Unbelievable

Was at a friends wedding this weekend and this guy at our table was with his wife. He proceeded in flirting and making suggestive comments about the other girls at the tables breasts. And openly flirting most of the night with each and every one of the 4 girls at our table and anyone that came to chat. At the end of the night, his wife got up to call a taxi to take them home. He left her outside and came in and said to me, you can text me if you like... Me being rather pissed looked at him and said I dont have your number and looked at him oddly. Then I said arent you married to which he replied Yes and I said, Well then, and walked away shaking my head!

See the crazy thing is this guy obviously is the type that will throw it out whereever he is and eventually someone will take him up on his offer. He's married and doesnt care that his wife is with him when he's trying to score. I'm not sure if she is aware of what he is doing but he didnt seem to care. Can she be that blind?? Damn I didnt think to ask his star sign!

I've met her a few times and she doesnt seem to be the type, think she just has a joke of a husband that is making a joke out of her. Feel sorry for her really.

@ Hypno: If it suits your style but I'm personally monogomus and have no desire to be with multiple partners even though I am single. It's not my way. There's no worse feeling in the world finding out that the person you love and are devoted to has cheated, I wouldn't want to put anyone through that.

Oh Happy Birthday for the other day DA, hope you had fun 🙂

But maybe with all of his flirting it turns his wife on...

Or his flirting allows her to tell him which one's she approves of and which one he wants to take home for the sharing!!

Well the woman I saw at the hens day was fun and loud and the one at the wedding was very quiet and sub-dued.

@ lildol & Hyp....do you honestly think that this maybe true— Swingers and couples like that are generally both outgoing and I dont think she would have sat there like a doormat if she was into it. But then i never told you about how she was on the night.


In my younger days, I have cheated and been cheated on and know the feeling on both sides. Now if I am in a steady relationship, it doesnt happen. But I understand what you are saying Hyp, the belief that you wont get caught and the mixture of alcohol in a lot of circumstances and of course you have to be that way inclined makes you ignorant of the effect.

It's too easy to say sorry and it only ever happened once and cry with your partner and appeal to the years you have spent together and the life you have built...I believe alot think that once is forgivable so will carry on until they are held accountable and then the remorse will be seen.

Sad...


In fact he really just came off as a jerk, I guess some day someones going to take the bait...

People only do what you allow them to get away with...there are always circumstances that need to be taken into consideraton, but at the end of the day, if someone treats you poorly and you allow it, you really only have yourself to blame. I don't want to paint something with a broad brush, because I do take into consideration varying circumstances such as age (which plays a huge factor, someone younger may not have the experience, etc, but in this day and age, that's not always the case either); amount of "experience" the individuals may have in the dating world, etc. But honestly, with all of the information out there in this world, there is no reason for people to voluntarily put up with some of the things they do, so I have to go back to, people only do what you allow them to get away with - whatever that reason may be, it's their choice, and who knows what goes on behind closed doors...

Swingers and couples like that are generally both outgoing? What? Not true AT ALL.

I personally go with the idea that they're swingers, and his flirting openly is fine with her.
And if not swingers, then *definitely* it looks like a marriage of "convenience" to me.

If she has no problem with his antics, that's her business and cross to bear.
If she DOES have a problem with it... still her business and cross to bear!

Different strokes for different folks.. live and let live 🙂

I understand it's her cross to bare...but what I saw was a husband throwing it out there trying to pick up or find a potential partner that he can cheat with. Fully knowing we were aware that he was married and then can use that as his excuse why not to leave.

And a woman who only 3 weeks before was the life of the party without her man around turning into a timid doormat when he was.

I believe the night didnt end so well for them as she left before it was over...who knows whether he was held accountable.


Yes there are alot of strong woman that wouldn't put up with this type of bullshit out there, I am one but then there are alot of people in circumstances that keep them in their relationships for reasons like financial, children and just plainly being scared because sometimes better the devil you know than the devil you dont! Another thing alot of the time when a woman leaves it's because it really has been thought through and there is a plan of attack.