Cancers thoughts on pisces

This topic was created in the Cancer forum by Cancerinlove on Sunday, January 21, 2007 and has 17 replies.

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@Cancerinlove
19 Years

I really want to know your toughts on the sign. I hear many pisces (maily fenmales) bashing cancers and wanted to know if the feeling was mutual or do cancers think they have had a good relationship with pisces. My the oldest of my closest friends (12 ys) is a pisces so is my mother and I love them both but they can be quite depressing.

so feel free to elaborate.

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@fiddlesticks
19 Years500+ PostsCancer

i don't really know any pisces females... or pisces in general, really. i know one on the aqua cusp and i get along great with her.

but anyway, most people bash cancers so it's not really new

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@187
19 Years

I haven't met alot pisceans but I strongly dislike the very few I've met. Some were extremely needy, selfish, fussy, dramatic, rude, and self righteous to a point where they'd provoke fight and blame it all on you. They never truly help you do something because they end up throwing it in your face once you get into a fight with them.

Sometimes it feels as if you're tip-toeing around their emotions and have to sugarcoat everything you say, yet in turn, they say whatever they want and can't be bothered to consider your feelings. They can be very judgemental of people's vices (as if they didn't have any) and act as if a person has to live up to their expectations. And where you do speak your mind and give honest criticism they antagonize for it.
It's safe to say that the feeling's mutual for me, although most of my issues with pisceans have been with the males.

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@menbay12
19 YearsCancer

Amazing how life goes sometimes. I am a cancer. i was married to a cancer for 14 yrs. dated a cap for a year after that. I am with a pisces now (3 months).
guy 1 - made me become who i was not.
guy 2 - oh boy was he messed up..didn't want to end up like that also
guy 3 - helps me see the world through different eyes. encourges me to be "me" and i am flourshing for it. a total give and take relationship.

last night he was deep in thought...
i said "you know, one day you will want to share those thoughts with me..and i will be here when you are ready" i smiled, kissed him on the forhead and then went to bed...
he came in and said "can i just hold you?"
"of course, sweetheart"..
then he wispered in my ear, "and one day i will..."

i adore my fish...i love him..i know it already...

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@19Eleven
21 YearsScorpio

Well this is not a place for Scorpio's thoughts on Pisces. But I would like to add that Pisces man always tests his sex appeal with any attractive female he comes across. Seen this over and over. They are compassionate but in a controlling way.

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@sinder
19 Years

i am a pisces female and have been with a cancer male and really enjoy the deep almost intuitive connection beneath the surface. It cool because on the outside you are one way but you both know deep inside its another, like your own private world.

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@sinder
19 Years

i am a pisces female and have been with a cancer male and really enjoy the deep almost intuitive connection beneath the surface. It cool because on the outside you are one way but you both know deep inside its another, like your own private world.

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@menbay12
19 YearsCancer

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i don't know if i agree with that. my friend ( a guy) told me yesterday that my pisces and him were driving together and saw a beautiful lady in the car next to them..when my friend commented on her my pisces said she had nothing on me...
my pisces and i connect on another level..something that we have both longed for always..it is something so special we guard it intensely.
i used to be so guarded..my walls were so high i never thought they could or would come down. i have learned a great many things from my pisces. maybe learned is not the right word...because it has come naturally..uninhibited...
things i have never had in my relationships, but now do:
i respect this man..
i trust this man...
i share my secrets with him, not keep them from him
i love and feel loved..
i feel secure...
i feel protected...

i know i have found my soulmate.

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@leapyeargirl
20 YearsPisces

well its interesting that i came across this board because i am working with this cancer guy, and he we have a really nice connection so far. i am not sure what he is thinking about me cause its really too early. but i have to say i like his attitude in life, we are both very much go with the flow types.

he is definately someone i can see myself with. and i enjoy his company very much. we hung out 3 times in the first week we (re)met. we had lived in the same apt. bldg and seen each other there, and then ended up working together. yes i am a sucker for fate...

i have to admit, i would never know how or when to let him know that i like him...

any cancerian advice?

btw, i am a pisces with my moon in leo. not sure what his moon is.

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@leapyeargirl
20 YearsPisces

thanks srg...
but does that mean its the same on his end too?
we hung out last night after work and he wants to hang out again tonight... but i asked him to join our mutual friends...

last night he walked me to the taxi and opened the door for me! what a gentleman!

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@SRG
20 Years500+ PostsCancer

"but does that mean its the same on his end too?"

If your friend initiates the hanging out and gives you constant attention chances are pretty good. If there's touching involved, you're golden.

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@Cancerinlove
19 Years

I second that moonchild I am very different than a all the pices I know too. I find that I am more outgoing and speak my mind more often than they do. plus my selfishness rears its head on little things but when it comes to important matters I will give the shirt off my back to help. but with Pisces I see a lot of selfishness and this self righteousness that drives me crazy.

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@Cancerinlove
19 Years

once you throw out the emotional and intuitive their are no similarity. by that same token you can say scrps are similar too which is not true.

beside we are the prettier sisters 😉.