In reference to your weight loss, that is awesome! Last year I lost 26 pounds, I was never what you'd call "fat", but that weight didn't look right on my frame, so I joined a gym and with a lot of hard work, it came off over the course of like 6 months. I know how hard it can be. I do like that everyone has the power to change their appearance if they want to. I feel for ppl who have a lot of excess weight though, because just taking off 26 lbs was HARD FREAKING WORK!
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I lost thirty pounds and it took a lot of hard work. I could do it again if I wanted to. It's a matter of motivation. If I can do it, anyone can. It's that simple. I don't agree with people saying they can't. Just say I won't! I have like some chubby guys before and it doesn't bother me.
lol! thats great pheonix, we can relate i'm proud of my boobies, i dont care if its big and if it was literally flat i wouldnt care either, its all about how im going to carry myself, which im trying to find out right now.. i think i should carry myself whichever way would fit ME. And if ppl love then they love if they dont then who the frock cares! Anyway, our boobs rule LOL wee.
Luz, worry not, I am not large chested either (I'm your average "B" cup, which is probably more information than you wanted, but hey, we're relating here...lol). I have found that for all my insecurity over the years regarding my chest size, not once has a guy who's actually seen them complained, in fact the opposite. I think guys are just happy to have a pair of real live boobs in front of them. lol. Most of them, when it comes right down to it, go for firmness, perkyness and shape rather than size. However, I am still contemplating getting mine augmented, just because I feel that I could be more proportioned, and I think it would be a kick in the pants to have big juicy ones. lol. Who knows, I may or may not do it...but it's fun to think about finally being able to wear one of those extremely low-cut dresses and not be worried about how I'm filling it out. lol.
dude, but my boobs are SMALL. theyre not like FLAT but still, theyre not like huge either. *sigh* oh the disadvantages of being asian..LOL no j/k. But oh wells, im proud of my boobs! huge knockers wouldnt look good on me anyway.
I can see your point, Cortica. I am stricter with myself than I am with my guy...I feel it is part maintaining also.
I have dated a few knock-out gorgeous men in my life and I do not prefer them. They were all conceited and too 'this is all about me' mentality! LOL! Two of them, I suspected steroids and not nature had given them all they had!
I like a guy who can beat me at arm wrestling...but, he doesn't have to be a body-builder! I lift weights regularly and do aerobics also...but, the weight lifting is my favorite! Even my daughter's (old) boyfriend once said to my daughter, when I was pulling a patio table apart to put into storage, "Wow, your Mom is really buff!" Then he said to me..."flex that arm again!" I just smiled and said, "and don't you forget it! Now, don't be messin' with my girl!" LOL!
I am more attracted to the person inside than the outward looks...but, this is something that takes time in getting to know the person...so, initially, they must have something that attracts me...again, though, I think I place more weight on how they treat me initially, rather than how they look.
My answer to the question is that if i really like the person then i wouldn't care about a few extra kilos. They'd just better be careful not to put on anymore though!
I think looks are important in the case of you've got to be attracted to the person to want to get to know them. I think you've got to have it all. There's no use having a 'nice' guy or girl and not wanting to ravish them! Then again, i wouldn't want a great looking girl or guy and not like who they are. This is an empty experience