Cap moon man cuddling after sex!!!

Venus in Scorpio! ... After making love to the fullest he made sure I laid nicely on his chest with more deep n meaningful conversations..... Deeply n intensely.... Do I have his heart yet _—

I feel like we are in love .. yet it's so god damn difficult but the affection deepen and more intensely each time... More questions n more questions..... also always purposely try to get a reaction out of me bout other girls.... what is this really... _—. Also. How long does it take u to tell someone u r in love!! ?

reaction about other girls how ?

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reaction about other girls how ?

Like bringing up other girls on purpose. or... that whole manipulation thing or try to make me jealous n insecure but then it's nothing... there's much more to the story >

How long have you two been seeing each other and how long have you been having sex ?

When does he do this ? If it's annoying you, say so.

It annoys me so much when a guy does this, especially if I'm having sex with him. Just tell him that if he mentions another girl again, you won't sleep with him again (in a cute but serious way). He is acting as he pleases , not considering your feelings ? guess what , you can do the same, you want special treatment and you want to be the only girl that gets attention around the guy you're seeing. What you want makes much more sense.

The whole story is, I slept with other guys when we were seeing each other not knowing on my end that we were exclusive as we never discussed it . It's all solved now but slowly slowly he's discovering who they are n yes bringing other girl in the conversation to get my reaction.. maybe so I know how It feels for him... That's not the point of this topic though... _—

How do you not know you are exclusive? 😆

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The whole story is, I slept with other guys when we were seeing each other not knowing on my end that we were exclusive as we never discussed it . It's all solved now but slowly slowly he's discovering who they are n yes bringing other girl in the conversation to get my reaction.. maybe so I know how It feels for him... That's not the point of this topic though... _—

Yeah, that's the manipulation, jealous, vindictive, insecure side of ViS right there but it's probably more done out of hurt rather than malice. We can be wankers sometimes!

This thread makes me curious of the personality traits of a fixed sun and cardinal moon.
I wonder if the "go getter" moon helps the fixed sun become more assertive and the energy becomes more driven and focused.

Hmmm, I have never thought of that before.
Off to create a new thread. Toots!!

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My husband is Scorpio sun/Venus and Cap Moon.He's a cuddling machine after sex 😛 He gets offended if I turn my back or get up to grab a glass of water. They are very slow to love but once they are into you,they won't back out and get fully involved.He was the one who confessed his love for me first.He was seeing a Cancer girl when we met.He dropped her after a month because he got attached to me.He told me he wanted me,showed me texts where he told her he didn't want to continue with her because he's with me.I could see he was trying hard to prove that he was interested in me and that he has closed other options.He gave me password to his e-mail and facebook. I am reluctant and shy so it took him months to win my trust and my heart.Venus in Scorpio is relentless 😛 We have been together for 4 years now.Initially,when we were dating he would try to get a reaction out of me and make me jealous.I maintained my composure and it frustrated him,lol.But once it was pushed too far and I let out my anger,he had a smirk on his face like " I won" lol.I told him once and for all that I'm darn possessive about him and it irks me when he tries to get a reaction out of me.He hasn't repeated that again.Cap Moons are very cautious who they give their heart to.Once they commit, there is no turning back for them.

They seem to like reluctant shy types.
I don't know the back story but more than likely he and the Cancer girl were not a love match.

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My husband is Scorpio sun/Venus and Cap Moon.He's a cuddling machine after sex 😛 He gets offended if I turn my back or get up to grab a glass of water. They are very slow to love but once they are into you,they won't back out and get fully involved.He was the one who confessed his love for me first.He was seeing a Cancer girl when we met.He dropped her after a month because he got attached to me.He told me he wanted me,showed me texts where he told her he didn't want to continue with her because he's with me.I could see he was trying hard to prove that he was interested in me and that he has closed other options.He gave me password to his e-mail and facebook. I am reluctant and shy so it took him months to win my trust and my heart.Venus in Scorpio is relentless 😛 We have been together for 4 years now.Initially,when we were dating he would try to get a reaction out of me and make me jealous.I maintained my composure and it frustrated him,lol.But once it was pushed too far and I let out my anger,he had a smirk on his face like " I won" lol.I told him once and for all that I'm darn possessive about him and it irks me when he tries to get a reaction out of me.He hasn't repeated that again.Cap Moons are very cautious who they give their heart to.Once they commit, there is no turning back for them.

Aww this is cute! ViS is relentless but it's not always a good thing. Good one for standing ground with the jealousy thing. We do push buttons for reactions as we see more this way than if we simply asked the question. We know when we have pushed the boundary and tend not to keep pushing once we feel secure in that particular issue.

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My husband is Scorpio sun/Venus and Cap Moon.He's a cuddling machine after sex 😛 He gets offended if I turn my back or get up to grab a glass of water. They are very slow to love but once they are into you,they won't back out and get fully involved.He was the one who confessed his love for me first.He was seeing a Cancer girl when we met.He dropped her after a month because he got attached to me.He told me he wanted me,showed me texts where he told her he didn't want to continue with her because he's with me.I could see he was trying hard to prove that he was interested in me and that he has closed other options.He gave me password to his e-mail and facebook. I am reluctant and shy so it took him months to win my trust and my heart.Venus in Scorpio is relentless 😛 We have been together for 4 years now.Initially,when we were dating he would try to get a reaction out of me and make me jealous.I maintained my composure and it frustrated him,lol.But once it was pushed too far and I let out my anger,he had a smirk on his face like " I won" lol.I told him once and for all that I'm darn possessive about him and it irks me when he tries to get a reaction out of me.He hasn't repeated that again.Cap Moons are very cautious who they give their heart to.Once they commit, there is no turning back for them.

They seem to like reluctant shy types.
I don't know the back story but more than likely he and the Cancer girl were not a love match.

I've a Cancer Moon.I am Fixed and a Masculine sign.I can change roles if needed.They were having communication issues.He was withdrawing from her.I don't know her chart.But oh well! It worked out for us and he's all mine so that's what that matters.I believe that if two people are meant to be together,they end up together regardless of which sign is more compatible with them.Love is above everything else.I was with a Libra for 5 years,It didn't work out for us.

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😆 at him dumping a Cancer sun for a Cancer moon.
I had a feeling you had Cancer in your chart somewhere.
So you pretty much have Cancer traits which suits his Scorpio sun.

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My husband is Scorpio sun/Venus and Cap Moon.He's a cuddling machine after sex 😛 He gets offended if I turn my back or get up to grab a glass of water. They are very slow to love but once they are into you,they won't back out and get fully involved.He was the one who confessed his love for me first.He was seeing a Cancer girl when we met.He dropped her after a month because he got attached to me.He told me he wanted me,showed me texts where he told her he didn't want to continue with her because he's with me.I could see he was trying hard to prove that he was interested in me and that he has closed other options.He gave me password to his e-mail and facebook. I am reluctant and shy so it took him months to win my trust and my heart.Venus in Scorpio is relentless 😛 We have been together for 4 years now.Initially,when we were dating he would try to get a reaction out of me and make me jealous.I maintained my composure and it frustrated him,lol.But once it was pushed too far and I let out my anger,he had a smirk on his face like " I won" lol.I told him once and for all that I'm darn possessive about him and it irks me when he tries to get a reaction out of me.He hasn't repeated that again.Cap Moons are very cautious who they give their heart to.Once they commit, there is no turning back for them.

They seem to like reluctant shy types.
I don't know the back story but more than likely he and the Cancer girl were not a love match.

we do, at least I do.
I like submissive types, but someone that I know who can hold her own.

that sounds weirdly worded.

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I understand what you are saying.
Yes I noticed this attraction from a Scorpio guy when I was being this way.

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My husband is Scorpio sun/Venus and Cap Moon.He's a cuddling machine after sex 😛 He gets offended if I turn my back or get up to grab a glass of water. They are very slow to love but once they are into you,they won't back out and get fully involved.He was the one who confessed his love for me first.He was seeing a Cancer girl when we met.He dropped her after a month because he got attached to me.He told me he wanted me,showed me texts where he told her he didn't want to continue with her because he's with me.I could see he was trying hard to prove that he was interested in me and that he has closed other options.He gave me password to his e-mail and facebook. I am reluctant and shy so it took him months to win my trust and my heart.Venus in Scorpio is relentless 😛 We have been together for 4 years now.Initially,when we were dating he would try to get a reaction out of me and make me jealous.I maintained my composure and it frustrated him,lol.But once it was pushed too far and I let out my anger,he had a smirk on his face like " I won" lol.I told him once and for all that I'm darn possessive about him and it irks me when he tries to get a reaction out of me.He hasn't repeated that again.Cap Moons are very cautious who they give their heart to.Once they commit, there is no turning back for them.

They seem to like reluctant shy types.
I don't know the back story but more than likely he and the Cancer girl were not a love match.

we do, at least I do.
I like submissive types, but someone that I know who can hold her own.

that sounds weirdly worded.

My Cappy Moon does not like clingy women.Cap mooners are very independent.I have a feminine moon sign and masculine sun sign.I switch roles according to the situation.I can be head strong and get the work done when I put my mind to it.He likes that I can manage him,home and work without making a fuss.I can also be highly submissive strangely for an air sign.There is a good balance.

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I enjoyed reading your stories. I have a masculine side(Aqua moon) and femini

that sounds weirdly worded.

My Cappy Moon does not like clingy women.Cap mooners are very independent.I have a feminine moon sign and masculine sun sign.I switch roles according to the situation.I can be head strong and get the work done when I put my mind to it.He likes that I can manage him,home and work without making a fuss.I can also be highly submissive strangely for an air sign.There is a good balance.

I enjoyed reading your stories. I have a masculine side(Aqua moon) and feminine side(Taurus sun) which he seems to bring out my sun side more... I'm not at all quiet in public n very out going... I'm a different person with him though. Calm peaceful n just very relaxing.. No need to talk much where he's very affectionate n talkative in person... Long story short, I think he's doing all kind of tests n bring a few girls to get my reaction for revenge it's so complicated coz I'm s dancer n he's a singer n our love life get complicated when that gets involve. My dance partner now I slept with which he found out a few days ago as he observed n observed... He says he doesn't care yet in person asked me who I danced with in class... Oh dear, I just wish it was alot easier than what It is... he knows in wholeheartedlu into him n is in love with him n would drop the world , just gets difficult when there's security on his part involved with ich turned into, manipulation, games n so forth... It's been a year now but don't get me wrong, we r perfect n amazing together but when there's social life involved, it can get messy. I'm stuck really .... not so sure what his true feelings are..

His insecurity . **. I am no longer sleeping with anyone just him n he's aware. He's just trying to bring back the past.... _—

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Posted by saweetz1988
The whole story is, I slept with other guys when we were seeing each other not knowing on my end that we were exclusive as we never discussed it . It's all solved now but slowly slowly he's discovering who they are n yes bringing other girl in the conversation to get my reaction.. maybe so I know how It feels for him... That's not the point of this topic though... _—

Yeah, that's the manipulation, jealous, vindictive, insecure side of ViS right there but it's probably more done out of hurt rather than malice. We can be wankers sometimes!

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I am aware n know it too too well... It gets annoying when he doesn't admit though that's the thing... then why ask million questions!!! _—

Posted by saweetz1988
also always purposely try to get a reaction out of me bout other girls.... ?

Someone in love wouldn't do this.

UNLESS, they are unsure about your feelings.

Posted by saweetz1988
The whole story is, I slept with other guys when we were seeing each other not knowing on my end that we were exclusive as we never discussed it . It's all solved now but slowly slowly he's discovering who they are n yes bringing other girl in the conversation to get my reaction.. maybe so I know how It feels for him... That's not the point of this topic though... _—

Lordy, lordy... how many guys were you sleeping with?

The reason I ask is because I personally don't want to be with someone who's had so many, especially within a certain time frame.

He's probably doing this out of spite. Otherwise, I can't imagine purposely imposing insecurity like that onto someone. He's probably a little bit pissed that you were with other people, even though he won't admit it to themselves. Scorp venus has a possessive streak and is not one who's willing to share (actually the thought that someone I'm sleeping with is sleeping with other people turns my stomach) and cap moon can be kind of cruel and spiteful when we want to be.

He'd proably love it if you got pissed and told him off for talking about other girls when you're supposed to be exclusive. It would let him know you're his and he's yours. Scorp venus needs that.

I'm not judging you. Just being honest from the other angle. And if he thought you were exclusive, and you didn't know you were, that's his fault and he's probably already taken responsibility for that.

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The whole story is, I slept with other guys when we were seeing each other not knowing on my end that we were exclusive as we never discussed it . It's all solved now but slowly slowly he's discovering who they are n yes bringing other girl in the conversation to get my reaction.. maybe so I know how It feels for him... That's not the point of this topic though... _—

Yeah, that's the manipulation, jealous, vindictive, insecure side of ViS right there but it's probably more done out of hurt rather than malice. We can be wankers sometimes!

I am aware n know it too too well... It gets annoying when he doesn't admit though that's the thing... then why ask million questions!!! _—

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It's subconscious down to his core. He can't admit something he's not aware he's doing.

What kind of questions is he asking you? You don't have to respond, but if it's to feel you out, or catch you in a lie, or see if you're consistent, or to find out if you're faithful....then what I wrote above is right above applies. It is in line with mistrust.