel the hurt in your words, and the anxiety you went through in all this. i have no doubt that you two belonged with each other. im so sorry to hear lady

Yeah my arm went thru the window...leo moon dramatics lol
No he pretty much laughed it off...as did I. I mean you dream crazy things all the time ...hard to determine if they will ever come true, ya know?! If he did...he didnt tell me about it.
I've had a couple of dreams with him as the main person and other times just in the background...I really need to write them down when I have them. Oh I've wanted to go to a psychic so many times...but not sure who is real and etc...id hate to get duped. I did have my cards read...but nothing was mentioned about him...just mainly about how my energy is all over the place and that I need to kick out other peoples energy that is replacing mine where it needs to be...in the center.

awww thanks dimplez 🙂 Yeah worst experience in my life but ill get thru it...maybe not fully but functional. I've made some peace but there is still lots of pain there.

Posted by Loveorlust
This topic is so fascinating! I have an 18 yr d son who has always been what I call an old soul! He has had ALOT of premonitions and is very sensitive and emotionally advanced for his age ( for lack of a better description) anyway lately he has been saying he keeps having the number 11 or 1111 show up everywhere! So fascinating!

I do wonder what that means. Seeing the number 11 all the time. It's been a while since I've gone through this thread, so excuse me if I miss someone else's explanation on this...but...

I've been seeing that number a lot, too. I've heard a few other people have as well. Is it indicative of a person's own path or growth, like in numerology..the life path numbers...or if it relates to more of the overall movement and pattern of the world's consciousness. Like, how someone said we're getting closer to the 'other side' so to speak, or whatever. If it's an over all change, or just relates to certain people and doesn't mean anything in broad terms...it would be interesting to know. I've also heard those with the life path of 11/2 are on a spiritual mission, or something or the sort. Idk.

Or, if it's a coincidence. I talked a little bit about the coincidence side of this elsewhere, so I won't repeat it.

@Lostinmymind, I'm sorry you had to experience that. : ( I would have been a wreck. God knows I hold on to pain longer than I should. I imagine it would be a bit consoling, though, to think he's waiting for you, or you two will meet again. : )

That's interesting. I can't remember when I started seeing that number a lot. It definitely wasn't something I always saw. Mine has died down a bit, too, but I still see it. Just, not as much. The number 18 also followed me around for a bit, but I don't think that number means much. Interesting about the growth aspect of the number 11, though.
I've been seeing 4 and 20 together a lot, too, but I think that's because it was a past anniversary, and now I take more notice of it when I see it. Maybe it's the same with the number 11. Maybe I see it a lot because I take notice of it, now, instead of overlooking it or passing it up.

Anyway, thanks for the insight! : )

@PiscesPosterBoy...thank you thats very sweet...I appreciate that 🙂

@xygeneration...youre welcome 🙂 Im glad I feel more comfortable to talk about it...guess that means im healing some.

@Scenic...Thank you..I appreciate it 🙂 I think if I wouldnt of had that dream beforehand, I could have went down a competently different path :/ It wouldnt of been pretty. Its like god or a high power knew I would have been way worse...so they gave me the dream to prepare me for it...at least thats what I think. I dont know if I mentioned in my story...but out of the 10 yrs we were together..those were the only times I dreamt of his death..and something happened from both dreams...weird!

Funny that you guys are talking about the number 11....I see it in spurts (actually 11:11 am or pm), and it actually started after my bf death (maybe before then and I just stated to notice it afterwards). I even mentioned it to my grandma because I thought it was weird that I kept seeing it. Even looked it up to see wtf it meant if anything...what I found out that apparently its our spirit guides or angels trying to tell us something *shrugs* I have no idea :/

PM...I know right?! its part of my crazy life lol

I see 11:11, 1:11 and 6:09 all the time. The person that I think is referred to with the 1:11 and 11:11 lives in the 609 area code. He even texted me once at 6:09.

This topic is fascinating to me. I met my twin flame when I was young. Everything Dimplez has said I feel. I feel like why can't I get over him, shouldn't I be over him? This sounds strange but I have always felt we had this connection like a chord running through our stomachs connecting us no matter what. A lot of times people say why don't you cut he chord? I just can't it feels so wrong. Not a day passes that I have not thought about him and it has been 13 years! I don't voice this to many people because they would think I was plain crazy.

The connection we had is like no other I've ever experienced. It was a weird meeting he showed up at my house with 2 of my other male friends at the time and I didn't know him, but when I looked at him and we looked at each other right in the eyes I felt like I knew him already it was very intense. It was hard to pull ourselves away from that stare. He asked for a hug when they left and it really felt like home. Like they describe in the twin flames. We didn't officially date until a month later. It was the last day of school and there was this punk rock concert going on at the church across the street and he asked me out. At the time I didn't think anything of that... a guy asking me out in a church. It means something to me now, because this is a spiritual connection. I am a life path 11 so I think I am the more mature and aware one of us..he was the runner of the relationship. We loved each other intensely. Even years after we separated friends of his would tell me that he said I was the only girl he ever cared for.

Also mentioned was the unconditional love. I have that for him. He is engaged now and I am happy for him, I pray for his happiness every night. Don't get me wrong the pain of this love is very painful the most painful experience I've ever had... he cried too. He comes to me in my dreams and for those brief moments we can be together. I haven't cried in a while about this but writing this brought tears to my eyes.

I would like to know the sun and moon placements and maybe some synastry placements of yourself and your twin flame...if anyone is interested in posting those 🙂

Hi Impulsv! I have read that somewhere too.

Me:Aries- Fire
Moon- Cancer- Water
Asc- Gemini-Air

Him: Aqua- Air
Moon- Cap- Earth
Asc- Sag - Fire

Our Sun and Asc trine each other and our moons oppose each other. In synastry we both have each others Moon in the others 8th house, and in composite we had Moon and Pluto in the 8th! Talk about intense! Whew! LOL

@LostInMyMind11 I am soooooo sorry for your loss. I know how bad it is when mine "ran" from me, and can only imagine how spiritually you must be feeling the loss.

After mine ran into a rebound relationship, I woke up one day feeling like he wanted to marry me. Sure enough, they were at a wedding together that day. He broke a very specific bone in his right wrist - same day I had fallen and the doctors were adamant I broke that specific bone (I didn't, I was just feeling his pain). It took me about 8 months, and I had a spiritual healer cut his ties with me because I was not coping with his energy. I started to move on and get my life on track, and it turns out he did around the same time too. Not that he would believe in a million years why!

We have recently reconnected, however he is struggling to cope with what is going on between us. I was feeling beyond awful yesterday, and when I found out what he was doing, I was channeling his energy all day. He can't keep away, but can't reconcile with why. My guides have said we get back together soon, as we have much work to do and there is no karma between us, but every day that goes past makes me wish he would hurry up already! The synchronicities, universal signs, etc are all driving me INSANE. I'm at a point where I just laugh.

Anyone who has met your twin, you know. There is something you just know, deep down in your core. When they hug you, you feel like you are home. When you are with them, you feel like you are exactly where you are meant to be at that exact moment in time. You make each other radiate love and abundance. And you slip into a relationship like you have known each other your whole life. Even friends think you have known each other for 3+ years and not 3 months. They really are your mirror, and the relationship is everything you ever wanted and so much more that you didn't bargain for! But when there is conflict or something that needs to be resolved, oh boy, it is painful 😢

Namaste

Ok I am pissed about this whole soul mate and twin flame crap.

What happens if you have already met your twin flame, I ask myself why cant we be together is it coz of unfinished business with soulmates to deal with? Or is it due to not the right time? Is it coz he hasnt figured out we are twin flames yet? If it is all these things and more how the fuck do I finish this crap so I can be with twinflame? Is it possible for twinflames to hate each other before they hook up when everything is finished? Or is it best to stay together whilst going thru the soulmate stuff? I dont know what to do to be with him and really i dont even know if he loves me or realises we are twinflames, I mean I love him but I havent heard from him for a long time though I do feel in my heart he does love me its just the wrong time so where this leaves us I dont know.

Also, another person i met whilst online he could be a soulmate and socalled unfinished business as he seems to be very stalkerish and stuff, so maybe this pc guy is a soulmate I have unfinished business with to enable me to move forward closer to my twinflame.

Theres too many soulmates out there I have unfinished business with and what about the guys I perve on when walking down the street I mean this clearly signs me to not be relatiosnhip material at all but then again if I was with my TF would this be any different, would I be looking or not and how does one tell if you are at that stage of TF?

At what stage of life am I at, soulmating or TFing it? A bit of both or none at all and not only that how the fuck does he feel about all this? Its baffling to me at times though totally understandable at other times. I have been realising this for some time and then I am thinking now what about my TF, whats he thinking about the whole show? He'd have his things to deal with as I do mine, maybe hes forgotten me which I dont blame him but hey I guess he doesnt even know and I am stressing over nothing. Thats enough.

I shall continue on with Mr pc guy first requires more thought just so he understands I dont want to be with him unless he is my TF. That should do it. Otherwise we can only be friends.

Unless we are soulmates from another planet which indeed we may very well be so from where do we take this thing and resolve this?

And this is not to mention all the guys I have crushes on too. Whats with them.

I wonder if the final lifetime of twin flames are the elderly or couples you hear about who die within hours/days/months of each other.

Johnny Cash & June Carter famous ones..but here's others

http://abcnews.go.com/US/iowa-couple-married-72-years-dies-holding-hands/story?id=14771029<BR> Married 72 years died holding hands

http://www.theblaze.com/stories/2013/12/03/he-wasnt-going-without-her-husband-and-wife-married-nearly-65-years-die-within-nine-hours-of-each-other/<BR> Married 65 years died within 9 hours of each other

http://www.cnn.com/2013/08/26/us/ohio-elderly-couple-dies/<BR> Married 66 years died same day (aug. 2013)

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2450131/Husband-wife-63-years-die-hours-other.html<BR> Married 63 years died within hours of each other (Oct. 2013)

There's so many more. So if true..it is a nice thought. Bitter sweet, but nice.

^^^I would be inclined to agree with the latter portion of your statement. It must be excruciating to live without your twin flame and there is such a thing as dying of a broken heart. Then again, if they managed to live to the end of their lives with each other, then perhaps they may be done with their life cycles. When I think about if a twin flame was taken from you when s/he was young, then that makes me think that that person wasn't able to complete their life and still has more to do in other lives....but if they live their lives out....that's what I imagine the final life would be like. Maybe it could be either?

@mfwb, usually twin flames can't be together because their souls aren't mature enough. It's rare you even meet your twin flame, so if you believe in this stuff then you should also come to terms with that you may not be able to truly be with your twin flame until many life times from now. And yes, it would seem possible for someone to not know they've met their twin flame....those who aren't mature enough may deny it or not believe in it. There's plenty of stories of one half of the flame to run away from the relationship because they don't understand it or something of the sort. You can't force souls to mature so you can't force him to be with you or to understand...you simply have to focus on learning lessons from your lives and wait until the proper time. Someone once said that life is all about love. You live to love. But it's also an unconditional thing. In it's purest form, love is not selfish. you don't give love to get it back...you simply give it because it's what you feel. As far as soul mates....if there is unfinished business, it's meant to be that way. They will teach you what they need to teach you when the time is right. Patience is hard, but you can't control the universe or time, unfortunately. Good luck.