Personal Development

  • What's so wrong with denial?

    for peace of mind what's so wrong about temporarily hiding under the bed covers and hoping things would just blow over? then you can come out of hiding when it's all over
  • MDMA

    told me story about it, is it worth it ?
  • From Co-dependent to Independent

    I'm trying really hard to learn how to be more independent. I honestly have never been alone my while life, I've come from very dependent relationships, family and friends. Recently I've been seeing a guy who is reclusive. He does well with letting me s
  • have you ever pretended to be mad/upset about one thing

    but you're actually mad/upset about something else? you just don't wanna say coz it embarrasses you so now you acting crazy over something that's not even the real reason
  • I refuse to be dependent on things or people.

    Yesterday, I was talking to a girl about how I didn't like how I smoke everyday because it feels like I'm starting to use it as a crutch, I don't think it's good to have a "I NEED a blunt" mindset, and I definitely don't think it's the smartest thing to
  • hypnosis to alter the self

    if i wanted to be more strong-willed, less sensitive and even to forget an incident.. is it possible to turn to hypnosis? has anyone tried this for self-improvement?
  • hypnosis to make you a better person?

    i'm starting to think that my therapist can no longer help me.. i've lied to her too many times now and every time i want to confess to the state of... things.. i always chicken out and i wanna be polite too coz i know i'm not the only one who needs her c
  • My grandfather is alive. But I cry everytime I talk about him

    I just love him so overwhelmingly much. He was sick and I travelled to go and see him amd I stayed with him for 6 months and it was SO difficult but I'm SO glad I did it. I love my grandmother. She's very cute but it's just not the same as my grandad.
  • Handwriting and personality.

    Anyone knows to read personality traits based on someone's handwriting? I think I can do it.
  • Intimacy issues?

    So, I've noticed I have an odd pattern where I will hang out with a friend/SO and start getting into deep conversations and knowing a person. Then suddenly I need to detach and take a break from them. I've had some people who understand and felt the same
  • React to this word...

    And I’ll tell you how old you really are. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . Boobs.
  • Motivational Thread.

    Please post any motivational video or quote taken from any human at any point in time. We need more positive motivation in the world, so think back to some of the things that brought motivation into your own heart and soul. We need to share and express t
  • what's your galactic signature?

    ufo i am Lunar Moon 9 Year Of The White Crystal Wizard my galactic signature is Kin 230: White Solar Dog I pulse in order to love Realizing loyalty I seal the process of heart With the solar tone of intention
  • Stories about finding oneself?

    I am really interested in hearing about people’s stories about learning to except themselves and figuring out who they are. Anyone have a good story they can tell?
  • Recent Topics

  • WHAT tf am I supposed to do? What am I doing wrong?

    32 years old, never been in a real relationship. Accepted I can´t do casual sex, so now have not had sex in almost two years. In that time kissed maybe 3 guys and gone on 2 dates. Slept over at friends because I locked myself out of my appartment. He
  • Commitment issues

    Do you have it? How do you know..? But I know I dislike responsibilities. How to learn to take responsibilities and be committed at something or someone?
  • Which one will you choose?

    Man A: doesnt drink, smoke or have nightouts. Loyal but very predictable. Hardworker, excellent education but emotionally detached and very private. Not very good with communication. Does not like talking about the past. Man B: drinks, smokes and goes
  • Countdown to Deletion.. June 21

    Let's all countdown to the day of deletion for @GemLover
  • Do Capricorns deny depression?

    So my friend doesn't have many people close to him. Everyday when he gets home from work in the morning, he draws his curtains in his room closed so that it's always dark. He doesn't eat much and sometimes he sleeps for up to 12 hours at a time. He has su
  • Asylum Seekers and Immigration Law

    @Cancan26 Let's discuss Why are they putting these babies cages? Why are they separating parents from children? Are this people coming across the border, "illegal" citizens that are already in america that ice separating... shouldn't someone be in t
  • Too late with my Aqua ex?

    Hi all, I’m new to the forum but have been perusing the last week or so. I have a bit of a long story, if any of you can offer insight. Background: Me: 34(f), sun: scorp, ascend: leo, moon: gemini, venus & mars: libra Ex: 35(m), sun: aqua, ascen
  • Leo you come back?

    My friends girlfriend recently left him. She started doing bodybuilding competitions, started to kind of distance herself and snap at him...then eventually moved all her stuff out. All within two months. He said their relationship was perfect prior, they
  • Show me your hands, please.

    Doing this again..need to shed out some of this,negative tension by putting some good out for people. Some notes/directions: 1. Post a pic of your hands (I forget how to do it, if the first response could be a pic tutorial here that would I think be h
  • describe a feeling without using the keyword of emotion

    and its a free for all of guessing until the user who described the feeling reveals what it was for example: blocked and speechless unable to find the right words, digging until it presents itself
  • What's the longest it took you to get over someone ?

    and what was their sign? state your sun sign as well.
  • Are Virgos liars/Is it over?

    Sooo some of you may know I've been involved with a Virgo guy in LDR situation since October last year. It's been rather rocky journey and although we had some super sweet moments I'm starting to wonder if it's over for him already. Mind you, we are not i
  • Affection on their terms?

    I’ve heard friends stories about their gemini boyfriends. I had an ex or we were talking for 2 months and then stopped talking and then he came back to me. He was afraid and not ready for commitment. Funny thing was I was too. Just as blind as him about
  • How did your first relationship end?

    Hi guys! Lets talk about stuff that doesn't matter. I'm just curious to see if I can relate to anyone. Did yours end normally or did it go bat butter crazy drama-filled insane? Because mine went the second way. So I had a thing back in highschool with
  • Attracting the same sign?

    Do any of you seem to attract the same sign? I don't know what it is but mine seems to be Scorpios. I just started going out with this girl and found out last night she's a Scorpio. That's 4 out of the last 5 (including my ex-wife of 19 years) that hav