astro mini chart

Sun Pisces 2??37'28 in house 9
Moon Gemini 16??43'44 in house 12
Mercury Aquarius 9??43'22 in house 8
Venus Pisces 28??41'04 in house 10
Mars Pisces 27??32'37 in house 10

This guy's energy/vibe is beyond me. My energy usually gets the upper hand in being able to influence others'. I felt his, and don't like a few facets of it, one of which is constant self doubt and another, his yearn to be pampered. I don't know the real him, so far isn't so bad. Trouble here is I consider myself a dreamer as it is, with his influence I can sense that I will have a lot harder of a time trying to what reality is. Like the character in inception.

I brought this here to see if I am sensing things right. Thanks.

How sensitive can pisces men be, really? He's in tears bc he doesn't like to be apart from me. I've been very frank with this guy about how I feel. I enjoy hanging out with him, but I'm not going to jump in blindly. Is there any consoling on my part or is this pretty much how things will be?

there's so much pisces in his chart. and the duality of gemini in his moods (moon)?

he's going to be hyper sensitive, maybe have a detached way of expressing it due to the mercury aquarius. probably evasive (mars in pisces) and full of fantasy. how old is he?

He is 28. The intensity of his emotions do not shy me away the least bit. He gives me a good balance of affection and space. This guy is utterly insecure with himself. At the same time, he is very clear of his feelings for me. The huge red flag here is we've only been talking about 3-4 weeks. He is leaving himself very vulnerable to hurt. Today he even said that he'd rather hurt and continue to see me this way rather than ever knowing that he gave up on me. Should I just run for the hills at this point?

do you want to? or are you hooked in already...

I'm not hooked. 🙂 I have my eyes set on someone else that is hours away from me. This guy is available, here, now. *shrugs*

Posted by Lady Aries
Today he even said that he'd rather hurt and continue to see me this way rather than ever knowing that he gave up on me.

oh, what a pisces sentiment. if we're into someone, we're full throttle. only thing is, you're not on his level of want, so be kind to him...karma debt and all that jazz 🙂

Thanks, nimbue. I have no intentions of hurting this man's feelings. Now I know this is a Pisces trait.

hey, no problem. 🙂

"you can wear my shirts to sleep in or drip in, while your hair is still wet from a shower that i could not attend, and on the mornings when i search for something warm to wear and find it wraped around your huddled form, i find that it is much more than shirts that i lend"

He's so darling!

Thank you, piranhaparadiise. I never sense even a touch of dishonesty in the few pisces that I know. He sure has a lot to say about his feelings!

He tells me he loves me quite often, and has brought up wanting to be my lifetime partner (the 'H' word). My senses want to plant a red flag every 10 feet along the way for safety measures. How can someone be so sure? I know I'm reflecting, bc I'm never 100% sure about anything. EggShells. EggShells.

Posted by piranhaparadiise

Posted by Lady Aries
He is 28. The intensity of his emotions do not shy me away the least bit. He gives me a good balance of affection and space. This guy is utterly insecure with himself. At the same time, he is very clear of his feelings for me. The huge red flag here is we've only been talking about 3-4 weeks. He is leaving himself very vulnerable to hurt. Today he even said that he'd rather hurt and continue to see me this way rather than ever knowing that he gave up on me. Should I just run for the hills at this point?

Pisces guys latch on to someone they *really* like...I am seeing one myself and if I don't reply within an hour to one of his messages he will send another and say I forgot my handsome guy haha...or a frown smiley etc...Pisces need attention to feel wanted...of course they can be detached but when that happens they want a lot of space...

I've only been dating mine for a few weeks too and not a day goes by without him expressing he misses me...One thing to know Pisces do NOT waste their time on anyone with expressing their emotions...they don't *need* to have people in their life all the time however on the opposite side once they fall or have feelings for someone they want to see hear from them all the time...A typical Pisces that likes you very much will mutli message you all day 🙂 If they are working...too bad they will *still* be able to squeeze in a message to you...

One good thing is if you are the type of person that loves attention a Pisces will not feel smothered by you showing the same attention...they only feel smothered when they feel nothing for you 🙂

Cherish a guy that wants to know you and isn't afraid to show you through his actions...to be vulnerable with his emotions...once they want you they are loyal...that is a known Pisces trait...

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Let's see what happens when it switches from a few weeks to a few months. I guarantee this song will have a new tune. Seen it too many times on here....

Posted by Lady Aries
I'm not hooked. 🙂 I have my eyes set on someone else that is hours away from me. This guy is available, here, now. *shrugs*

This is what I'm talking about

These are my observations...

You are not hooked yet, and he knows it. He is working for the prize... you're complete and udder devotion, haha! He's getting milk now but he's searching for the cow. Once your eyes turn to your fish and fish alone and he got you texting him several times a day, return the "I love you's" ... watch that fish go cold!

They like to suffer a little bit in love. The like to yearn and long for it... if you give it up too soon the doubts will set in. Doubt that your feelings for them are not as genuine as theirs, that it isn't as perfect as they'd thought it'd be now that you have surrendered to them. The prize has to increase in value after it is won. Once you give in, you better be able to step it up a notch and be secure enough to give them everything you have, without doubt.

If not... those daily texts will turn into every few days, then every few weeks. They'll start getting 'busy' and the games begin.

A tad cynical perhaps but you get where I'm going with this...

Posted by WasteOfTime
feelings to get more deep and intense eventually

He has said something along those lines. I totally appreciate your input.