Stihl46
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Fvcked up family life really screws up people
Sounds like she is already getting the help she needs, she just has to work through it. SSRI's usually come with therapy unless things work differently in Canada.
I agree tenfold. I dated an Aqua for 5 years who had an abusive childhood. His parents divorced, but his mom always put the men in her life first. Eventually, the mom married a cheating man whom the Aqua hates. He has PTSD and took a lot of meds for his depression and experienced certain anxiety attacks, and even went to therapy. He also ended up being abusive towards me. I could not help him. After having had enough, I left. No contact from me in the form of a permanent injunction.
If you focused on his positive traits only, he'd end up being a wonderful man. He is very intelligent, charming, charismatic, ambitious, basically all the qualities a woman wants.
If you focused on his positive traits only, he'd end up being a wonderful man. He is very intelligent, charming, charismatic, ambitious, basically all the qualities a woman wants.
You sound like the waterboy.
jfc.....did you seriously find a new way to express your obsession for the Scorpio chick?
OMG...ur at it again with ur binoculars-from-afar psychoanalyses of that one Scorp lady.
No its not just her its the other women I know that have had bad father figures one of my friends she said her father had a serious problem with alcoholism and abusive, she ended up getting into heavy drinking and trouble. She's in her mid 30s now with a family she's happy or so she seems. One of my buddies his dad again abusive alcoholic used to beat his children my buddy turned to drugs he said he was bad he tried really hard to clean himself up today he's in his mid 40s.
**Women can become really fvcked up if they are raised in an unhealthy family life it really stems to father figures in their lives. It affects guys too but it doesn't seem as prevalent**.
The effects are much worse with men i have found
Women tend to bounce back more and also confide in other women, whereas men tend to internalize their emotions and then go on to play out their abuse in rships
My father once read that 99percent of male mental issues are down to the mother....imagine that?
The effects are much worse with men i have found
Women tend to bounce back more and also confide in other women, whereas men tend to internalize their emotions and then go on to play out their abuse in rships
My father once read that 99percent of male mental issues are down to the mother....imagine that?
Posted by MyStarsShineI agree, men have it really bad, I think there is more of a stigma associated with getting help for men.
**Women can become really fvcked up if they are raised in an unhealthy family life it really stems to father figures in their lives. It affects guys too but it doesn't seem as prevalent**.
The effects are much worse with men i have found
Women tend to bounce back more and also confide in other women, whereas men tend to internalize their emotions and then go on to play out their abuse in rships
My father once read that 99percent of male mental issues are down to the mother....imagine that?
Posted by TaurusinTexasYes, sadly there is. The suicide rate in men (especially younger men) is much higher than in women. I have heard of several suicides of late...none female....all males under 30 😢. Women cope much better with mental issues in general, men seem to struggle far morePosted by MyStarsShineI agree, men have it really bad, I think there is more of a stigma associated with getting help for men.
**Women can become really fvcked up if they are raised in an unhealthy family life it really stems to father figures in their lives. It affects guys too but it doesn't seem as prevalent**.
The effects are much worse with men i have found
Women tend to bounce back more and also confide in other women, whereas men tend to internalize their emotions and then go on to play out their abuse in rships
My father once read that 99percent of male mental issues are down to the mother....imagine that?
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I haven't met too many guys with BPD the Scorpio is the first BPD girl I've really got to know. Where I live families have lived here for generations most of them are healthy happy families.
What I read with BPDs they fear abandonment, pretty sure that where things went sideways with the Scorpio, when I first met her she was really clingy she just got out of a relationship with a guy that threw her out. I wasn't always there for her when she wanted I had a lot of stuff on my mind when we first met work was busy. I had a change in management I had a lot of schit to contend with I wasn't really doing well health wise the stress was getting to me so I couldn't devote all my time to her.
I doubt I would ever get involved with a woman that has family issues, the Gemini woman that was really flirting with me has family issues I didn't want to get involved with her.
What I read with BPDs they fear abandonment, pretty sure that where things went sideways with the Scorpio, when I first met her she was really clingy she just got out of a relationship with a guy that threw her out. I wasn't always there for her when she wanted I had a lot of stuff on my mind when we first met work was busy. I had a change in management I had a lot of schit to contend with I wasn't really doing well health wise the stress was getting to me so I couldn't devote all my time to her.
I doubt I would ever get involved with a woman that has family issues, the Gemini woman that was really flirting with me has family issues I didn't want to get involved with her.
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I can say she has BPD she is on ssri's it seems to help a little but she still has issues. I started reading about BPD fvck me what I've read is her she has 99% of those traits.
After what I've been reading I'm glad we've gone our separate ways it will be no contact that's for sure I hate to say that. I don't usually give up on people but you can't help a BPD person. I can see why she has very few friends, she burns bridges at a drop of a hat. She has so many people that dislike her, she asked me how can I have so many people that know and like who I'm.
All I can say is shame on her parents that fvcked her up they pretty much ruined their daughter for life. She told me what her father was like she really hates men that are like her dad.
She would be an awesome person if she didn't suffer from BPD I really enjoyed being with her. The only problem she was hard to deal with at times no matter how much support I gave her it wasn't enough. The meds would make her sick she suffered from the side effects.
Women can become really fvcked up if they are raised in an unhealthy family life it really stems to father figures in their lives. It affects guys too but it doesn't seem as prevalent.