Woo thou

How do you attract a love interest?

Do you have a pickup line?

What is your style ?

And does it usually work?

Inspired by Argus house fly meme

Yo I feel like these questions are for the youngins but back in the day the first answer is I never tried I would always let my aura do the work. My pick up line was "hi". I don't know the style and yes it worked "all past tense".

i dunno i’m clumsy af but i think the more light-hearted you keep things, the better.

like, you don’t wanna approach someone so intensely and seriously like your whole life depends on it or something lol too much intensity will creep people out especially if they don’t know you so keep it light-hearted and playful would be my advice. 😅

being light hearted can sometimes diffuse sticky situations too .

like i remember this one time after an argument over the phone, me and my dude decided to meet up at a 7-eleven parking lot to talk things out. he was smoking while he was waiting for me and i snuck up from behind him and jokingly hit on him like one of those annoying pick-up artists and it broke the tension lol 😂 i think i said something super corny like “excuse me hi what does it feel like to be the finest motherf***er in town??”

😂

he was shaking his head but smirking at the same time and wasn’t mad anymore after that lol 😂 i was like 22 back then. i didn’t know how else to end arguments lol 😂



i didn’t have proper conflict resolution skills like i do now so i just joked about everything lol i was like “🤪🤪” like, not taking anything seriously lol but yeah what i’m trying to say is light heartedness sometimes breaks the ice waaaay faster than serious energy 😂

maybe it's coz i'm a woman

but all i did was change my fb status to single and complain about my ex but somehow i got a husband and son out of it

🤷🤷

men should be the only reliable people to answer this imo

Posted by virgoOPPP
maybe it's coz i'm a woman

but all i did was change my fb status to single and complain about my ex but somehow i got a husband and son out of it

🤷🤷

men should be the only reliable people to answer this imo

Nah women too

I'm not a planner. I improvise. Maybe I'll just say "you're cute." Maybe I'll say "Okay, fine- we can get married." Or maybe I'll say "your music taste fucking sucks." Those are all 'lines' I used as openers to total strangers that resulted in success. Or "I'm not going to pull out and I'm leaving all the lights on."

I firmly believe its not mostly what you say but how you say it. If I'm in flow state, I'll say more out of pocket shit because it's high risk, high reward. If you can build a high degree of tension without crossing overly the line too much into "lunatic" territory, then its most exciting and most attractive. "Faint heart never won fair lady" and whatnot.

I feel like men complain way too much about how likely a woman is to accuse them of being a creep - I have said shit to women I barely know that *I* would cancel myself for, and they are usually just amused. Turns out that for every guy that is afraid to say "I think you're cute" to a woman because he thinks she'll accuse him of attempted rape, there's another guy that sent that same woman a video of him straight up nutting on himself; a guy she doesn't know and isn't attracted to. So all I really have to do is exist between those extremes lmao

Most women are reasonable and even gracious towards faux pas, and grant benefit of a doubt towards intention. My observation is that girls just wanna have fun. So for the most part, if I am enjoying myself, so are they.

Posted by cornmaizeshark
I'm not a planner. I improvise. Maybe I'll just say "you're cute." Maybe I'll say "Okay, fine- we can get married." Or maybe I'll say "your music taste fucking sucks." Those are all 'lines' I used as openers to total strangers that resulted in success. Or "I'm not going to pull out and I'm leaving all the lights on."

I firmly believe its not mostly what you say but how you say it. If I'm in flow state, I'll say more out of pocket shit because it's high risk, high reward. If you can build a high degree of tension without crossing overly the line too much into "lunatic" territory, then its most exciting and most attractive. "Faint heart never won fair lady" and whatnot.

I feel like men complain way too much about how likely a woman is to accuse them of being a creep - I have said shit to women I barely know that *I* would cancel myself for, and they are usually just amused. Turns out that for every guy that is afraid to say "I think you're cute" to a woman because he thinks she'll accuse him of attempted rape, there's another guy that sent that same woman a video of him straight up nutting on himself; a guy she doesn't know and isn't attracted to. So all I really have to do is exist between those extremes lmao

Most women are reasonable and even gracious towards faux pas, and grant benefit of a doubt towards intention. My observation is that girls just wanna have fun. So for the most part, if I am enjoying myself, so are they.

I honestly think also the way you look allows you to get away with some of the things you say 😜

But I might be wrong

Posted by Generous1987

Posted by cornmaizeshark
I'm not a planner. I improvise. Maybe I'll just say "you're cute." Maybe I'll say "Okay, fine- we can get married." Or maybe I'll say "your music taste fucking sucks." Those are all 'lines' I used as openers to total strangers that resulted in success. Or "I'm not going to pull out and I'm leaving all the lights on."

I firmly believe its not mostly what you say but how you say it. If I'm in flow state, I'll say more out of pocket shit because it's high risk, high reward. If you can build a high degree of tension without crossing overly the line too much into "lunatic" territory, then its most exciting and most attractive. "Faint heart never won fair lady" and whatnot.

I feel like men complain way too much about how likely a woman is to accuse them of being a creep - I have said shit to women I barely know that *I* would cancel myself for, and they are usually just amused. Turns out that for every guy that is afraid to say "I think you're cute" to a woman because he thinks she'll accuse him of attempted rape, there's another guy that sent that same woman a video of him straight up nutting on himself; a guy she doesn't know and isn't attracted to. So all I really have to do is exist between those extremes lmao

Most women are reasonable and even gracious towards faux pas, and grant benefit of a doubt towards intention. My observation is that girls just wanna have fun. So for the most part, if I am enjoying myself, so are they.

I honestly think also the way you look allows you to get away with some of the things you say 😜

But I might be wrong

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I would say it's not what allows me to get away with saying things, but it makes it easier. I had to mature into my looks and I got away with saying wild shit a decade before my looks would've really helped me.

As well, I had more attractive friends than me, and I still did better with the opposite sex than they did because I was more entertaining than them, and also less full of myself.

My appearance is usually how I attracted interest. It works well. I don’t why. It’s not like I look like a male model. Just a typical generic average looking guy. It works pretty well. Even the Virgo woman I posted about, I caught her staring at me like she was going to shoot me with laser eye beam.

Posted by El-Sombrerero-Cucuy
Ive never had to pursue a woman, so I do not know. Ironically when I am initially interested in someone, amd am considering pursuing, I typically lose interest rather quickly. Maybe its because i try to find out as much as possible about them before making a move? Loses the surprise aspect some? Idk. Its never gotten that far. But, im honestly usually not available emotionally nor mentally for relationships, anyway, so if they are waiting for me to pursue, they'll be be frustrated. Usually turns into them feeling insecure about their looks or social status and doing the the whole "stuck up" "too good for me" shit. When in reality IJDGAF about romanttic relationships. I date a lot, but when it becomes monotonous or they're wanting more from me im already checked out.

So, the condensed version:

Ive always just done me and really put no effort into initiating something with a woman. Thats never been my focus. Ive never had a problem getting my sexual needs met. Had issues with boundaries occasionally, but, when they go psycho, just imagine what an actual relationship would have been like. No thanks

Are you an Aquarius?

Good question. When you find out, let me know. 🤭

Posted by WarAngel79
Good question. When you find out, let me know. 🤭

I thought the cowboy hat does everything for you 🤠

Posted by Generous1987
How do you attract a love interest?

Do you have a pickup line?

What is your style ?

And does it usually work?

Inspired by Argus house fly meme

I just give the person a sassy egotistical attitude.

I do not like to waste my time or other’s time. If I feel someone is interested in me and they are single, I come at them directly and tell them I’m interested if I am interested in them as well. I really do not have time to be coy or to beat around the bush. So I will let them know where they stand at all times.

Posted by Generous1987

Posted by WarAngel79
Good question. When you find out, let me know. 🤭

I thought the cowboy hat does everything for you 🤠

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Nah, I don't usually wear a hat unless I'm working outside with the Sun.

I'm charming to be around though. 😊