Cancer Men and the Pisces Ladies who love them....

So I've been with multiple Cancers in the past. They charm the pants right off of me 😉 However, it never really seems like a viable match. In my opinion they tend to run cold and retreat into themselves quite a bit. That's why I never understood how they were supposed to be good match for fish....







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I personally, don't do Cancer's very well ... all of their emotions appear to me as though it's another persons responsibility to nurture for them. When they crawl into their shells, it's usually because another person has hurt them in some way and they are trying to figure out how to get this other person to present to them .. better feelings for them to live with, according to circumstances.

One of my brothers is a Cancer ... and because of this very quality he has of believing every person is suppose to cater to his feelings, so he can feel good is the catalyst that has estranged him from his own family. He is a complete and total outcast ... his family disowned him some many years ago. And it is all due to this very thing.

Here's an example of what I refer ... all my mothers life, my Cancer brother never bothered to take photographs of her ... when she died, he said to me, as well as my other brother (Scorpio) ...

"You haven't given me any pictures of mom, I loved her too, you know."

^^^ now that she is dead, and he doesn't have any photos taken of her, he would attempt to make me and my other brother feel guilty for not providing to him good feelings revolving around being able to look at her photograph.

And I find this quality, habitaully, in Cancer people .. because of it, I don't get along very well with them, for I'm a firm believer that we all own responsibility for our own feelings.

But, they don't seem to understand this concept, and will inevitably attempt to make another person cater to their feelings for them, so they can feel good about themselves.

Perhaps, but if this kindness is in place for self-serving purposes, then is the kind projection for the other person's benefit?

I have a problem with that .. huge problem.

And I've witnessed this very thing .. for instance, there's this Cancer woman I know who will compliment another woman, and then wait to get hugged, and rewarded for it .. such as: I love your hair **smiles**
Then if the woman recieving the compliment doesn't hug her, and reward her with many thanks .. then this Cancer women becomes sullen, and feels like her heart is being taken advantage of.

So, in reality .. that hair compliment was superficial for self-serving purposes .. and not really kind, as true kindness is in place for making the reciever feel good, and not the giver to feel good about themselves for saying it.

This is a patterned behaviour that is quite evident to me.

emh ok i know for the cancer men are quite different from the cancer women.NOT all cancers are like that...i like to take responsibility for my own actions and my own feeelings .i have 5 best friends that are pisces and they see me as being sincere,kind ,nurturing ,caring to a point where i forget that i need to care about my own needs,even nice to people that don't aren't nice to them..cancers do have a tendency to hide when they are hurt, that's true ,but it all depends on how they were brought ...i have 3 sisters and 2 brothers,i cared about my siblings more than i cared about my self.

Some people do quite well with Cancer's, Haffo .. you apparantly are crushing on one right now, since you've changed your song .. and we know that PrettyPisces is happy in a relationship with one, and that DC cherished his late wife. But, I can't do them. I cannot tolerate a person who is only nice to others for their own benefit.

i do well with all signs,one of my friends has thesame birthday with you p-angel(march 18).we
've been best friends for ten years now and still growing stonger.i just think that it all depends on what's on your birth chart that's why you can't stand a cancers yourve met lol

Actually, it probably has more to do with me being a Yellow Rythmic Seed, coupled with my vibration at #9. Add those two to being a Piscean, who is pretty intuned with theirselves, anyway .. and you get a person who is so aware of their surroundings ... that I can predict what a person is going to do, or say, before they even had a thought.


I wouldn't say that I can't stand Cancers .. I just can't relate to them very well because I can anticipate a person's next move pretty accurately, and inevitably, a Cancer's will be centered around their own feelings, or for a prolonged period of time. The same would go for Gemini's ... tolerance can only come in small doses.

Oddly enough .. I can handle Aries and Leo's alright, and it doesn't get much more self-centered than that. Go figure ....


I'm thinking maybe it's because Aries and Leo's have virtually NO revenge in their beings. Whereas, a Cancer will formulate a plan to get another person to respond to their feelings for them, accordingly. And a Gemini gets lost inside of their hurt feelings, and just shoots away at anything moving that resembles their target.

well i admire pisces people,and most of the pisces i've met are really different in there own way but they all have thesame similarities in certain ways...for some reason can't relate to people of my own sign...it's just weird but my mom is a gemini,but i can't relate to her at all,but then i can relate to other geminis and leos you name it all

Ok....I obviously don't know the entire Cancer population, but I have been with 5 or so and this is the knowledge that I have reaped from personal experience....


They are smoothies! They have that truly wonderful ability to make you feel like you are the goddess of their world. Unfortunately they can turn this on at will, and often do. It allows them to get there way, pretty much any time.

They are attractive(and they know it)....I suppose this on is subjective but, I have to say there are distinctive traits that I have noticed. Namely, that little glint in their eyes that reminds you of a kid whose done wrong but liked doing it anyway.

They are selfish....not that this is necessarily a bad thing....I'm sure there is many a Pisces in here who wishes they could focus on themselves more...but all things in moderation.

Now mind you, my experiences are with those mid-late June Cancers.....(odd how they all found me)


Would I try another Cancer?

Absolutely! 🙂

i'll try another pisces myself,....my pisces man went back to his ex pisces girl....

I get along pretty well with cancer men. There was only one cancer man I had a fling with 6 years ago that I didn't really mesh with. He was kinda weird. I noticed that everytime we went out together he would make it his business to try to make me jealous. For instance, when ever we would go out and a young lady would pass by he would say to me, "wow don't you think she's gorgeous or I would love to get her number" and my response like always would be ummmm yea sure. I thought this was hilarious yet pathetic lol.

Cancir----I'm so sorry. That sucks. If its any consolation I dated another Pisces and it was a nightmare.

Ganstaliscious--I love it. That pretty much describes my first boyfriend to a "T"! To this day whenever we talk he has to drop a comment about some broad. It's much more endearing when your not with them anymore. 😉

"Ganstaliscious--I love it. That pretty much describes my first boyfriend to a "T"! To this day whenever we talk he has to drop a comment about some broad. It's much more endearing when your not with them anymore."

- Yea well I've been with my current cancer man for 5 years. I just luuuuuurrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrvvve him 🙂. I swear he's my bestfriend and he understands me like no other. As far as the other cancer guy I had a fling with 6 years ago he was a trip, but I stop seeing him because he was getting too controlling.

G- So glad you found someone like that. It's really the best to be that in tune with somebody. I've been with my Aries for the past 4 years, but I'm feeling like we're at a bit of a crossroads right now. He is my best friend but I think its hard for him to understand my fish brain 🙂 sometimes.

"Cancir----I'm so sorry. That sucks. If its any consolation I dated another Pisces and it was a nightmare".
mclure: that's ok well guess what,he called me today and he told me,he misses me and he's just good friends with his ex pisces...he had once cared about her.that he has a stronger connection with me,now i'm like ok what do i do....as a pisces girl what did you think of your pisces boy

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Cancir----That is a toughie. In my experience, sometimes Pisces' (both me and him) needed to get away from each other. I left him for a while, he left me, then I left him. Ultimately we couldn't get on the same page. You get the idea. I think fish sometimes want it all you know? You like the stability of your relationship, and the love and validation you get from it.....but you also want the ability to pick up and go, to do whatever you want, whenever you want.

I am currently in the same situation with my Aries. He's hopelessly devoted to me, and I love him with all of my heart, yet I'm feeling the pull. Like I just need to bounce. I read many a site that says Pisces are known for multiple marriages 😢

That being said.....He probably realized that his ex-pisces was his EX for a reason (Something we should all sometimes remember-----no matter what the sign) and realized that you were the one who was truly there for him when it mattered. The question for you is.....Are you gonna have to deal with it again? Whatever you decide....you'll at least get a nice little lovey honeymoon period from him. Just make sure you are true to yourself first, sweets!

do you remember what website that was? and yea i see what you saying,and yea i need to be true to myself,i really need to think about on if i want him back

was you ex pisces very clingy?as he always hanging out with his friends?

Dude. I would get to see him maybe once a week during the summer because I bartended non-stop. When I would be blessed with a day off I would call him and ask if he wanted to hang out, it would be "guys" night/day whatev. ALWAYS with friends. Not that, that is bad, but, "Hey?! Remember Me?!".

But then we broke up, and all of a sudden he "realized the mistake he had made"...blah blah blah...and this goes on for three years until my head explodes and I found a very nice Aries for a while.

BUT!!!! (Bigger But 🙂 )
All of my experiences with cancer were pretty amazing. They have their faults too, but a great combination non the less.


and I don't remember the site for you, sorry 😢
All of the cancers

Disregard the last line, as I am apparently a spaz who can't use a keyboard.

"Dude. I would get to see him maybe once a week during the summer because I bartended non-stop. When I would be blessed with a day off I would call him and ask if he wanted to hang out, it would be "guys" night/day whatev. ALWAYS with friends. Not that, that is bad, but, "Hey?! Remember Me?!".

yea that happened to me and my friend too....she is a pisces who dated a pisces too.Always hanging out with friends,like you said it's not a bad thing but "emh come on now what about me over here"....they forget they have a girlfriend not fair,i chose not to take him back...

How long had you two been dating, if you don't mind my asking?

"He is my best friend but I think its hard for him to understand my fish brain sometimes."

-Yea well my boyfriend says I'm nutty as squirrel shit lol, but he still luuuuuuuuuuurves me.

dating for two years.....his acting like his going to change...his done this to every girl his been with...he told me that his reliesed how much he needs to change and step up to the plate...he keeps on blowing up my phone.

as much as i care about my pisces man,i told him did'nt want to be with him anymore.

Cancer men, once they've settled down, make good family men.
Cancer women love to nurture. They also like to be appreciated a lot.