So freaking Pisces I can't stand it!

Quick vent.....

Broke up with my Aries beau a little over a month ago, found out he's moving on (mentally---not sure about romantically) and I got a little sad. I now its a natural reaction, but so obnoxiously Piscean to be hurt that someone doesn't want you anymore....even if you did the dumping.

such is life 🙂

"to be hurt that someone doesn't want you anymore"

lol, mclure .. but it's really not that ^^^^^ you know, though it feels like it is.

It's because we NEED to feel like we are needed .. not really a wanting. If he still needed you for something, as being a valuable part of his life ... the his moving on wouldn't be so shattering.

.. it's hard, fucking hard as hell ..

(((hugs)))

thanks P, (((super hugs back)))

tough breed to be...but you know that, though.

out of curiosity...how long have you been married for, and however did you get to a place where the idea of marriage didn't make you swim far far away?

thanks bijou, ((hugs 🙂))

i know its just a silly part of life.....but I was on this great upswing for a wile and now I'm all blah....its cool though...i definitely made the right decision....Aries are amazing friends, but that was about it.....

alas my fickle fish nature!

How did you learn that he's moved on? Had you guys been staying in communication?

Dang P-Angel! I can see where you are coming from completely. I have been in several abusive relationships....absolutely stemming from the Piscean need to heal others. I just recently told one of my best friends that my role in life must be some kind of "relationship fairy". I enter this negative situations, fix the bastards, then leave. They are better for having known me (not conceited---they just sucked that badly) and I am worse for having known them!

The destructive behavior you speak of----I know well.

This past one was actually a great guy,(needed me but not nearly as negative as the others), who really loved me true blue. There was just something lacking.

I am so glad you found your husband---that gives me hope that I will not want to swim endlessly.

hahahaha! ScorpseeksPisces, I knew someone was going to ask that. I neglected to put it in specifics because I felt like a huge tool. He changed his "status" on a social networking site from "in a relationship" to "single". I had purposely not done so in order to spare his feelings. How lame is society? (and me?)

Lol, I was just curious as to how the Pisces mind would operate in this instance, not judging you at all. That is interesting though, thanks for sharing.

mclure, I actually feel like Aries is our best mate, so I'm not surprised that your relationship with him was a wonderful experience.

You won't be swimming aimlessly .. you're not lost. 🙂

However, swimming endlessly .. is your fate.

We can never stop swimming, luv .. even if it's only in fantasy 🙂

"My good Pisces friend told me the real reason as to why she is always in and out of relationships. She has this need to have men fall in love with her...madly in love..and once they do, she loses interest and dumps them. She says she doesn't do it intentionally, and that its more of a subconscious thing. Anyway, I can actually sort of relate to that."

Venus in Aries?

Damned heartbreakers 🙂

OMG---my Venus is in Aries. Sweet merciful crap.

P-Angel---thanks for the kind words today----they really hit the spot

Venus in Aries can pull the plug in the middle of super spicy, split personalities, I'm convinced.

Yeah Venus in Aries here too - and erm I'm afraid to say I totally identify with that.

It's not so much that I need them to fall for me, rather that I think I'm smitten with them, but when I have them I realise I'm not.

"The only one to give her a run for her money, was who else, but the aloof Aquarius. He never allowed her to fully "catch" him, and because of that, she was the one who ended up madly in love with him"

MsP I just read that, so spooky. That is exactly what happened with me, my Aqua ex totally kept me on my toes.

Mind you he hurt me too so like you say it's a no win sometimes. The ones who keep us on our toes are the ones most likely to hurt us, simply because those are the ones who seem to be able to push our buttons.

Venus in Aries here, and not like that at all.

[i]**my friend is like that. She has had men move across the country to be with her, propose to her, etc. only to break up with them out of nowhere. They never see it coming.**

**"My good Pisces friend told me the real reason as to why she is always in and out of relationships. She has this need to have men fall in love with her...madly in love..and once they do, she loses interest and dumps them. She says she doesn't do it intentionally, and that its more of a subconscious thing*** [/i]

And you wonder why nice guys finish last?

[i]**Mind you he hurt me too so like you say it's a no win sometimes. The ones who keep us on our toes are the ones most likely to hurt us, simply because those are the ones who seem to be able to push our buttons.**
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**The only one to give her a run for her money, was who else, but the aloof Aquarius. He never allowed her to fully "catch" him, and because of that, she was the one who ended up madly in love with him...only to be abused and treated like butter.** [/i]

And you wonder why Pisces always ends up getting abused?

So I generalized a little. Sue me 🙂

I am a serial generalizer 🙂

Only on hard nipples 🙂

p.s.How did you get that emoticon with the tongue sticking out? I also can't seem to get a LOL emotion. Thanks in advance.

Who says only girls have nipples? 😛

LOL as in Laugh Out Loud. Supposed to look like 😄

Thanks for the 😛

btw, there ARE "other things" that one can suck on...other than hard nips, I mean 😛