Why Am I always the one who gets dumped?

I always try so hard not to do the mistakes i did in the past relationship.. I always try to learn and be better and ready .. and I try not to get too attached or needy so i can move on easier if it didnt work out ..

But I feel like No matter how hard I try.. I fall for them so hard .. because honestly they treat me so well !! .. but then leave me so easily .. and never mention why .. they all just say “ u r an anazing person but I dont see myself with you”.. and they leave me but they all come back later on saying u r a good person and i know tehy care about me .. but none could ever loved me for real .. <\3

You have no idea how davistating that is .. its hurting me a lot .. especially that it’s happening over and over .. and from different people different personalities different ways .. i dont know whats wrong with me! Why i’m always being dumped.. im always not good enough for anyone .. its tearing me apart..

/hug

There's nothing wrong with you, just weeding out the bad ones right? and before you know it you'll find yourself being in the centre of someone else's world.

Posted by N_leo

I always try so hard not to do the mistakes i did in the past relationship.. I always try to learn and be better and ready .. and I try not to get too attached or needy so i can move on easier if it didnt work out ..

But I feel like No matter how hard I try.. I fall for them so hard .. because honestly they treat me so well !! .. but then leave me so easily .. and never mention why .. they all just say “ u r an anazing person but I dont see myself with you”.. and they leave me but they all come back later on saying u r a good person and i know tehy care about me .. but none could ever loved me for real .. <\3

You have no idea how davistating that is .. its hurting me a lot .. especially that it’s happening over and over .. and from different people different personalities different ways .. i dont know whats wrong with me! Why i’m always being dumped.. im always not good enough for anyone .. its tearing me apart..

You're Leo aren't you Doll? Leo is a fire sign! They are attracted to you, and then they die down. It's NOT you! It's them. I suggest you get your birth chart interpreted. It will tell you "Who to date". All others can just fall off the face of the earth! Keep your chin up and don't think twice about them!

🤗 cyber hugs!



Love,

Eva

How do you follow ‘whom to date’ rule? If you get that info...where do you go to find that particular person with ‘right’ placement?

All of you who said ‘the same’...can you see if something in your charts are matching? It can be half way to the answer...

I think it's a Leo thing. I don't know if this relates to you, but this is how I see it... You want to be in control of yourself, your feelings and what happens. It's not them, it's you. Not because something is wrong with you, but because you don't believe anyone can love you the way you love. So you create a self fulfilling prophesy by keeping your walls up and with the doubts in your own head. Your version of love is putting someone else first, making them your priority but you feel as though no one will do the same for you. Leo is a selfless sign in love but no one else matches that so you don't believe you're loved back the way you want to be. So you create invisible walls. You will give your time and effort, be generous and selfless but you try to protect your heart by never really giving it away. You do all the right things in your head but you don't do what's in your heart because that's closed. You need to give your love away, the scary vulnrable part of you that you're afraid can never be healed if it breaks is all that someone really wants from you. You need to not be afraid of letting yourself go and freeing your heart for someone.

Posted by Black-Mamba

you got to be a bytch to keep a man.

Does it work for you? 🤷‍♀️

I’m afraid to say but it’s the chanclas.