What is flirting?

This topic was created in the Dating forum by Gemitati on Wednesday, November 22, 2017 and has 89 replies.

What Is Flirting and Why Do People Do It

Flirting is a way to express romantic or playful interest in someone. It can serve to show attraction, build connection, or boost confidence. Sometimes it’s genuine, and other times it may be for fun or ego. Understanding the intent behind flirting depends on the context and individual motives.

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@Gemitati
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Is it a way to show someone that you are interested in them when you are not?

Excuse me...what’s the point of this?

Ego boost? Or just lots of time on ones hands?

Or it is actually coming onto someone but when they don’t respond - pretending it’s just a flirting?

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@The_eleventh_sign_11
16 Years5,000+ Posts

Ok well there’s levels and boundaries and there’s a fine line until it becomes soft core porn.

If she didn’t know your man was taken then this is a great time to bond with your man and set boundaries. Have a mature chat and overcome your differences.

If she did know that he was your man then fold that bitch in half and put her back in her lane

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Posted by Gemitati
Is it a way to show someone that you are interested in them when you are not?

Excuse me...what’s the point of this?

Ego boost? Or just lots of time on ones hands?

Or it is actually coming onto someone but when they don’t respond - pretending it’s just a flirting?

Why don’t ya answer ur own question hoe !

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@Gemitati
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Posted by PurgeTime

Posted by Gemitati
Is it a way to show someone that you are interested in them when you are not?

Excuse me...what’s the point of this?

Ego boost? Or just lots of time on ones hands?

Or it is actually coming onto someone but when they don’t respond - pretending it’s just a flirting?

Why don’t ya answer ur own question hoe !

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I don’t flirt and thus I don’t get it, Saint!

Got wings? 😂💦

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@Gemitati
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Posted by nano
Flirting is saying hey would u like to put ur penis in my vagina

Yep! That’s what I think...and then when he said sure - she flashes her eyelashes like hurt party...and saying ‘I didn’t mean it like that’

And he thinks ‘yes you did...’ lol

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Posted by clownloyal

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by clownloyal
flirting is having a temporary good time with the best looking person in the room when you're bored

...are you sure best looking in the room will give you a glance?

I said "when you're bored" as in a different person besides myself because I don't go out of my way to flirt let alone small talk

best looking to whoever is making the choice, someone can be best looking to one person and not to another

for ex. you may think you're the best looking in a room and you realize you're not when you notice no one is approaching you

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Well...ok...👀

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@LittleFairy
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Posted by Gemitati
Is it a way to show someone that you are interested in them when you are not?

Excuse me...what’s the point of this?

Ego boost? Or just lots of time on ones hands?

Or it is actually coming onto someone but when they don’t respond - pretending it’s just a flirting?

usually the guy is not into me ..i just thought he was..or he was just being sleazy

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@LittleFairy
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Posted by LittleFairy

Posted by Gemitati
Is it a way to show someone that you are interested in them when you are not?

Excuse me...what’s the point of this?

Ego boost? Or just lots of time on ones hands?

Or it is actually coming onto someone but when they don’t respond - pretending it’s just a flirting?

usually the guy is not into me ..i just thought he was..or he was just being sleazy

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just my exp tho

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@Gemitati
11 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by LittleFairy

Posted by Gemitati
Is it a way to show someone that you are interested in them when you are not?

Excuse me...what’s the point of this?

Ego boost? Or just lots of time on ones hands?

Or it is actually coming onto someone but when they don’t respond - pretending it’s just a flirting?

usually the guy is not into me ..i just thought he was..or he was just being sleazy

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Have you forgot your meds boo? 😘

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@LittleFairy
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by LittleFairy

Posted by Gemitati
Is it a way to show someone that you are interested in them when you are not?

Excuse me...what’s the point of this?

Ego boost? Or just lots of time on ones hands?

Or it is actually coming onto someone but when they don’t respond - pretending it’s just a flirting?

usually the guy is not into me ..i just thought he was..or he was just being sleazy

Have you forgot your meds boo? 😘

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I dont know what i said that was crazy ..but fuck it i could ALWAYS use more meds! 😛

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@Gemitati
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Posted by LittleFairy

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by LittleFairy

Posted by Gemitati
Is it a way to show someone that you are interested in them when you are not?

Excuse me...what’s the point of this?

Ego boost? Or just lots of time on ones hands?

Or it is actually coming onto someone but when they don’t respond - pretending it’s just a flirting?

usually the guy is not into me ..i just thought he was..or he was just being sleazy

Have you forgot your meds boo? 😘

I dont know what i said that was crazy ..but fuck it i could ALWAYS use more meds! 😛

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Go ahead. Just don’t drink with it...

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@Gemitati
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Posted by Sodapop

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Sodapop

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Posted by TheRabbit
Gemitati flirts by taking her teeth out.

I hear toothless blow job is fire. Please confirm or deny...

If you stick your tongue out you can actually deep throat! I’m mind blown.

Is your mind ok? Lol

I’m a Scorpio. Are you just now surprised?

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I know. I must send message to the wrong place. You know...Scorpios are sacred for me. Both genders. 😘

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@Gemitati
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Posted by OCJack
-Cheats on her man because she doesn't love him but wants to steal his wealth.

-Accuses other people of being sluts for saying "teehee, yur cute".

lolwat

Just jerk off and nevermind!

You have a life ahead of you unless you are drug addict or whatever crap you are doing...

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@Gemitati
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Posted by Sodapop

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by clownloyal
flirting is having a temporary good time with the best looking person in the room when you're bored

...are you sure best looking in the room will give you a glance?

It’s actually much easier to flirt with the best looking person in the room cause they’re used to it without getting shy or awkward like the average/ugly person in the room.

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Have you read what you just said?

You are a Scorpio! If you decided to flirt - it must be IT person.

As my Scorpio cousin said...I am staring him down. He asking me to dance. I said let go to my place...he said I am not alone here. She said...I am not asking you to marry me but fucking...

She said never failed...

And when she said - now go home I am fine with you - and he is like WHAT—

She said...you’ve heard me. Go!

Lol. Cruelty of a Scorpio women! Lol

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@Gemitati
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Posted by OCJack

Posted by Gemitati
Just jerk off and nevermind! You have a life ahead of you unless you are drug addict or whatever crap you are doing...

Shrug, was just pointing out a fatal flaw in your mentality. It's your life, and honestly your husband is pretty fucking dumb to not know what is going on. What's that saying? Do it once shame on you, do it twice shame on me?

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Do you want to deliver some message to my husband? I don’t get what’s your problem. You might team up with LadyNeptune...you will double your power against me and it might just make you to want to fk each other or something!

Lmao!

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@Gemitati
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Posted by OCJack

Posted by Gemitati
Just jerk off and nevermind! You have a life ahead of you unless you are drug addict or whatever crap you are doing...

Shrug, was just pointing out a fatal flaw in your mentality. It's your life, and honestly your husband is pretty fucking dumb to not know what is going on. What's that saying? Do it once shame on you, do it twice shame on me?

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He knows! Since 8 years ago. He choose not to know. It’s his comfort zone.

And he is happy!

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Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees
I dont know what flirting looks like, sounds like, or acts like.

I wouldnt know flirting if it was a tshirt saying "IM FUCKING FLIRTING WITH YOU, YOU ASSHOLE"

Its really bad. I am clueless on how to do it and if someone is doing it to me. Yet people have always told me i am very flirty. But no one can ever tell me HOW IM BEING FLIRTY.

I say, no way i am not flirty stfu how exactly am i flirty—

Peoples answer for 20 years is always the same "i dunno...youre just....a big flirt"

Well ok then!

—??

Keep lying! You aren’t lying to anyone but yourself. Feeling good? Continue...

Stupid thing I’ve ever heard...’I don’t know I am flirting but people tell me I am!’

Stfu!

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Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by OCJack

Posted by Gemitati
Just jerk off and nevermind! You have a life ahead of you unless you are drug addict or whatever crap you are doing...

Shrug, was just pointing out a fatal flaw in your mentality. It's your life, and honestly your husband is pretty fucking dumb to not know what is going on. What's that saying? Do it once shame on you, do it twice shame on me?

He knows! Since 8 years ago. He choose not to know. It’s his comfort zone.

And he is happy!

Wait what

You said he knows. Then you said he choose NOT to know. Does he know or what?

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Of course he knows! Since Day first!

When I had grabbed his arm and said I will follow this man unleashed to wherever he wants me to go...

My impulse was honestly HIGH!

Lol

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@Gemitati
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Posted by OCJack

Posted by Gemitati
Of course he knows! Since Day first!

When I had grabbed his arm and said I will follow this man unleashed to wherever he wants me to go...

My impulse was honestly HIGH!

Lol

As a grown ass adult, you're supposed to have impulse control. You're saying "he should have known" because you're a slut. Herpderp.

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Slut is not a federal offense!

Anything else? I am here to listen. If you have something to contribute.

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@Gemitati
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Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by Cancervirgo15degrees

Posted by Gemitati

Posted by OCJack

Posted by Gemitati
Just jerk off and nevermind! You have a life ahead of you unless you are drug addict or whatever crap you are doing...

Shrug, was just pointing out a fatal flaw in your mentality. It's your life, and honestly your husband is pretty fucking dumb to not know what is going on. What's that saying? Do it once shame on you, do it twice shame on me?

He knows! Since 8 years ago. He choose not to know. It’s his comfort zone.

And he is happy!

Wait what

You said he knows. Then you said he choose NOT to know. Does he know or what?

Of course he knows! Since Day first!

When I had grabbed his arm and said I will follow this man unleashed to wherever he wants me to go...

My impulse was honestly HIGH!

Lol

So then you are in an open relationship.

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No! I have to make up some ‘tale’ to get out so I would hurt his feelings...

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@Gemitati
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Posted by OCJack

Posted by Gemitati
Of course he knows! Since Day first!

When I had grabbed his arm and said I will follow this man unleashed to wherever he wants me to go...

My impulse was honestly HIGH!

Lol

As a grown adult, you're supposed to have impulse control. You're saying "he should have known" because you're "so obviously" a slut.

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So? Like I am listening to you and taking your ‘advice’ into consideration?

Are you stupid or what? Lol

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Posted by OCJack

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It’s not uncommon that partners know their partners are seeing others, but they think it’s easier to keep the marriage regardless. Divorces are so expensive and complicated and you literally need to start over from zero.

This is why I won't marry. It literally exists for no reason other than to make it so the woman can take half of everything.

It really makes me wonder how Marriage is such a strongly held tradition, if society has been a Male-Orchestrated mastermind patriarchy. How do the feminists even explain that one?

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At your age...I wouldn’t even bother to think! And I had not. And see? I am fine.

You can be to. Just relax. And get out...

Nooooo! How can you leave dxp? Right? It’s better than sex with a real person! Moron!

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@Gemitati
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Posted by OCJack

Posted by Gemitati
Slut is not a federal offense!

Anything else? I am here to listen. If you have something to contribute.

You realize adultery in a marriage IS essentially illegal in 21 US states? The only reason it's not explicitly criminalized, is because it's a messy subject. But if anyone deserves to go to prison over it. It's someone like you. You claim you are trying to protect his feelings. But in doing so you steal his money and get a place to stay. So actually you have much more devious intent than you claim.

The more important thing here though is. That it wasn't that you are a slut that I was criticizing. But rather that you used your "obvious sluttiness" as an excuse to cheat. You literally used psychopathic logic "He should have totally known because I'm such a slut and he's a total cuck."

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Lmao! I am 51 and he is 56!

You are an idiot with issues and you need to get out sometimes and meet people!

Lol. It’s been fun! You are retarded! Blame your parents! I have nothing to do with your problems...

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@Gemitati
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Posted by OCJack

Posted by Gemitati
At your age...I wouldn’t even bother to think! And I had not. And see? I am fine.

You can be to. Just relax. And get out...

Nooooo! How can you leave dxp? Right? It’s better than sex with a real person! Moron!

Enjoy ceasing to exist for eternity, while I get to go to heaven and fuck bitches for all eternity because I do things fairly and morally right.

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It’s obvious that all you do is jerking off over keyboard! Not that is nothing wrong with that except keys will stuck when cum dries out...

Lol.

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