Confusing pisces man 2

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Hi

this follows on from erniechicks thread about the pisces guy who suggested she see other people.

It surprised the heck out of me because mine did something similar.

I was out for the evening with friends and saw something I thought he would like and sent him a picture message.

He saw it the next morning and sent me this text:

" I hope you went with another hot guy? Who kept you up very late! 😉"

I asked if he was serious and then said I was with friends. So he then replied:

" Yeah its a great place. I meant you should be seeing as many hot guys as possible. Now you're going to have to come over on Tuesday so I can help you out with that! 😉"

Then when I saw him on the Tuesday he asked me about where I was again and asked me how I got home. I told him by public transport and he asked me exactly how I did it and I had to tell him the route I would have taken from where I was to how I.got home. then he seemed happy.

WTF was that about?! I've never had that from a guy before. Did he really want me to be seeing other hot.guys?!
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RoseAngel81
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Posted by RoseAngel81
Posted by IrresistableScorp
Here's a question. When each of these guys said that to you, what did you *want* to say and what did you *actually* say?



I've already told you.

I wanted to ask if he was serious and I did ask that.



Ok. He didn't really answer the question did he? Or at least not specifically. I guess I'm trying to figure out why you didn't ask him what he meant by that because its an unusual thing to say. Open to much interpretation. Just a thought.
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No and I was very suspicious but whatever. I thought the worse too. I did think that he wanted to imply that it wasn't serious by saying that to me. but when I saw him next he actually made me describe my commute home. I told him I went home and it didn't seem enough....he asked when, how, train or tube and the route. if he wanted me to be out with others why check I went home.

He was between jobs when we met and saving for a deposit. he didn't go out much as money was an issue. pride was as too.
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Posted by RoseAngel81
Hi

this follows on from erniechicks thread about the pisces guy who suggested she see other people.

It surprised the heck out of me because mine did something similar.

I was out for the evening with friends and saw something I thought he would like and sent him a picture message.

He saw it the next morning and sent me this text:

" I hope you went with another hot guy? Who kept you up very late! 😉"

I asked if he was serious and then said I was with friends. So he then replied:

" Yeah its a great place. I meant you should be seeing as many hot guys as possible. Now you're going to have to come over on Tuesday so I can help you out with that! 😉"

Then when I saw him on the Tuesday he asked me about where I was again and asked me how I got home. I told him by public transport and he asked me exactly how I did it and I had to tell him the route I would have taken from where I was to how I.got home. then he seemed happy.


-first text he was putting you on trial. Like giving you a bait and waiting silently to analyze your reactions.
-Second one he was trying to make fun of it.
He is worried about your night out.
Is there sthg you forgot to tell us?
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RoseAngel81
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Thanks guys. That's what i couldn't figure out. I thought he might be (ok hoping) he was trying to find out if I was seeing others but then why not just ask me.

I got so many questions about how I got home like he was checking if i did go home.

He took me out a couple if times after this, he was lovely to me and then he got into shit at work and pulled the disappearing at. May he swim back someday 😢
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RoseAngel81
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Thanks guys. That's what i couldn't figure out. I thought he might be (ok hoping) he was trying to find out if I was seeing others but then why not just ask me.

I got so many questions about how I got home like he was checking if i did go home.

He took me out a couple if times after this, he was lovely to me and then he got into shit at work and pulled the disappearing at. May he swim back someday 😢