CHEATING

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james tate
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WHAT IS IT DOES IT HAVE TO INCLUD SEX?
HOW MANY MEN / WOMEN CHEAT IN HOPES OF GETTING COUGHT?

WHAT IS MISSING TO MAKE YOU CHEAT?

ALL QUESTIONS ASKED BY A SINGLE MAN

AND NO I WILL NOT MESS AROUND WITH A WOMAN WHO IS MARRIED I'LL BE CLOSE TO THEM BUT NOT HAVE SEX
IF THEY WANT TO TALK FINE BUT YOU CAN'T BREAK UP MARRAGES IF THERE SHACKING WELL THATS ANOTHER SITUTION
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Agentgem24
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I will never cheat again. But when I did (once) it was because it was a semi long distance relationship, he had stopped communicating with me much, was denying me sex, acted totally uninterested in the whole relationship, wasnt wanting to go out and do anything when he was in town...when I brought up my concerns multiple times and told him I wasn't satisfied and nothing changed.

I had already decided on breaking it off but wanted to wait til person...then I drank one night, other dude refused to take me home, and it just happened. I broke up with him right after. I felt awful, even given the circumstances I would never do it again to anyone under any circumstance.
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Agentgem24
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I consider cheating emotional too. My bf and I have a no talking/hanging out with any member of the opposite sex except if they were 100% platonic before the relationship started, even then it's restricted. No talking to past flings, especially no getting numbers of new members of the opposite sex once the relationship has started, it sends mixed messages (even if innocent) and that's where I went wrong with my last. Even if you want to be friends, just friends, you don't do it...no number.

I've made new male friends, but it's been through a group and I don't have their number. I've added them on Facebook but they are all friends with my friends and are married/have steady gfs etc. no flirty talk whatsoever and if there is...they get a warning, then a delete if it continues.

I know who my mans strictly 2 platonic female friends are, he knows who my 2 male ones are (one of which is my room mate who he really likes) and aside from them and my personal fitness trainer, he will not see me texting another man hardly ever.

Facebook harmless chit chat, on occasion, but it's never anything flirty. It's very clear I have a bf on Facebook.
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Agentgem24
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Not always. I do believe in the case that "once a cheater always a cheater" but I did it once and would never again. It made me physically ill and I broke it off myself because I felt I didn't deserve him. I've been cheated on once too; I found that being cheated on and cheating felt the same...it's serial when you lack soul and make up excuses. There were things that led up to it of course, but I admit what I did. I would never put myself into the situation where that could ever happen again. I was drinking and taken advantage of, but I still put myself there. I fully believe good people can make bad mistakes, if they learn they won't make them again.

That can't be said for everyone though. Serial cheating is usually just a personality flaw (a big one) that may be impossible to fully get under control without major restraint.
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Posted by james tate
WHAT IS IT DOES IT HAVE TO INCLUD SEX?
HOW MANY MEN / WOMEN CHEAT IN HOPES OF GETTING COUGHT?

WHAT IS MISSING TO MAKE YOU CHEAT?

ALL QUESTIONS ASKED BY A SINGLE MAN

AND NO I WILL NOT MESS AROUND WITH A WOMAN WHO IS MARRIED I'LL BE CLOSE TO THEM BUT NOT HAVE SEX
IF THEY WANT TO TALK FINE BUT YOU CAN'T BREAK UP MARRAGES IF THERE SHACKING WELL THATS ANOTHER SITUTION



Cheating is doing/saying anything that you wouldn't dare say/do persay your partner was standing there

If that means, sex, so be it

If that means kissing or any kind of physical contact (other than sex itself), so be it

If that means having those "emotional" chats with someone, so be it

If that means talking to someone inappropriately, so be it

Sometimes what's missing is the cheater's lack of morals, conscious & priorities in order

It's tacky to blame the victim. I don't care how bad or useless your partner is. If they are THAT bad, leave. And if you won't leave (for whatever reason), cheating on them is you basically punishing them b/c YOU are too coward to spare them & leave them

Cheating is for cowards. People try justifying it but there is no explanation.

What kills me is that cheaters always play the victim when they're exposed. They have this immature sense of entitlement as if they deserve the right to cheat simply b/c 1 thing or another is missing in the relationship.

Yet they fail to realize that they themselves probably aren't all that great & perfect either.