Aqua moon and an open relationship?

I think im actually okay with it... If it works for us then it just does.. I think anything conventional is just over rated... Life is too short to be anything but happy? Why do I feel this way? Why am I okay with letting someone I love so much fly as far as they like.. Why do I feel like he's my best friend and deserve to be the happiest and if that doesn't include me then that's ok too... Why why why lolzzz. Am I crazy? Or just simply wired... Do other Aqua moon feel this way?

Posted by AquaMermaid
I'm an Aqua Sun and an open relationship will give me nightmares. Having a strong bond of friendship with the prospective mate as a foundation of relationship is common among most Aquarians but going as far as letting him be free to date other women is not something I am ok with at all.And I'll be disappointed if he suggests I do the same with other guys.I like being in an exclusive relationship/committed relationship.I guess that's my Cancer Moon talking.But I know few Aqua Moons who are darn possessive of their partners.I think Venus Sign also matters a lot.I've Aries Venus so I'm territorial.

i agree.

I have NEVER even considered that and NONE of my ex's wanted that with me. Despite my first husband's womanizing ways, he is still possessive and jealous of me with anyone. I know...i know it's weird. lol but that is just how it is. And even my next ex, with Aqua sun and mars (dominant aries) cap moon was NEVER like that either, very possessive and jealous.

I believe if people like doing that route is because you feel sad and lonely and insecure and your relationship is not a happy one. There is a sense of, not feeling confident about yourself. I feel this is lack of confidence and you figure, "well if i can't have him, then at least he will have me, even if i have to share."

Dude!! are you serious? That kind of thing makes me want to throw up. Despite all the womanziing my ex husband did, i would still FIGHT the women who were flirting with him openly. I got into some FIGHTS. Finally, i just said,you know fuck it. this is just too much stress and heartache. A relationship shouldn't be this UNHEALTHY.

And AM, i think you're right, i'm a packed 1st house and i'm very very territorial. But then i'm also dominant Taurus, so that plays alot into it.

Calista Flockhart (aquarius moon with Scorpio sun) with Harrison Ford (married) are too possessive.

and Aquarius moon Victoria Beckham with her Taurus husband David Beckham are too possessive of eachother.

oh btw, i read that CONFIDENCE has to do with 2nd house.

so if you LACK it, that might have to do with it.

I only wrote this quote another day * the most beautiful thing is to see a bird flying back to its cage knowing that it could have been somewhere else somewhere much further but it chooses home..* to my that theory is just beautiful... you give others to be free yet they chose you.. I think it's a beautiful thing.. I gues for me, it feels better knowing that after all the freedom I could have I chose him and if he feels the same and return home it just is beautiful.. The commitment and the title are just all too much.. If you end up with someone committed by title .. What does that prove? Marriage? What is that? I never exactly believed in marriage myself... my venus in Gemini plays a bit part in this thinking? I'm not sure... All my previous relationships have Always been committed.. Did I love that person completely ? No!! Did I wanna marry them.. No!! Did I love their imperfections ? No.... So what was the point of that relationship? it's a complicated thing and if someone chooses me I want it to be their choice without me demanding it.. It's more beautiful that way.

Posted by TaurusGirlRas
Now that I see how I am I think I would try an open relationship. Aqua moon taurus sun scorp rising

How r u exactly?

Posted by AquaMermaid
I think your Gemini Venus(love) and Aqua moon(emotions) heavily influence your perceptions about romantic relationships.You're definitely more airy than I am,lol.My chart is mostly fire/water so there will be difference in opinion.Whatever floats your boat sweetie.

Let's not forget my sun in Taurus, psyche in Scorpio and Eros in Pisces... Regardless of how open minded i am deep deep down I still need to bond with my love one on a deep spiritual level... It's all a mess hehehe

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Posted by AquaMermaid
I think your Gemini Venus(love) and Aqua moon(emotions) heavily influence your perceptions about romantic relationships.You're definitely more airy than I am,lol.My chart is mostly fire/water so there will be difference in opinion.Whatever floats your boat sweetie.

Let's not forget my sun in Taurus, psyche in Scorpio and Eros in Pisces... Regardless of how open minded i am deep deep down I still need to bond with my love one on a deep spiritual level... It's all a mess hehehe

I can see that,lol.What happened with the Cap moon guy? I was taking interest in your story because my SO is also a Cap moon.

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It's him who im talking about hehe . Yay we are good... I'm just curious of why I can offer him such relationship... 🙂

Posted by ScorpiosHarmony
I think my scorpio sun over shadows my moon in scorpio for this particular department. Open relationships are not my thing. If I really desire you, I want you to be mine and mine only. I would want that reciprocation of possessiveness too. I value it as loyalty in a twisted sort of way lol.

I see no point in sharing someone who I will invest all my time and emotion into, that's pointless.

the only one i have known in history that likes that crap is (who has aquarius moon) a male figure, dominant figure actually 10th house sun/stellium in gemini. Brigham Young.

as he had also dominant Leo, Leo Jupiter/and Saturn Leo, with cancer mars in the 11th. But he had a stellium Gemini in 10th. Clearly just a case of authority (10th and authority) and taking advantage of all the women so he can get some!!

and those women back then, they just wanted to be PROTECTED and cared for, and it's just sad that they have to be subjected to the paws of authoritative men who want it ALL. Shuffle lots of women and women's purpose was to give birth and lots of babies, clean their socks and underwear, feed them and then lay down and have lots of sex.

anyway, i noticed Calista Flockhart's chart,'s aquarius moon is in 2nd house, so is her saturn aquarius and her husband's 11th house (he gets her aqua stuff) he has Leo mars. lol

and if any of those women were going to give him the smackdown, she'd probably be burned at the stake!!

like the beginning of this video!

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Posted by TaurusGirlRas
Now that I see how I am I think I would try an open relationship. Aqua moon taurus sun scorp rising

How r u exactly?

I need to keep everything on a friendly and light vibe always avoid all drama and heavy emotional conversation. I hate possessiveness jealousy n games. I'm distracted n bored easily with one. I prefer friendships they're more authentic. Less expectations.

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You sound like me !!!

I actually believe it's a very advanced mindset for a human.

I am Aquarius moon with Venus in Aries, it would depend on if we both felt attracted, but emotionally detached and both had lots of things going on in our lives and were just both not ready to commit .
Being a Pisces, im like scorpioharmony on this, if i love and crave him sexually, i want him for me and no one else, it would totally depend on the chemistry between us.
But good luck with that, hope no one gets hurt in the long run xx

I know SEVERAL Moon in Aquarius women and men, they do NOT share. Nor would the Venus or Sun in Aquarius that I know, either. Now, some of the men I know that will share a woman is in a threesome and it's when they aren't invested in that woman emotionally.

The Leo, Gemini and Libra with that Moon will NOT hands down do an open relationship.

I don't know her Venus and Mars but I can say that my opinion is that she will be unhappy in the long run.

My brother in his younger years was like this, he was a HUGE womanizer. Sag Sun, Virgo Moon, Venus in Scorpio. He wanted his cake and to eat too. He would've pushed for an open relationship for sure. He had threesomes and cheated on his gf's and all that. He would tell them he wanted to date others.

He fell hard for an Aries Sun, Aries moon, Scorpio Rising, Venus in Aqua woman. They have been together for 13yrs now..

The first time she really sees that he has stepped out, will make it real, and I feel it will crush her. Maybe, not but I would be shocked. At least for me it would!! She has a fixed Sun and Moon, I can't even imagine it. Loyalty and oneness are so important to me..

My gf that has her Moon in Pisces wanted to do open relationships but that wasn't with men that she was in love with.

Posted by saweetz1988
I only wrote this quote another day * the most beautiful thing is to see a bird flying back to its cage knowing that it could have been somewhere else somewhere much further but it chooses home..* to my that theory is just beautiful... you give others to be free yet they chose you.. I think it's a beautiful thing.. I gues for me, it feels better knowing that after all the freedom I could have I chose him and if he feels the same and return home it just is beautiful.. The commitment and the title are just all too much.. If you end up with someone committed by title .. What does that prove? Marriage? What is that? I never exactly believed in marriage myself... my venus in Gemini plays a bit part in this thinking? I'm not sure... All my previous relationships have Always been committed.. Did I love that person completely ? No!! Did I wanna marry them.. No!! Did I love their imperfections ? No.... So what was the point of that relationship? it's a complicated thing and if someone chooses me I want it to be their choice without me demanding it.. It's more beautiful that way.

You're not their choice you are an option, when all else fails!