
DeeLovesRed
@DeeLovesRed
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Posted by ChuckcemWow, it's good to see that others are seeing my helpfulness because most people think I'm "bougie" before actually getting to know me. So, I don't know how these people are seeing my inner self. But, maybe that's what they're sensing off rip.
It is because of your helpful personality. People can see that and are responding to it. Your stable nature attracts those who are seeking stability in their own lives.
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I don't know what it is, but it's like they're coming to me in droves. I do my best to give them the BEST advice possible. And I'm not going to lie, I feel EXTREMELY sad for these people. Like the homeless ones with children, I encourage them to go into family shelters and stop focusing on the fact that family isn't helping them "properly," but focus on their child and themselves. Also, if I had room in my house I'll take all of them in, but I don't have enough space in my place.
As for the ones in bad relationships, I tell them the same.... to focus their energy on themselves and figure out what it is that they've always wanted to do and GO AFTER IT. I make sure I end our convos with "Don't give others what you could be giving yourself."
I'm not complaining, just I don't know what it is with the universe. All the helpless people have been coming to me lately.