Scorpio man.. Vacation fling or more..?

You should have only said this and it was obvious you were in over your head. Typical Virgo statements for "I am so into him"

Posted by virlib01
So cocky and rude.

As for the rest of the topic, I hate it already.

God gave you an Aries Moon and you cheat? Blasphemy.

-.-

I get it. It's dxp filters.

But yeah if I had a penny for every time "He is so annoying!" translated to "I love him deeply" in Virgo language..

Stop teasing Virgo makebelieve innocent, Scorp.

*innocence

Virgo, have a sit down with an Aries Moon and ask yourself this:

"Why was I attracted to a Gemini Moon? What is wrong with me?"

with YOUR Aries Moon.

FUCK THIS KEYBOARD

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Posted by Damnata

God gave you an Aries Moon and you cheat? Blasphemy.

*angry face*

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Speaking of angry faces..my sincere condoleances on behalf of your moon for another year close to being old and further away from childhood. In other words, Happy birthday.

Virgo I'm just going to guess that from the moment you said you had a boyfriend it was more about ego to him than anything else. I don't know how it would've played out otherwise..but yeah.

I'm not a Scorpio though.

lust.

I cant believe it only took him 2 days to conquer you with a boyfriend.

looks like virgo men are not the only ones who have a cheating sex problem.

I think your lesson was the grass is not greener on the other side. It's normal to have problems just because a guy tells you what you want to hear doesn't make him better than your bf.

And I bet you will never admit you cheated on him. Probably appreciate him more after you done it.

Since we all know you are not going to tell on yourself don't get played again. Atleast break up if you going to let another guy hunt and conquer you.

Like I said, watch the guilt aftermath in a Virgo's mind when they know they're in the wrong.

You need to shift focus here. This guy wasn't all that but you projected cravings you had in you and lustful wishes on him. It could've been anyone in his place, therefore all this high of emotion will subside as soon as you gain clarity.

Did you come clean to the boyfriend? It's clear you aren't into him so don't let loneliness trick you into believing you should go back to him. When you cheated you made a choice for him too, since he wasn't aware of the fact. He deserves to meet someone else who will be into him and won't cheat.

flesh is weak.

It's all about self control.

and the mind is a terrible thing to waste.

Posted by virlib01
I'm a Virgo with Aries moon and Venus in Scorpio. He's a Scorpio with Gemini moon and Venus in Scorpio.

I'm just trying to figure out if this was a vacation fling or more. I met him in the carribean and turns out we lived 15 mins away from each other. He was reallyyyyyyyy pushy and persuasive but I didn't want anything to do with him because I still had a bf (long distance). He tried everything to convince me that I didn't have a real bf and made fun of me for being in a long distance relationship (he said it's not a real relationship and no surprise it wasn't working) He persisted all day and night and eventually met me for dinner.

The first night we made out passionately after hours of me resisting and then I eventually kicked him out of my room.

That didn't take much effort. Clearly he wasn't wrong if a complete stranger could get you to cheat on your boyfriend.

Meh. It's was just a fling and he's not all that impressed with you. You tumbled like a pile of sticks.

PS if you would like to be with a Scorp in the future learn to edit/be more concise. You rattle on and on about irrelevant stuff. It's annoying.

Posted by Damnata
Virgo, have a sit down with an Aries Moon and ask yourself this:

"Why was I attracted to a Gemini Moon? What is wrong with me?"

Hater.

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Posted by Damnata
Virgo, have a sit down with an Aries Moon and ask yourself this:

"Why was I attracted to a Gemini Moon? What is wrong with me?"

I actually said this quite a few times.

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You too? Smh...

"ohhhh dez 'hoes ain't loyal"

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Posted by virlib01
Lol na I'm not going to lie.. When someone gets under my skin it means I like them.. Otherwise why would I be bothered to care. But his attitude was actually bothering me. The fact that I liked him is why it bothered me..

Any analysis into his Scorpio behaviour??

That was all his Gemini moon. The flakeyness, The wanting sex without any connection. Most important the game used to get you. His talk about conquering you only makes it more obvious.

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😆!... 😐 No.

OP, I don't think you're a slt. You're not here sharing bragging stories about serial one-night-stands for goodness sake and you were in an unsatisfying long-distance relationship. Lots of people have vacation flings. I was in a long-dist relationship for four years so I understand. I'm also Scorp Venus.. I've only had one casual FWB sex thing. I fully understand how you felt, cheating must have weighed heavily on your conscious and casual sex is ultimately unsatisfying yet at the same time you crave physical passion and give in on a very primal level..

This guy sounds like he was just playing the vacation resort field unfortunately. I think that's a pretty common thing single guys do to amuse themselves on vacation. I absolutely do not agree that this behavior stems from his Gemini moon.. I myself am Gem moon combined as said w/ Scorp venus and like I said.. one casual sex relationship ever. It's not a G moon thing.. Most likely his Mars.. my guess is Scorpio, Sagg, or Aquarius? Or maybe impulsive Aries?

Btw.. my one casual fwb thing was not during my long-dist thing. I'm not saying it's ok.. cheating is never cool. I'd guess this Scorp guy won't be interested in real life relationship because he knows you are capable of cheating.. I agree w the advice to take some time to be by yourself and Learn Self Control. If you were unhappy you should've had the foresight to end your long-dist relationship Before going in vacation. Please ignore the advice to get back w your ex and appreciate him.. most ridiculous advice ever.

Posted by virlib01

I feel played.

..of course you do. You willingly participated in a game of girl gone wild & spread your legs to a guy who challenged you that your boyfriend wasn't real. You showed him eh?

You don't get to play victim, the only victim here is your boyfriend.

(that shitty feeling you say you have going on?...that's a small peak of karma)

Posted by Hotbeefy
... What's yours & his Mars & Neptune?

How does Neptune come into play? Genuinely curious.

Mars obviously an important factor.

you're not the type to cheat and sleep around?

*scratches head

you just did........

you have a very low degree in Neptune meaning you give in to illusion more than you realize. You are a baby in the illusion area. The higher your degree the more mature you are in that certain planet.

Mars in Aquarius.. Bam! Makes better sense. I thought casual sex seemed odd for so much Scorpio.. Mars Aquarius has interest in lots of different sexual experiences and can be very detached in sex. Google Mars Aquarius, it's interesting if not disheartening. _??' My husband is actually Mars Aquarius and very honest and open about his interests. He has gotten his curious exploration out of the way and his other placements combined make him desire and feel content with monogamy. He likes interesting experimental things though with me..

That question marks bit was supposed to be a sad face..

Posted by Octoberbaby91
you're not the type to cheat and sleep around?

*scratches head

you just did........

you have a very low degree in Neptune meaning you give in to illusion more than you realize. You are a baby in the illusion area. The higher your degree the more mature you are in that certain planet.

Someone can say cheating is typically out of character for them and still not be entirely incapable of doing it.. and I would hardly call ONE instance of casual vacation sex "sleeping around." Sleeping around indicates going around and sleeping with multiple individuals on multiple occasions. A serial slt is sleeping around, lol, as I mentioned earlier. Octbaby, am I incorrect in assuming your chart is relatively Fixed-heavy?

I think you saying you 'deserve' these comments is a bit harsh unless you're into self abuse...although according to Damnata that's a virgo thing, lol. You had some good sex on a vacation, hot sun and a few drinks and a man you lust after...well, shit happens. Just leave it behind and see it for what it was. I wouldn't bother trying to be in contact with this man

Posted by virlib01
I'm a Virgo with blah blah blah

Scorpio man.. blah blah blah.

Sorry, can't help ya.

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Posted by Octoberbaby91
you're not the type to cheat and sleep around?

*scratches head

you just did........

you have a very low degree in Neptune meaning you give in to illusion more than you realize. You are a baby in the illusion area. The higher your degree the more mature you are in that certain planet.

Someone can say cheating is typically out of character for them and still not be entirely incapable of doing it.. and I would hardly call ONE instance of casual vacation sex "sleeping around." Sleeping around indicates going around and sleeping with multiple individuals on multiple occasions. A serial slt is sleeping around, lol, as I mentioned earlier. Octbaby, am I incorrect in assuming your chart is relatively Fixed-heavy?

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not entirely....I have my chart in another thread its in the moon sign my title is "sag moons" go look and see lol

i can see from an outside perspective how gullible and naive we can be, as virgos. and how this can be exasperating to the people who care and want to protect us. i understand the magnetism you feel towards this scorpio.. and the brevity of the relationship makes it all the more magnetic.. how can someone you just met and who treats you this way make such an impression on you? the truth that we cannot see in our perspective, clouded with fantasies and idealism, is that this man actually isn't at all important to you. he isn't some white knight. you are just bored and restless... which is perfectly normal! but... don't mistaken it for something else.

just curious, what is your bf's sign? i'm guessing earth as well?

I don't think you were wrong about what you were feeling. Actually I don't think feelings by themselves can be wrong or right. Actions can.

No need to guilt yourself into the ground. You should look back on this and figure it out some time for now but not until the emotional bomb from the Aries Moon dies down. Then you can use that Virgo Sun..now you're just oozing emotions everywhere.

That bf of yours must really care about you if he's willing to overlook this. Or not care that much to begin with. (unless this is an open relationship or something). It's good you came clean.