Personal Development

  • What makes someone a bad person?

    Lioness18881
    How do you know if you're a good or bad person.. And are you still good even if there's bad things about you? Or are you only good if you're completely good? I think I'm good, but I'm not good in relationships so maybe I'm a bad person. I googled and c
  • Is any of you drawn to healing? Virgo, Pisces, Scorpio energy

    Pathos
    I want to share something I have been thinking about. I think people who choose to work in /are drawn to professions that have to do with healing like doctors, psychotherapists, etc. have gone through painful/traumatic stuff themselves and then when the
  • Anyone here female aspie

    Impulsv
    https://youtu.be/cuk471CeRb4 Im seeing her video n I’m becoming more n more convince I might have it
  • Do you have 45 min to waste?

    Gemitati
    Here is the thing: https://youtu.be/6JWIoCzPgJo
  • What is patience really?

    WildatHeart
    I have always been an instant gratification sort of girl. I work hard and if I want something I go out and get it. If I have a goal I make it happen. If it's a long term goal I break it down into steps and I have the gratification of achieving each of tho
  • The Ultimate Revelation

    OCJack
    Don't TLDR this, you WILL regret it. What if I told you... There is a world unfathomably beyond your current understanding. Something that you would almost definitely go your whole life never knowing about if I weren't to tell you here and now. A world
  • Job offer rescinded

    Capri__unicorn
    I applied to this amazing job that seemed absolutely perfect for me. They extended an offer and when I received the contract I negotiated my salary. They told me that they could accommodate my request and claimed that they would send the new contract for
  • sex&the city themes/personalities

    lisabethur8
    was curious so i looked up some themes on personality traits on sex & and the city characters. which character do you feel you identify with? Carrie, Miranda, Charlotte, or Samantha i know in real life, two of these ladies do NOT get along.
  • The in between & my thoughts

    RooSagicorn
    I always have so much trouble there. After a breakup, I know I need to spend ‘me time’ or alone time. A lot of people don’t and go relationship to relationship. But if I don’t have that processing time, healing time, I end up in something new & I’ve miss
  • How come people have babies and return to their normal behavior?

    Capmercury87
    I noticed that with alot of the people in my life that have children they go back to self distructive or niave behavior as if they just wanna pop the baby out and move on with life. For example: making excuses and pawning their child off on others to par
  • What's closure for anyhow?

    sierra_
    i just realized leaving a job is like leaving a relationship they try to convince you to stay, try to bargain but all you really wanna do is get your mug from the pantry and put all your stuff in a box.. and the insinuation that you're leaving for gree
  • I hate people too much.

    81gems
    My dad was in the hospital. He has issues with his heart that he needs to be concerned about. He also may have sleep apnea, but he still doesn't change his diet. Yesterday we got into an argument and he kept saying "let me be." and other stupid bullbutter.
  • toxic FRIENDships

    MoonshineLeo
    When did you know you needed to end a friendship? what was the final straw for you?
  • Women of Color

    CrabTwinsFish
    I am a white woman who works within a predominately African-American and Hispanic community as an Educator. In numerous comments recieved .. just wondering why I get so many comments regarding how "awesome" my brows look, my dress (outfit), my hair, and
  • Dude get real

    sierra_
    am i the only one who believes in giving people space nowadays? why all these unrealistic sociopath advice from people in non-relationships telling you to deal with things head on during or after a heated fight/argument? like what we can't get a min
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  • A question to you aquas

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  • Virgo Man & Virgo Woman -- How Should I Proceed?

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  • Do women really care about men's...

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