Any Pisces re-Locating?

Not just in the physical sense but also emotionally... have any Pisces been on the move from friends/family/relationships lately?

I ask because my Pisces has been detangling himself from a group of old friends for the past year. He was kinda the glue that held them all together but he's become a lone wolf. It's only recently that I understood he's been stripping himself away... and the time/effort that is required for him to do that.

How long does/did it take you to swim to clearer waters?

hmm... I'm interested in the process, which he looses words to articulate. But many fish may be able to school me.

I understand the need to emotionally disconnect, where my style is to sever all ties then strip away the emotions in my shell. It took my 6 months to get over my last failed friendship. I can remember the ill feelings as well but no longer dwell on them. I had to keep revisiting it in my head until when I went there... I was void of emotion. It simple became "It was, what it was."

My Fish seems to swim back and forth physically, slowly removing himself with less visits to the infested pond...

I've spent the last year or so doing the same thing... weeding
I would say my process was more like this -> severe cut off, almost hermit like (with an explanation of just needing some time to myself, reactions were taken note of in a subconscious manner - which I only recognized after the fact). Once I felt ready, I started reintegrating with people that I wished to maintain a friendship with. Some other people... it has never really gotten back to the same as it was (which it appears those are the people whose reactions I wasn't fond of when I said I just needed to work through some of my own stuff). I will still revisit the friendship here and there, but it has only proven to me that nothing is likely to change. Different paths have been forged, and things will likely remain (if lucky) at the state they are currently in. It was certainly a process, and one that I figured out as I went along - all sparked by the initiation of taking care of me first, for the first time.

I myself have been rethinking past friendships, after a while dissapoints mount and you have to make an exit. If your not meeting standards the relationship redefines itself, lately i have been taking the time to examine what that means long term.