hashtag leaveitin2014

what would you leave behind?

- dudes asking girls for kik ?

- SKINNY AND FAT SHAMING?

- "Relationship goals" garbage?

- Self-Hate. Envy. Bigotry. Thoughtlessness?

- romantic feelings for someone who manipulated, assaulted multiple times, and hurt severely?

- "go kill yourself"?

what?

My answer is bigotry and thoughtlessness. But maybe I find more to leave behind.

Posted by DwellingOnMove
what would you leave behind?

- dudes asking girls for kik ?

- SKINNY AND FAT SHAMING?

- "Relationship goals" garbage?

- Self-Hate. Envy. Bigotry. Thoughtlessness?

- romantic feelings for someone who manipulated, assaulted multiple times, and hurt severely?

- "go kill yourself"?

what?

+1



- Failure to look up the most basic aspects of A/Your Chart.


And yes...

The pseudo-relationship garbage.


Bring something to the table!


Jeez.

I should probably stop using derogatory slurs that are demeaning even though i can identify with them.
it's still wrong even though it's not meant to be hurtful.

I remembered I don't care if people get their baby ass feelings hurt.

I have official stopped smoking pot... My lungs just are done with it... I dropped it for a good period last year. Then end up hurting my leg so I ended up going back to it for nerve pain that I developed. Now my lungs just hurt more then they ever did... to the point I had them checked out at the doc. I am on my 7th day of no smoking... although I cut back for 20 or so days before. I am never going back because I will never forget the lung pain I was having. I would not wish that on anyone.

I will also be moving forward and not have self pity parties as much or at min put a time limit on them so they don't effect my life.

I will also be working on getting my leg healed even if I have to have to be cut open to do it. Then get back in shape.

I will also be working on setting better boundaries with not letting people emotionally weigh me down with their problems.

I will be working on coming back to a place of self education or even maybe going back to school for a master...

I will be getting my contractors license this year.

I am happy I have and will continue to eat health-er...

I will work on having a better relationship with my father and other family

I will work on having better emotional control to first reactions so I am not manipulated easy by others...

I will work on killing wrongs done to myself with kindness and if it does not work... I will not allow myself to be around that negativity.

I will save continue to save money so when the real estate drops I can invest in the right place.

PM

Hmm... good stuff, PM2. 🙂


I was throwing stones at my fellow man, here at dxp.

I thought that was the idea once she mentioned kik and

'go kill yourself'-- good things to leave behind, of course.


And I don't recall her participating in bigotry, at all--

just some haphazard emotional appeal... point being:

I may have misunderstood the thread.


And PM2-- don't say never! 😄

Thank you Montgomery

PM

@PM2,

you won. there's a soul of enough-is-enough sailing in your wings.
Yep, the smoking world better get along WITHOUT you.


To me the best part is this:
"setting better boundaries with not letting people emotionally weigh me down with their problems."
&
"if it does not work... I will not allow myself to be around that negativity."

A few minutes ago I heard from a TV program in the Background that we are all altruistic to some extent. But we want it reciprocally. If we give more than we get, we start feeling to be "used".


I have learned since politeness/consideration has died, people cannot measure when it is enough. So I am the person in Charge who must check. I'll be the same people's people as before but I'll intend to give less to them. Then the average of
"my little intention + my own exageration tendencies + their wanna-have-more habit"
will be by far less than what it was in the past four years.

Posted by warmwaters
I should probably stop using derogatory slurs that are demeaning even though i can identify with them.
it's still wrong even though it's not meant to be hurtful.

I remembered I don't care if people get their baby ass feelings hurt.

I watched David Copperfield (1935) a few nights ago. It was remarkable to me that Dickens packed some good and bad people in the story but also those crazy ones who were the good ones at a final counting of scores. I often find myself a bizarr person but hopefully I can count to the army of good people? False hope?

Posted by Montgomery
... Failure to look up the most basic aspects of A/Your Chart.

I hope you don't mean me. (I thought I could hide it well) :-)
If you mean newbies, I agree so much.

Posted by xy
False hope

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you are soooooooo right. But how can we distinguish that it is false? Maybe when three not involved grown-ups say so? 😉

good on you, I admire people who achieve their goals.
The struggle of weight loss is real.

Sometimes people who over come weight issues are so extra.
Maybe chill about it?
People will move at their own pace and are very well aware of their weight.

I found one thing:
"Which sign is the most xxxx of zodiac"


And for the young ones:
protecting your fav by hating on the other's fav...

Posted by DwellingOnMove

Posted by Montgomery
... Failure to look up the most basic aspects of A/Your Chart.

I hope you don't mean me. (I thought I could hide it well) :-)
If you mean newbies, I agree so much.

click to expand

I meant the newbs. 😄

Posted by Hotbeefy
I am not going to say with all the list of what I'm planning of in 2015.
Most important thing is to take an action right now. 🙂

Otherwise it will be wasting with all those promises.

that must not be a private issue. What about these:

- guys wearing Monster Energy Drink Merchandise?

- Android phones?

- gay is not shorthand for LGBTQ?

- selfie sunday?

- people being famous for their look and not talents?

Posted by Impulsv
I leave shadow men behind!!
...

I guess I got it. The problem of shadow people seems to be: they are not able to see themselves as a part of something bigger. They are always in the mood me-against-the-world.

Look (video 39:40), what the male spider risks to do his duty for his species.
The video shows also all the different web industries spiders have. I liked the air bubble of diving bell spiders (25:00).

#clutterclear
Some did dxp behind, yall may have noticed.

A least we Sags lost RainDancer.
I noticed it when trying to open music thread.
I wish her a good real-time life. 😎
Maybe she has some ideas like DVM to put her money where her mouth is (LOL, I have to use this idiom cause I learned it lately from dmv) 😉

Posted by cheekyfaerie
Merry Christmas, Happy New Year, have a great birthday. Peace. I'm out.

for the whole 2015?

Posted by KVZZMIR11
Doesn't matter if it is 2050...



The truth hurts, but you can't hide from it.

I think we need a love-city where everybody talks politically correct to each other. There we could experience if all kinds of addiction (eating too) would occur. For some reason I think the more we feel to be not loved the more we rely on addictions. But who am I to know?

More to lose?

- Ladies, not proposing guys

- Chanel hoola hoop bag


- bad eating habits

- Russia might as well pull Tretiak out of the stands and put him between the pipes _— #AllHeartCanada #HereWeGo #CANvsRUS #TSN #LeaveItIn2014

- fashion police! Let people wear whatever they want 2015 ! 🙂 jhc

...

^^^^^^^^ another Sag occupied by Scorpio all over from Moon to Mars. Am I wrong?