We haven't been official yet because he has a lot of baggage. But he told me that he sees me as his girlfriend in the future. He's been cheated on in every one of his relationships before. He said his fault was that he likes pretty girls. He is a cautious and slow mover (not to blame him). I am willing to be patient with him. But I want to make sure my time and efforts will not go to waste.
We have the same checklist. He's looking for a girl who won't depend on him financially, but is also wanting a trophy wife. I'm a strong, independent, and aggressive woman who doesn't depend on any man, but would also like to be a stay-at-home mom after I'm 30.
We recently had a talk about our boundaries. Although we've been sexually intimate, I've decided to not give him sex in case we do not work out. I'd rather not feel I was being taken advantage of if for some reason we do not work out. I will give him sex if he decides to commit to me (although we agreed to be monogamous).
Me (24 y/o female):
Scorpio Sun
Gemini Moon
Sagittarius Venus
Sagittarius Mercury
Cancer Mars
Him (28 y/o):
Aries Sun
Aquarius Moon
Aries Venus
Gemini Mars
Please let me know what you think. Thanks!
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We have the same checklist. He's looking for a girl who won't depend on him financially, but is also wanting a trophy wife. I'm a strong, independent, and aggressive woman who doesn't depend on any man, but would also like to be a stay-at-home mom after I'm 30.
We recently had a talk about our boundaries. Although we've been sexually intimate, I've decided to not give him sex in case we do not work out. I'd rather not feel I was being taken advantage of if for some reason we do not work out. I will give him sex if he decides to commit to me (although we agreed to be monogamous).
Me (24 y/o female):
Scorpio Sun
Gemini Moon
Sagittarius Venus
Sagittarius Mercury
Cancer Mars
Him (28 y/o):
Aries Sun
Aquarius Moon
Aries Venus
Gemini Mars
Please let me know what you think. Thanks!