Advice from PISCES MEN please! (Leo woman & Pisces man)

My Pisces boyfriend of 6 months is completely ignoring me. We are very serious, in love, and agree that it is the best relationship that we both have had; we talk about marriage etc and are 30 years old, so more mature. We had an incident/fight happened last week which caused this; I would like to get advice from others and see what you think the situation is...

Last week I was visiting him during his overseas business trip. He had rented a sports car; during the trip he would drift the car and drive recklessly, playing with the car. I kept telling him i hated it and it scared me. I wasn't comfortable with him doing it while i was in the car. He did it about 3 times each time i would tell him i hated it and for him to stop. Then he did it another time, at night after an amazing day/trip (we had no conflicts etc). Then i freaked out and yelled at him that I hated it and was scared. He was not listening and said it was fun, was laughing, said he can drive/do whatever he wanted its his car, and said he would drift again when we drove back home if he could. I was so frustrated because he wasn't hearing me and i felt like I had no control in the passenger seat that I smacked him to get his attention between his arm and his chest and shouted his name to get his attention/scold him. Then he freaked out and yelled at me and said no matter what i should never hit him i cannot resort to that i should just talk to him. I said i was doing that he wasn't listening. Then he got angrier and angrier and said if i don't like it i can take an Uber/taxi, he said if he hit me he would kill me was saying all this scary stuff being an ahole, saying nothing I ever say from now on will mean anything to him. Then i was crying and he said get the f out of the car, I was scared, then I got out and he sped off. I didn't know what to do i had to calm myself then take an Uber/taxi back to the hotel. When I got back he was completely ignoring me, acting like i didn't exist. Next morning same thing, he doesnt take a half day off to spend the day with me as planned and he also doesn't acknowledge me when he gets home, completely ignoring me, doesn't even drive me to the airport or speak/look at me. So I left and flew back to the city where we both live full time.

It has been a week now and he is still ignoring me. We usually talk a lot and he always will say good morning to me, speak throughout the day etc. He has been ignoring all my texts and phone calls, I even left a long heartfelt letter in the hotel before I left, apologizing and asking to work things out and just left a handmade card and small gift of something he needs at his house for him to see when he gets back. He is back in the city in 2 days and I don't know what to do. Should I give him space and just stop all communication with him? I don't know if this is his way of breaking up with me for good or if he is giving me the silent treatment and 'teaching me a lesson', which is something he seems to do... But I just want to work things out and not be so dramatic and manipulative about it all, I'm a simple person when it comes to communication and I know he wants space, but I just am curious what he is truly thinking/needs/going to do.

Can any of you pisces men and women give me any insight? (or non pisces too, I would appreciate it). Insight and advice on what to do would be greatly appreciated. Does this sound like a relationship worth pursuing considering he seems so aggressive? was I at complete fault?? Thanks.

- Sad Leo girl 😢

Love the username.

He sounds like a moron ...

Im really disappointed that he didn't stop speeding when you asked him to. Did you ask him or demand it? I'm a Pisces female and I'm very respectful of my love ones until they cross the line.

Was the dialog between to two of you just "Im afraid when you drive that fast, can you please stop" or was it more. If the dialog was simply that I wouldn't worry about never talking to him again.

oyea and don't hit lol...If someone hit me I will plot a sweat revenge.

LadyCryssy:

It was totally wrong that I slapped him, he simply wasn't listening and it has literally been like 3 times that this had happened, I don't want to be in the car when he drifts and drives crazy... Honestly regardless of astrology sign aside, wouldn't you care how the other person feels/respect other people's opinions??

Dialogue was heated, but from my end it was pretty much me saying I don't like it when you drive like that, it scares me, i don't want to get in an accident, I don't understand why you don't care what i feel...

And then he kept defending himself saying it was fun.. that it was something he can do if he chooses to and so thats when i slapped his arm/chest and called out his name, saying why aren't you listening...

His dialogue back to me was more aggressive... saying if he ever hit me he would actually kill me... scary stuff..

I honestly never should of hit him, but it was almost like lack of control and he wasn't listening?... Is it worth it to not even discuss the issue with me though? Like honestly all couples fight and I have spoken to girlfriends where they have hit their boyfriend before (not saying its right...) but most of them got over it or at least would address the issue and talk it out?

Is this silent treatment permanent and his way of actually breaking up? What should I do? Hes ignored me for a week and a half now...

I honestly feel like he also owes you an apology for disregarding your feelings. If you want to talk about it call him and say "We need to talk". If he doesn't answer O'well... He needs some thinking time because its never okay to disregard a friends feelings. Let him have all the time he needs to think... Don't worry he'll call you back lol

Than you can decided if you want to deal with his moody butter

He is overreacting that for sure... he made you scared your adrenaline was kicking, it’s pretty normal to get aggressive in that circumstances. He is behaving like a moron

my god what a scumbag

he better have a good explanation for not respecting your concern

Your doing too much too soon.

Him: Vague threats about how he could hit and kill you. Laughs at your fear. Completely disregards your safety.

You: writes love note and buys him a gift

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I know what everyone is saying is right... I feel it in my bones that he is wrong and that I'm being nice (although i should have never ever hit him), but considering our relationship, how great it was, I don't want to just end it like this without discussing things. I'm a Leo so I need resolution and to at least address the issues at hand.

In all honesty does this sound like his way or breaking up for good or do you think he is just playing the victim and will eventually get back to me? He's a super sensitive Pisces though... :/

I'm a Pisces guy and honestly I'm so surprised and disgusted to have the same sign as that guy. There are different persons in the world but... I never thought a Pisces could be that insensitive, careless, cold and immature.

I don't know his childhood or how he grew up, but those are not the traits a Pisces has.

Putting his loved one in danger and risking her safety.

Ignoring your feelings and fears and justifying it with "fun".

Making aggressive physical abuse threats, telling you to get out of the car, speeding off and completely ignoring you without a sense of guilt—!!!

That doesn't sound like a Pisces, because I personally cannot imagine myself ever even considering doing all that. The guilt would literally haunt me..

I'm sorry to say this, but I'm afraid that your boyfriend doesn't love you. That's not a Pisces in love.

You deserve much better. He doesn't deserve you, he deserves to be treated as badly as he treats you.

You should keep your eyes peeled for an Aries, or Aquarius guy.

Posted by antigone
I know what everyone is saying is right... I feel it in my bones that he is wrong and that I'm being nice

It’s not so much about you being nice but rather your timing is off. If you reward someone with gifts and a love letter directly after they were an ass you are validating their bad behavior.

It’s gonna create a cycle of reoccurring shitty behavior. Cause he knows he can be an ass and there’s no consequences. In fact he gets gifts 🎁🎁🎁

so he was risking your life and you hit him. I would do the same. then get out of the car and walk away....

none of us will be able to really tell you anything besides basic opinion on this one, i don't think...because none of us were there to witness the driving incident, and that's sorta what it seems to (most of the way) be based on. i've had three leo women g/f's in the past and they were all VERY dramatic with a tendency to exaggerate any time there would be a squabble or whatever. not saying that's the case here but it's something to take into account. but in your defense, he may have been driving like a total douche-lord and it isn't fun to be the passenger in a vehicle while someone is playing Gran Turismo with your life. so maybe he needed the s h i t smacked out of him...

all i can say is, take into account the level of "what you had to do" to get things back down to an "area where you felt safe or comfortable" again and imagine having to do that every time a situation where disagreement was involved...and see if that's something you will or will not feel like doing for the long haul...

good luck

--Jack

Posted by antigone
My Pisces boyfriend of 6 months is completely ignoring me. We are very serious, in love, and agree that it is the best relationship that we both have had; we talk about marriage etc and are 30 years old, so more mature. We had an incident/fight happened last week which caused this; I would like to get advice from others and see what you think the situation is...

Last week I was visiting him during his overseas business trip. He had rented a sports car; during the trip he would drift the car and drive recklessly, playing with the car. I kept telling him i hated it and it scared me. I wasn't comfortable with him doing it while i was in the car. He did it about 3 times each time i would tell him i hated it and for him to stop. Then he did it another time, at night after an amazing day/trip (we had no conflicts etc). Then i freaked out and yelled at him that I hated it and was scared. He was not listening and said it was fun, was laughing, said he can drive/do whatever he wanted its his car, and said he would drift again when we drove back home if he could. I was so frustrated because he wasn't hearing me and i felt like I had no control in the passenger seat that I smacked him to get his attention between his arm and his chest and shouted his name to get his attention/scold him. Then he freaked out and yelled at me and said no matter what i should never hit him i cannot resort to that i should just talk to him. I said i was doing that he wasn't listening. Then he got angrier and angrier and said if i don't like it i can take an Uber/taxi, he said if he hit me he would kill me was saying all this scary stuff being an ahole, saying nothing I ever say from now on will mean anything to him. Then i was crying and he said get the f out of the car, I was scared, then I got out and he sped off. I didn't know what to do i had to calm myself then take an Uber/taxi back to the hotel. When I got back he was completely ignoring me, acting like i didn't exist. Next morning same thing, he doesnt take a half day off to spend the day with me as planned and he also doesn't acknowledge me when he gets home, completely ignoring me, doesn't even drive me to the airport or speak/look at me. So I left and flew back to the city where we both live full time.

It has been a week now and he is still ignoring me. We usually talk a lot and he always will say good morning to me, speak throughout the day etc. He has been ignoring all my texts and phone calls, I even left a long heartfelt letter in the hotel before I left, apologizing and asking to work things out and just left a handmade card and small gift of something he needs at his house for him to see when he gets back. He is back in the city in 2 days and I don't know what to do. Should I give him space and just stop all communication with him? I don't know if this is his way of breaking up with me for good or if he is giving me the silent treatment and 'teaching me a lesson', which is something he seems to do... But I just want to work things out and not be so dramatic and manipulative about it all, I'm a simple person when it comes to communication and I know he wants space, but I just am curious what he is truly thinking/needs/going to do.

Can any of you pisces men and women give me any insight? (or non pisces too, I would appreciate it). Insight and advice on what to do would be greatly appreciated. Does this sound like a relationship worth pursuing considering he seems so aggressive? was I at complete fault?? Thanks.

- Sad Leo girl 😢

What are you apologizing for again?

You hit him to stop being reckless with his life... AND YOURS.

You weren't hitting him to hurt him. He says you should just talk to him lol.

Ask him what did he do when you TALKED about not speeding..

Ask him why was he laughing..Ask him why did he ignore your request?

We always get these little nudges in life that kind of give us these little

hints as to whether we should really be getting closer to someone

in our lives. Whether they say something slick or they try to be

night Rider and drive carless, the signs are always there.

There were probably other signs, smaller that led to this.

I would say see this as a blessing and think about your

next move in the relationship based of what just happened

and what he says next. Is he able to see through your

perspective and understand why you freaked out?

Does he have empathy? Do you want to spend time with

someone who can't look beyond their own eyes? At the big picture...