Taurus Moon Baffled By Pisces Moons....

I was wondering if other Taurus or earth moons have experienced what I seem to go through with Pisces moons. I seem to attract them (along with Pisces suns), but just have trouble understanding/communicating with them.

Although very sweet and forgiving people I find them- not all just those that I've come across- highly unreliable, unrealistic, passive, lacking assertiveness, flippant...forgetful...thin-skinned...needy... and seriously lacking much needed boundaries. They appear to have a skewed sense of intuition that doesn't heed against those who genuinely don't care about them, and offers no clue as to those who do.

This drives me absolutely bonkers.

I have a ton of Taurus/earth energy in my chart (moon, mercury, mars, chiron), in addition to Virgo in my 2nd and 3rd house (communication).

Any advice on how to deal with these watery moons? I have a TON of patience, but I find my Venusian patience is wearing thin.

My mom and let me start by saying, I love that woman but she can be flippant and needy and thin skinned but she's also a gemini, so she has been able to work it and somehow this seriously just makes her more charming! 🙂

I was married to a Taurus moon for over a decade!

He used to say I was like a Ferrari: from 0 to 300 kmh in one second.

He was referring to my temper 😛

Posted by starlover

Posted by Undine
I was married to a Taurus moon for over a decade!

He used to say I was like a Ferrari: from 0 to 300 kmh in one second.

He was referring to my temper 😛

..not your sex drive?

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Sex drive was inexistent at that time. I mean it was inexistent during a decade of marriage!

When he wanted sex he had to point out: "You've signed...!" (the marriage certificate) 😛

Analyse that, Taurus moon 😄!

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Posted by stillwaterspmt
I was wondering if other Taurus or earth moons have experienced what I seem to go through with Pisces moons. I seem to attract them (along with Pisces suns), but just have trouble understanding/communicating with them.

Although very sweet and forgiving people I find them- not all just those that I've come across- highly unreliable, unrealistic, passive, lacking assertiveness, flippant...forgetful...thin-skinned...needy... and seriously lacking much needed boundaries. They appear to have a skewed sense of intuition that doesn't heed against those who genuinely don't care about them, and offers no clue as to those who do.

This drives me absolutely bonkers.

I have a ton of Taurus/earth energy in my chart (moon, mercury, mars, chiron), in addition to Virgo in my 2nd and 3rd house (communication).

Any advice on how to deal with these watery moons? I have a TON of patience, but I find my Venusian patience is wearing thin.

Give them a break!!! Read up on pisces and you will have a better understanding.. They seem passive etc as they are not normally aware themselves!!! They are ruled by Neptune... Dreams, illusion. They don't have any boundaries so can't really instill any! They need time and understanding. Just don't shit on them!!

I had to break a friendship with a Pisces sun many many moons ago as I couldn't understand her up and down emotions and put up with a lot of crap from her. She was also manipulative. But now as I have gotten older and looked inside myself I can relate as I have a Venus and Saturn in Pisces and they act in a similar way to the moon but the moon is stronger.

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I have given as many breaks as many times as my heart has been broken. Read up on Pisces and still don't understand. How much time will it take? I'm not trying to view them in a negative way-I understand and treasure their positive traits, but how seriously should I take someone who doesn't take my feelings seriously? Or better yet- as you put it- are not even AWARE of how they're treating others most of the time. Just sharing my experiences- which it appears I'm not the only one with these sentiments.... I just feel I probably gel better with earth moons... I need tangible, honest proof that my feelings are being reciprocated here in reality and I'm valued in a friendship/relationship.

Posted by starlover
I was with one

He was a total space cadet (Aqua sun)

Having said that, he smoked weed all the time. I just could not connect with him....it felt like trying to grasp water. He had lovely hazel eyes but there was a constant *far away* look in them (stoned probably lol)



When we made love he would not look me in the eye and when i asked him why he told me *I dare not, i don't want to fall in love with you*



Poor guy

Seriously?! Don't know how you did it... That's a great description though... does feel like I'm trying to grasp water... I'll trade the dreamy eyes for something true and solid... :-/

Posted by stillwaterspmt
I was wondering if other Taurus or earth moons have experienced what I seem to go through with Pisces moons. I seem to attract them (along with Pisces suns), but just have trouble understanding/communicating with them.

Although very sweet and forgiving people I find them- not all just those that I've come across- highly unreliable, unrealistic, passive, lacking assertiveness, flippant...forgetful...thin-skinned...needy... and seriously lacking much needed boundaries. They appear to have a skewed sense of intuition that doesn't heed against those who genuinely don't care about them, and offers no clue as to those who do.

This drives me absolutely bonkers.

I have a ton of Taurus/earth energy in my chart (moon, mercury, mars, chiron), in addition to Virgo in my 2nd and 3rd house (communication).

Any advice on how to deal with these watery moons? I have a TON of patience, but I find my Venusian patience is wearing thin.

One of my good friends and probably the sweetest person I know is sag sun, Pisces moon. I'm scor sun, Taurus moon.

I have always felt more like her protector but as of last year I did a reevaluation of people in my life and was fed up with her flakeyness. I just distanced myself bc, like you, I don't have the patience and don't know how to deal with her anymore. We live at a far distance, and honestly communication could have solved some things.

She contacted me months ago telling me that if think she is a bad friend to let her know bc sometimes she doesn't realize. I haven't had a serious talk with her but I will. I have come to realize she just can't be relied upon, and as a Taurus moon that's very disappointing.

Also have a Scorp sun Pisces moon friend. She is extremely detached. Bitchy even. I've distanced myself from her too. She's more of a friend of a friend. Also we traveled well together until I realized how bossy she is. I give up



Overall, I find them to be sweet people but just to keep at maybe a distance

One more thought - for being a water moon I find them to not be very good at using thier intuition. Thank, or they are acting lik they don't know :-p

I'm being driven bonkers by one now by Pisces sun and moon. Still going back and forth. We want to kill and hug each other all of the time. 😆 He just doesn't care.

Posted by stillwaterspmt
I was wondering if other Taurus or earth moons have experienced what I seem to go through with Pisces moons. I seem to attract them (along with Pisces suns), but just have trouble understanding/communicating with them.

Although very sweet and forgiving people I find them- not all just those that I've come across- highly unreliable, unrealistic, passive, lacking assertiveness, flippant...forgetful...thin-skinned...needy... and seriously lacking much needed boundaries. They appear to have a skewed sense of intuition that doesn't heed against those who genuinely don't care about them, and offers no clue as to those who do.

This drives me absolutely bonkers.

I have a ton of Taurus/earth energy in my chart (moon, mercury, mars, chiron), in addition to Virgo in my 2nd and 3rd house (communication).

Any advice on how to deal with these watery moons? I have a TON of patience, but I find my Venusian patience is wearing thin.

I'm a Pisces Moon. None of the above description sounds like me. I'm assertive, thick skinned & set boundaries. I can be unreliable at times though. It really bothers me that I'm like that. I'm better than I was a few years ago though. I've learned to use my intuition correctly. It did take some practice. I get an A+ for using it now. Lots of trial & error. Pisces moons are sweet & charming. We can be difficult to deal with if you don't get us. My best friend is a Taurus Moon. She gets me.

Trust me a Pisces moon knows exactly how you're feeling... Very intuitive.... I'm a Pisces moon... Hubby Taurus moon..... The best relationship I have ever been in... Will be in.... My Taurus moon is very protective .... Which is perfect because I can be extremely sensitive .... He is also excellent with money stability .... Which balances me out as well....

I'm an Aries sun Taurus moon and my sis is gem sun Pisces moon and OMG is she hard to deal with! Secretive, manipulative and very untrustworthy. It's always about her!

My sons dad Pisces sun and moon and pretty much the same!

But my friend of 32yrs, Aqua sun Pisces moon is very private but nowhere near as secretive or manipualtive as the other 2 I've had experience with.

But that's just my experience. My strongest connections tend to be cancer moons

Posted by littlenanobyte


This is an actual conversation that took place:

Me: "Hey do you wanna go out to eat tonight?"

Sister: "No it's too busy to go out on Friday nights"

Hours later....

Sister: "wanna go to the grape festival"

Me: "so let me get this straight, it's too busy to go to a restaurant to eat on Friday nights, but it's quite alright to go to a carnival with thousands of people, please explain to me using logical reasoning how that makes sense at all"

Sister: "well it just feels less busy at the festival than a restaurant"



Uhh what the fuck? ? This is just one example too. I know personally at least 10 people with this moon which I have all recorded on astrotheme, and they all have this weird logic that only makes sense to them.

And the conclusions they jump to, ?? can't imagine if one of these things were to be a detective, it'd be HILARIOUS.

It is frustrating, and I have found most often that communication is not possible with them. I have learned to not waste my time trying to ration in arguments, rather just nod and smile and let them live their life in the way that works for them.

"Intuition" escapes them completely. Well they have intuition, but it's all wrong and just bizarre ??

I have noticed also that Pisces suns are NOT like this! It's just the moon's.

Pisces moon here, that conversation made perfect sense to me.. lol

Your sister didnt feel like going out to eat, it was what she felt at that moment, you were probably going to go somewhere you always go or she was remembering a recent bad/boring experience. The grape festival is fun or new.

The reasons she gave was a lie but it wasn't an intentional lie just what popped into her mind at that moment.

To understand a pisces moon think of a syllogism, you know:

if A->B and B->C then A->C

Now turn the syllogism on its side, ie. take all the C statements and try to come up with your own A's and B's.

For example:

I dont want to go out to eat because it's too busy.

"dont want to go out to eat is the C statement", the "it's too busy" is the A/B statement

I want to go to the grape festival because it feels less busy

"I want to go to the grape festival" the "because it feels less busy" is the A/B statement

now string together the C statements "I dont want to go out to eat" "I want to go to the grape festival" and come up with your own A and B statements: Ahh this person is bored with where we eat or doesnt like places we usually go.

That is your pisces moon logic.

Posted by Ixion120
Lol I have a pisces moon...that is not my logic at all 😆.

damnnit.. lol

Posted by littlenanobyte
I will shake both of you and then pop a Xanax bc that is what it takes.

😆

Posted by littlenanobyte


... but why say the part about it being less busy? It's just fucking stupid 😆 it's like she always has to make an excuse that doesn't make any sense instead of just coming out and saying "I don't want to go because I don't want to go." It is really that simple, and it's not like it's gonna hurt my feelings? I don't care if she doesn't want to go, but I do care when she says shit that doesn't make sense bc it's irksome to me.

Posted by littlenanobyte
Talking to Pisces moon - you get the information you want, but it's wedged between faulty logic and odd excuses 😕

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she thinks the odd excuse will soften the blow and that makes her feel better. maybe the make-believe play world logic works better with kids than adults... I see where you're coming from.

"Not all pisces moons..."

Posted by littlenanobyte
And if you ask to explain it, the "reasoning" becomes even more weird.

I just revisited that conversation in text, because I was curious what her response was to my asking her how that made sense, she says "well it seems busier because we have to wait for over an hour to be seated at a restaurant."

-side note- we have NEVER waited over an hour, an hour, or even 30 minutes to be seated anywhere, on any day.

Me: "well the line to get into the festival could be long and over an hour to get in."

"Well it's just different okay! I'm done discussing this!"

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I bet if you suggested an exciting new restaurant with an hour long wait she'd be game for it.. lol you should try it..

Posted by littlenanobyte
But seriously though, can you guys imagine having the thought process like what rabidtalker just explained? It must hurt your head to come up with so much ..... interesting things. (I deleted the word "bullshit" and exchanged it for "interesting things".)

lol. i dont know, it's not conscious i think it's just what the brain spits out.... 😛

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Posted by littlenanobyte
And if you ask to explain it, the "reasoning" becomes even more weird.

I just revisited that conversation in text, because I was curious what her response was to my asking her how that made sense, she says "well it seems busier because we have to wait for over an hour to be seated at a restaurant."

-side note- we have NEVER waited over an hour, an hour, or even 30 minutes to be seated anywhere, on any day.

Me: "well the line to get into the festival could be long and over an hour to get in."

"Well it's just different okay! I'm done discussing this!"

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I bet if you suggested an exciting new restaurant with an hour long wait she'd be game for it.. lol you should try it..

Ha! I've done this before, changed things up a bit with the same "unpleasant condition" like long waits, too far to drive, etc. but sometimes it's appealing to her. Driving an hour to the casino is always a yes! Visiting me 45 mins away from her? It's too far

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see? lol it strangely makes sense no? maybe? 😛

she wants to go to the casino she didnt want to visit you, even typing that in made me think i was hurting your feelings..... you have a good point though, i dont know where or why it is the case to make the excuse. I always thought of it as politeness. *shrug*

obviously the solution is to move near the casino 😛

Posted by littlenanobyte
Sooo glad I read this thread. I have seriously asked multiple people experienced in astrology why I am so turned off and repulsed by this moon. The patterns and sheer number of experiences I've had warrant some serious thought. It's a mystery.

Thank you so much for your thoughts. They made me feel more at ease with my observations. I'm glad to know that it's not just my imagination. 🙂

I agree with your remedy - just let them live in their own world - and keep alert around them at all times, lol.

Posted by stillwaterspmt
I was wondering if other Taurus or earth moons have experienced what I seem to go through with Pisces moons. I seem to attract them (along with Pisces suns), but just have trouble understanding/communicating with them.

Although very sweet and forgiving people I find them- not all just those that I've come across- highly unreliable, unrealistic, passive, lacking assertiveness, flippant...forgetful...thin-skinned...needy... and seriously lacking much needed boundaries. They appear to have a skewed sense of intuition that doesn't heed against those who genuinely don't care about them, and offers no clue as to those who do.

This drives me absolutely bonkers.

I have a ton of Taurus/earth energy in my chart (moon, mercury, mars, chiron), in addition to Virgo in my 2nd and 3rd house (communication).

Any advice on how to deal with these watery moons? I have a TON of patience, but I find my Venusian patience is wearing thin.

You may have answered your own question. You've got Virgo ruling your 2nd and 3rd houses. So with Virgo in the 3rd house, you'd probably find Pisceans incomprehensible.

Pisces moon are deep .... And misunderstood obviously... If y'all can't handle this water sensitive energy .. Please leave them alone.... I see manipulation being tossed around in this thread ... I can assure you that is not a Pisces trait.... But slithering like a fish in a sea of many elements ... That's a Pisces ... It's not manipulation ... It's going with the flow... Hubby is a Scorpio sun Taurus moon... He gets me.... Protects me... Very sensitive as well... Pisces moons are very receptive to people's energy ... We absorb emotions around us... Hubby makes sure he blocks things for me that may harm me emotionally..... He is extremely stable with his emotions ... Me not as much.... So these moon signs mesh very well... Earth and water.... You need water to help earth elements grow... This common knowledge.... Your sun and Venus or even Mars may be conflicted... Js.. Pisces moons are sweet hearts ... They dream a lot... Far out dreams but this moon placement is very very sensitive and deep

Interesting ? did my font from faulty or well explained .... I'm sure it has lot to with my Mars in Scorpio .... I can only speak for myself .... I sense people very well ... Including your font .... Pisces moons are all about making others happy ... If you are not experiencing this with Pisces moon they could be still maturing.... I am all about healing the world.... Saving people ... Being a shoulder to lean on and crying after you cry on my shoulder ... We feel what others feel the most out of all moons signs... Matter we can take on other peoples energies... Example if you're angry... It automatically can make us angry .... If you're sad.... We get sad with us too... Mature Pisces moons tend to feel so misunderstood for long periods which can cause addictictions and depression .... All energies usually consumed by people around them.... So you may want to look at how you ate coming off to a Pisces moon... I assure us they see you .... The good and the bad.... Very intuitive actually I am psychic.... This is another known trait for Pisces moons.... Once they learn how to master their flaws or what they may think are flaws at the time.... They can be very powerful for this world in general ... Blessing to you ?

Excuse the typos hun since you have trouble understanding us ... So it may go over your head hun... Take care

Cleo was known as a fake .... I'm very real .... Take care hun ?

Posted by Bottabing
Interesting ? did my font from faulty or well explained .... I'm sure it has lot to with my Mars in Scorpio .... I can only speak for myself .... I sense people very well ... Including your font .... Pisces moons are all about making others happy ... If you are not experiencing this with Pisces moon they could be still maturing.... I am all about healing the world.... Saving people ... Being a shoulder to lean on and crying after you cry on my shoulder ... We feel what others feel the most out of all moons signs... Matter we can take on other peoples energies... Example if you're angry... It automatically can make us angry .... If you're sad.... We get sad with us too... Mature Pisces moons tend to feel so misunderstood for long periods which can cause addictictions and depression .... All energies usually consumed by people around them.... So you may want to look at how you ate coming off to a Pisces moon... I assure us they see you .... The good and the bad.... Very intuitive actually I am psychic.... This is another known trait for Pisces moons.... Once they learn how to master their flaws or what they may think are flaws at the time.... They can be very powerful for this world in general ... Blessing to you ?

I'm a Pisces Moon. I'm very intuitive, almost psychic, it's scary. I have learned how to "master the flaws" of this moon over the years. I guess u can say I'm more of a mature Pisces moon. I don't allow myself to become consumed with the negative energies around me. I used to years ago but didn't realize this was happening. I can feel other people's vibes/emotions intensely but have learned how to separate their emotions from my own. Pisces moon is a good moon to have as long as u become aware of the powerful aspects to it. My Mars & Venus are airy so I'm sure that helps with lessening the affects of my moon now as well.

Pisces moons are beyond powerful once they recognize how to use the emotions they consume to their benefit... It enhances our psychic abilities ... That is a natural gift for us.. Born natural psychics.. Embrace it @Sofia ....

Posted by Bottabing
Pisces moons are beyond powerful once they recognize how to use the emotions they consume to their benefit... It enhances our psychic abilities ... That is a natural gift for us.. Born natural psychics.. Embrace it @Sofia ....

I agree. Do you think Pisces Venus have the same psychic abilities as us Pisces Moons? I'm going to go with no, at least not in the same way as us.

Posted by aquanib
Pisces moon. Ruins the cool aqua game in love affairs so much......

Probably does. That's why I'm happy with my AquaVenus. Kinda balances out my Pisces moon

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Posted by SofiaV87


Probably does. That's why I'm happy with my AquaVenus. Kinda balances out my Pisces moon

Ye, i'm happy with it too. I shudder at the thought what would be if i had more water placements. Just kill me now and be done with it lol.....

btw, your post up above, on learning how to control it, spot on.

I'd add that i had to adjust to it, move fast and decisively, as if i don't and feelings develop when the other side hasn't developed any of their own, i play with super disadvantage, because i'm just open, sincere, do not play games anymore, calculate etc etc...heart on a sleeve basically, and it mostly hasn't worked at all so far.

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I wouldn't want anymore water placements as well. Most of my chart is air & water .. Learning how to control the Pisces moon side of me took quite some time. It was well worth the wait. What do you mean "feelings develop when the other side hasn't developed any of their own" ? Are u talking about the clash between Pisces & Aqua ?

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What do you mean "feelings develop when the other side hasn't developed any of their own" ? Are u talking about the clash between Pisces & Aqua ?

I mean i crush on someone too soon. Aqua idealisations and pedestaling play a major role in this too and pisces moon emo just gets attached to it lol.

And when that happens, my cool game goes out the window. I start to be honest with the person, telling her how i really feel (because up to then it was a guessing game) and i suppose some women find that unappealing at that stage. idk.....

In some ways, we could say that in particular cases i haven't learned to control my moon as i should have.

The good news is, if i don't have a hunch that it could be something special, i 'crush off' pretty fast too. But when that hunch is there...ayayay....problems everywhere lol.

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I get it. I know how frustrating it can be. You will reign in on that moon all in good time.

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Well I can say water sign women would love that. Well me anyways

There's other problems with water sign women, namely the constant reaffirmations required. It's no problem to say i love you at all, but so many times—? 😄

I'm paraphrasing but you get the idea. 😆

Get yourself one with Virgo Venus. As long as you show it, its fine 🙂

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This is the truth... and it makes me hate my ViV a little less.

ViV loves through action-- so it stands to reason that talk is cheap.

You say 'I love you' but you sure af don't act like it-- and it's such a

simple Venus to make happy, wtf?



Oh you checked the air in my tires.. ?

Had the oil changed... ?

Don't want me to be stranded on the side of the road?

Yeah, I love you, too... have another sammich.



So simple. o.O

@Ixion120

Truly... you are a natural-born Diplomat.

I seem to attract Taurus moons too, and I am Moon in Pisces and Venus in Taurus. I like Taurus Moons, they are cute and friendly and generally generous, but I cannot sense any depth in them. It's all about going to movies, talking about superficial things. They are cool but as friends. So if a Taurus Moon expresses interest, I would see if there is more to them, and usually isn't. Just a sweet person, so they get friendzoned fairly quickly. If they text I wouldn't respond right away.. like whatever. If someone is intense (Scorpio Moon), I'd get obsessed and text and think of them constantly, for example. Taurus Moons are kind of womanizers. All the ones I've known had multiple women that they texted throughout the day and weren't shy about sharing what they're doing. Then they turn around and ask you to hang out, and by that time Pisces Moon had already swam away...

Posted by stillwaterspmt
I was wondering if other Taurus or earth moons have experienced what I seem to go through with Pisces moons. I seem to attract them (along with Pisces suns), but just have trouble understanding/communicating with them.

Although very sweet and forgiving people I find them- not all just those that I've come across- highly unreliable, unrealistic, passive, lacking assertiveness, flippant...forgetful...thin-skinned...needy... and seriously lacking much needed boundaries. They appear to have a skewed sense of intuition that doesn't heed against those who genuinely don't care about them, and offers no clue as to those who do.

This drives me absolutely bonkers.

I have a ton of Taurus/earth energy in my chart (moon, mercury, mars, chiron), in addition to Virgo in my 2nd and 3rd house (communication).

Any advice on how to deal with these watery moons? I have a TON of patience, but I find my Venusian patience is wearing thin.

Don't hold others to the same expectations you hold for yourself. It's just disappointing.

my experience with a Pisces mooner was bizarre to say the least. I'm pretty sure I've only just known the one intimately but he also had mercury in Aqua which I think threw a monkey wrench in our communicating. I just never understood him or his motives. and I don't really care to. doesn't prejudice me from Pisces moons or suns for that matter. but I will be more discerning as to who I invite into my life.