Beauty or Personality?

If looking for a partner, which one would you choose? Apparently, it's extremely hard to find girls who have both... and when you do, you'd feel that they're WAY TOO good to be true and then eventually, you'd find them unattractive or just way too much. @_@

Posted by firebunny
If looking for a partner, which one would you choose? Apparently, it's extremely hard to find girls who have both... and when you do, you'd feel that they're WAY TOO good to be true and then eventually, you'd find them unattractive or just way too much. @_@

I don't really "look" for partners. I think you find people when you're not looking. Like when you lose your keys, and you're convinced they're lost so you give up, and then they pop up in the most obvious place.

There has to be some physical attraction there, but often I find I am more attracted to people because of their personality and put off by attractive people because of their personality.

I know someone who said he didn't like beyonce at all. So it's not looks then it must be personality. He also said he wants a loyal, nice, good sense of humor type, and doesnt like jealousy at all.

I go by both.

I don't look too much. I go online once every year and try again and see what's out there..obviously it doesnt help when you look online rather than meeting people that they have instagram and what app and fb for real life interaction..just depends. But it does no good to look for. I rather just draw them in naturally.

If they have a great personality, I tend to be more attracted to them and think they are better looking. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Clichee, but true, imo.

Compatibility.

I've dated women better looking then me, and it's 100% more stress then it's worth. The shitty part is its honestly harder for me to find an average looking woman with a decent personality who isn't intimidated by me then it is to find a good looking self confident slut. I'm not saying all good looking confident woman are sluts, just the ones I attract are.