ArE PiScES InDiReCt—?

I'm seeing this pisces and I am totally lost. We click! Our personalities are really "out there" and we can pretty much say or do anything we feel and it's not "Crazy", well in our worlds. I am kind of confused as to what the heck he wants. He will throw hints that he wants to hang out, but wont ask, but when I ask he is all for it and wants to see me. Here is the twist... He is moving in a week and I want to go with him. I want to not live in reality and just pack up and go. He has said to me " just pack up and go with me", but then he'll scurry on to the next subject almost as if he is afraid of what I'll say. I dont know if I should be blunt and say " I want to go with you" or just to wait and see what he says... I dont want him to swim away.

So, what's the problem?


You are aware that he will take the position of submission, and await for you to dominate ... you know this because you just said it.

So, why would you then ask if you should wait for him to direct?

You know he will throw hints out there for you ... and you know this because you just said it.

So, why would you then ask if you should wait for him to tell you to move with him? He told you, he would like it

>>>> so step up to the plate and take him, already. 🙂🙂

It's not that we dont have great communication, It's the fear that I have of rejection. I know that we have deep feelings for eachother, I can feel them and I know he can too. It's hard for me to express my true feelings, but I am going to have to because I am not going to let him slip away.

I'm not saying that he is my escape, but I want to escape with him and spend time with him and just step out of reality because it is quite a crazy Idea. It's not that I'm escaping reality... I'm going outside the box and doing something that I want to do.

And yes, Maybe it is fear, but the fear is rejection, but his body language and actions speak to me and tell me to ask, but it's like the words get stuck on my tounge when I go to ask and tell him.

I am an Aries/taurus cusp.

Everytime we together it's like we dont want our time together to end and I cant just let him go without me asking otherwise I will forever wonder.

It really doesn't sound to me like a rejection issue ... it sounds more like an abandonment issue.

It has been said that you two can pretty much say and do anything and the other gets it .. that you two just "click" .. so, the connection is actually there, which = no grounds for rejection, because you two are actually connected.

It's also been said ...

"I want to go with him"
"I dont want him to swim away"
"I am not going to let him slip away"
"I want to escape with him and spend time with him"

"I cant just let him go without me asking otherwise I will forever wonder."

That last quote isn't addressing rejection at all .. it's inferring a what if .. what if he was the one, and I let him slip away from me.



Everytime you express your feelings, you convey how easy it is to be together, and co-exist as a couple .. you describe it as something magically natural to be together .. body language, actions. And then at the end of every description, to end with saying something to infer that your fear is that he will abandon you, leave you.

There's nothing in here, from what I've gathered to suggest that he is rejecting you in any way, to give you a fear of this .. however, I'd be willing to wager that somewhere in your life you were deeply wounded over someone leaving you high and dry = abandonment.


Perhaps, going with him is the exact medicine you need right now in your life ... because apparantly you need someone to hold onto, someone who wants you to be with him >>> to swim upstream with him

I want to say " I am going with you, when do we leave", but It's like ever time I go to say it... I chicken out.

I definately have been abandoned in the past thats why I dont want him to leave. It is hard for me to show myself in and out because of this.

I know that I need him in my life, we almost become one when were together. I think it also boils down to... I always have control of my life and this is a situation that I cant control, but I want to go. I haven't felt this way towards a man before. I just have to ask him and thats that, but gosh is it ever hard! It comes to my tounge, but I cant utter the words out.

"He has said to me " just pack up and go with me", but then he'll scurry on to the next subject almost as if he is afraid of what I'll say."


Listen, let me tell you something about how a Pisces loves another person, and then you take this information and figure out how to make it happen with your Fish.

Certainly, you've read before where it says that Pisces lives within their environment by adapting to it .. so, let me expand on this in terms of showing love. Our mission in life (love-life) is to fulfill our partner >>> adapting to what makes them happy >>> and we will because our love for another comes in the form of a blanket to completely cover you so you will know how special you are.

He told you what he would want, and then backed off in fear of what you would say in response to this .... because what if to make you happy isn't going to be with him on his adventure? He has to leave, and how can he cover you with his love if you don't want to go? >>> because without being able to wrap his world around you, he will be lost downstream, floundering, dispondent.

A Fish loves you by making your dreams come true for you in terms of making you "feel" like the only person who walks this planet. Not speaking materially here ... feeling-based.

So, take this in for a little bit ..... and hopefully you'll be able to realize that the only thing you need to do here, chelsrae, is to express to him what would make you happy >>> he'll adapt and comply.

Don't tell him a fear, or what you don't want, or a trepidation in any way .. tell him what makes your world spin, your heart pound, tell him that you want to be with him no matter it leads you.

You don't have to say .. take me with you .. just imply this is what you want for your happiness >>>> he'll respond because this is the Piscean Way.

"trepidation"


^^^^ oops, that word didn't work in this context .. but, you know what I meant here.


You can be afraid, and you know what .. him being a Pisces, he already knows you are afraid because we can "sense" how another person feels .. we are Empaths ..... and it's likely why he is also afraid when he told you that, because he senses your fear and doesn't know why .. he probably thinks you are afraid to go with him.

That is so true, It's like he is in my brain half the time. But I am connected with my intuition as well and I can sense that he wants me to go. I want to be happy. I haven't been happy in a while, though I seem happy, Im not. I can see a difference in myself now that we are talking. Its honestly like he completes me... corny, but true. I need to tell him that this is what we need. He knows it and I know it. Our love could and would last forever, I just need to stop stuttering and get on with the conversation. We had dinner last night and I almost said it, but it came out as... I'll come visit you. A lot has to do with the people around me looking down upon this idea, but I never listen to them anyway, but I dont know. I need to do this in person and look him in the eye and show my sincerity with this subject.

starfish... why the laugh. Whats your input doll?

I know that he likes me, I feel it.

I have to lead... dont I?

I am going to ask him tonight. What do I have to loose.

I'm alittle concerned over you being stuck on this, like a Bull. (by "this" I mean the act of speaking in itself, rather than the value of the message)


Other than that, what do you have to lose.

maybe it's because I am a cusp (4/21)?

I will definately keep you posted. I think that this is going to turn out great... maybe it's my anxieties kicking in... hmm?

Here goes nothing... Ah.. I am nervous!

Or maybe it's the "Change" factor. I havent been with someone for a while and to pick up and move is a bit of a change. I have been in MN all my life, but traveled all over the world, but never moved. Was going to, but didn't. Hmm.

"BC we project our feelings and we sometimes expects ppl to just know"

LOL! Yeah, and when I find someone who DOES just "know" that's how I know I've found the right one.

LOL! You're so going to end up with a Scorp, Prince P.

"What makes you say that?"

Because they "just know." Even if you're on the phone and you ask them what color the socks you're wearing are. They'll know. Try it some time. 🙂

"I really want a Leo!!!"

YOUR ego and a Leo's in the same room? That would be entertaining....I give it five minutes. lol

I have Leo friends, too, but a relationship is a different animal. Too bossy for me.

Okay, so the heart was broken, stomped on, and thrown away! WOW! So he called me and we planned to meet downtown Minneapolis at Envy (nightclub). Then he mentioned that his crazy Ex is going to be there and not to worry. So, I got to the club and he walked in and he comes up to me gives me a hug and whispers in my ear, "she's right behind me, Ill be right back" So I get a little irritated, walk away and go dance. I went to the bar to get a drink and I see that WHORE all over him and pulling on his arm and I just walked away for a bit. Then he texted me he was in the back room so I went to the back room and gave him the head nod to leave with me (mind you the club was elbow to elbow packed) he said one sec, walked up to his ex and said something to her then we were walking out and the WHORE was screaming his name and he stopped to talk and he gave me the one second hand signal and I walked off... I am not gonna stand there and look like a jackass. So I go to the bar down the street and met up with some friends and he texted me "sorry for the drama" and I texed back " wow, you hurt my feelings. I can handle high school drama" Then I texed him "have a good night" he said "you too" Well I went and got TRASHED! and he texted me at 1:30am and said "you hate me" and I teted, "no, just a little sad" then he called and I gave him my thoughts and told him that I was disrespected and he said he was sorry and I said I have to go. Then this morning he texts me " hey kiddo, how is your day going" I said "good, u?" never texted back then called me and I said, explain to me what happened. He said that he didnt want to create more drama and he had to deal with it, but I left before he solved it. ————?? I am definately not going to talk to him anymore, my heart is in my stomach and my anxiety is ridiculous right now. I am going out tonight and get him off my brain. I dressed up in a HOTT outfit and I cant wait to just let go and dance the night away! Please gime me your input and tell me if I over reacted or what— Geez, I hate men...well most of them.

I said goodbye! Never going to date a pisces again!

Agreed.


The OP expressed this desire for crazy, a longing to do a crazy thing, regardless of circumstances.


The whole situation sounded crazy to me.

ArE PiScES InDiReCt—?

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