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I'm fine. Had a glass of jim and coke before replacing my water pump on the car. Got the throttle body disassembled and found a coolant leak. I replaced my lower intake manifold gasket a couple weeks back and thought it may be leaking so I had a couple more glasses. Broke out the flashlight and determined it was from the coolant manifold gasket. Went to pick up a part and my buddy who came over to assist had car trouble on the way there.

Luckily I told him since his car as modded like mine we should bring alone the bluetooth OBD II scanner and make sure he didn't have any misfires or knock retard. His car died less than 3 miles away, from the sound it made I was worried his timing chain snapped when he punched the throttle. He tried starting it numerous times and I suggested either timing chain or camshaft or crankshaft position sensor due to the sound of a backfire coming from his cold air intake. P0340, camshaft position sensor. Got a nice officer to use his cruiser to push us off the side of the road and we walked back.

Decided due to the crap we found out in the past few hours to finish off the bottle of bourbon I picked up. Our buzz's started dying off so we went to cookout and grabbed bacon cheeseburgers with hush puppies and fries.

Now I'm off to play Fallout 3 Game of the Year Edition until 7am when the parts place opens up.

I'm a whiskey lover, no hangovers happen with me, 🙂
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I'm a not a redneck... I have a slight hint of hillbilly due to my dads family and being born in the Appalachian mountains. I just prefer whiskey. Some people get depressed, some get mean and violent. I just feel and warm and fuzzy. I see light liqour's as party liqours. Fuck that nasty sour mash bullshit, I like sweet Kentucky Bourbon with a hint of honey or smooth Canadian Whiskey aged in an oak barrel with a hint of maple. Collingwood and Crown Royal are my faves, but I decided to see how devil's cut was. Pretty damn good.

I'm glad my buddy drove to cookout, I was blitzed and we were doing 35mph and everything was like "WHOOOSH" and I was like "WEEEE!!"
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We sat down and had a long talk last week. She agreed to be more open and stop hiding things from me. The only reason she didn't tell me she was at the park the day I confronted her because she knew things were already strained between us after I learned about her real age and ex husband.

I agreed to stop taking everyone else's advice, work on not being so jealous and possesive and not getting upset when she has to make last minute changes in plans. I also told her I trust her judgement and ill let her determine when she feels its right to introduce me to the roommate.

This past week has been better than the first 3 months combined. We were supposed to spend time together again tomorrow but shes been picking up extra hours to cover for a former employee who got canned. Didn't get upset this time, we agreed to meet for her lunch break and move plans back to next week.
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There is documentation in the local papers of the ex husbands son being charged with molesting the daughter. There is no documentation of domestic violence on the ex's part, but given how she said things went down after she had the husbands son arrested I don't blame her for getting a divorce. Its possible she never reported the domestic violence and went straight to divorce him.

If it was a situation that couldve been fixed through counselling I wouldn't consider the divorce to be a good option. But even though the son admitted to molesting the daughter to get a lesser charge the ex stood by him and acted like she and her daughter were conspiring to ruin the sons life. I wouldn't stick around to deal wirh that shit either.
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Nope. I don't mind at all. I haven't met her daughter yet and its not like I have to. We've only been dating 5 months. Regardless of your preconcieved notions on what is socially acceptable and what isn't I can make my own decisions in who I do and don't date.

Different strokes for different folks. They say women mature faster than men but from what I've witness in girls my age as far as emotional maturity goes, willing to hop in bed with complete strangers and flirting like its still high school I have no issue dating a woman 18 years older than me and her having a 14 year old doesn't sway me any.

When I see single women fresh out of high school with a kid I see a ln irresponsible person who isnt too smart when it comes to judging someone's intentions and character, at her age its more common and is understandable.
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Granted a little bit of that went on early into tthe relationship, but after talking its clear that I was misjudging her intentions and motives because I was suspicious due to taking everyone else's views and opinions to heart instead of figuring things out myself.

Looking back most of the issues we've had were due to my own hardheadedness and immaturity. She said this is my last chance so its time to man up and start acting right