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My Pisces. Cheated. Cheated bad. Broke my heart. Crushed me. Lied to me.

I heard so many bad things here about the Gem/Pisces match, but they were all about the Gems being the bad fit. Unfortunately, I forgot to look out for the unevolved Pisces while I was focused on being open, honest and true.

I'm not writing you all off, I would never... I'm just crushed.
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When in reality ..... you treated him and talked to him like he was a piece of shit, and you were forwarned that if you talk to a person like that ..... you will get kicked to the curb.


It was only a matter of time before he decided that he wasn't going to take your shit any longer and swim away .... alls a person has to do is go to the history to read your testimonies and they will find out that you put yourself on a pedalstool, and expected him to bow to you.


You get what you deserve ... that's how life works.

I'm not going to pity you ... I fucking told you numerous times that if you continue to treat him like that .. he's going to swim away.


Bingo !!!!!!
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Unfortunately, I forgot to look out for the unevolved Pisces while I was focused on being open, honest and true.







That is pretty much how she always appeared when talking about the Pisces man .... very condenscending, even when talking to him.

In fact, if anyone cares to go read history .. right in the middle of a conversation she says to him .. directly to him - you don't deserve me - and then waits for his response. And it wasn't even an argument, it was just a normal conversation.


She's a fucking bitch .. and I don't give a flying fuck whether or not you .. a Leo, ffs .. cares about what I think about another person, because I never have and never will ask your permission nor seek your approval on how I feel or observe another person.

You may respond back to me if you want, or feel compelled, but I won't answer you back ... because you're nothing after this point ... Leo.
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"My wish remains ... I hope her whole year is a pile of shit."
is that still your wish? because an emotionally strong and controlled piscean like yourself has let someone she doesn't even know get under her skin??






Hey ... wake up call ... I strongly still wish, by means of controlling my very own desires, and willfully saying it out loud .. without breaking a sweat, no skin breaking.

I wish her whole year is a pile of shit



Now, wineaux, just like the other one who thinks I can't have my own opinions ... you don't exist any longer .. but, you're welcome to keep stenching the room with your foul breath.
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I've nothing to hide. Here is everything I've ever posted about this relationship.

Here's when we met: http://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/pisces/YAY!-I-met-a-fantastic-Pisces-last-night!-2292472.asp?p=3<BR> Our charts: https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/relationships-astrology/his-chart-my-chart-2295636/ Some difficulties we had early on: https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/pisces/re-how-fast-are-pisces-to-commit-2346131/
Let's go ahead and point out here is where I said "you don't deserve me", and at the time it was indeed an arguement over him completely standing me up and blowing me off.

P-Angel, I'm sure you can't fathom this, but nothing I did deserved lying, cheating and complete recklessness with my heart.

Disagreements and personality differences are a part of relationships. People meet and learn to work it out together if they want to be together. If they don't they seperate, but what they don't do is start completely new relationships with someone else while never even letting their current know they were unhappy. An evolved individual would have walked away from me before lying and cheating. An evolved individual would have stopped telling me that I was the perfect fit for them, that they were mine and I was theirs, that they could see a long and happy future with me.
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P-Angel, I'm sure you can't fathom this, but nothing I did deserved lying, cheating and complete recklessness with my heart.

Disagreements and personality differences are a part of relationships. People meet and learn to work it out together if they want to be together. If they don't they seperate, but what they don't do is start completely new relationships with someone else while never even letting their current know they were unhappy. An evolved individual would have walked away from me before lying and cheating. An evolved individual would have stopped telling me that I was the perfect fit for them, that they were mine and I was theirs, that they could see a long and happy future with me.






You can go blow you and your false sense of entitlement out of your ass .. I read the saga, and I'm able to put two and two together to come to the only reasonable conclusion, which = you treated him like a piece of dog shit because you believed yourself to be better than him, and every time he tried to have an equal relationship with you, you saundered around like he would never be able to suck up far enough to be on your level ... so, he fucked you over, just like you did him.

tit for tat ... what goes around comes around .. and you deserve every broken bit of heart you have, for that's the way karma works, bitch !!!


I'm done with stupid bitches who think they are entitled to more than a man, simply because they have vaginas .. you're not a princess simply because you have a cunt, dumbass
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What a mouth you have... None of what you so elegantly say is true, but it's a waste to bother even trying to explain that to you. You're right. I was a total jerk to him.

I was a jerk in learning his preferred style of communication and giving him the space he needed to process things. I was a jerk to tell him ahead of time the things I wanted to discuss so that he could take time to sift through his two realities and prepare for our conversations.

I was dismissive of him when I asked questions and learned about his likes and dislikes and planned sweet surprises around them. I was setting myself up for failure when I laughed with him for hours on the phone night after night as we became close friends.

I was acting like a princess as I gushed over the incredibly sweet and romantic texts and we shared. When we stared into each others eyes and lamented over how incredible this journey we were taking was turning out to be, I was only thinking of me. When I told him I was scared and he promised that I could trust him I was being stupid. When he said he wasn't looking for love when he found me, but he just knew he had to have me, I was thinking it was for my vagina.

When we discussed our professional lives and sought each other's advice I was condescending. When I noticed his need to reassurance and reassured him I was doing it out of selfishness. When I honestly complimented him just to see him smile I was secretly planning to devestate him.

When I grew as a person by calmly discussing any differences or bumps in the road we had after deciding to make this work and be exclusive I was merely putting on a front. When I dropped my protective boundaries and let this person into my heart little by little and trusted all tht he gave me, I was merely trying to reap the destruction you so obviously believe I deserve.

Cheating is a sickness, cheating is a result for an unhealthy need for attention. Cheating starts with needing to make that intense eye contact with other people just to feel the rush, then you need more and more. Cheating is a guilty thing at first, but the more you do it the less guilt you feel. Cheating is not something one brings upon themselves, him or me.

P-Angel, you really are a piece of work. You come here and attack me, call me names. I've posted before about our history togther. The only reason you've ever developed a problem with me is that long ago I called you out for being condescending, harsh, and unusually c

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*unusually cruel. Everyone here has witnessed your bitterness, and so often directed at Gems. Sounds to me, by your own definition of what is desering of heartbreak, you are next in line.

And what's even more a testament to my character? Just as I wished you honest and heartfelt words of comfort at the passing of your dog, I too, would not wish this kind of misery on you.
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PiscesArgie - I appreciate your words. I know you as someone who offers great advice and provides a lot of tlc for fellow dxpers. To address your question, I truly cannot think of a way that I wronged him. Other than our misunderstandings in the beginning which are clearly documented here before I went silent on the boards where I said a few flippant things I was very straight up and honest with him. Those instances we discussed at length and I would always apologize for anything I said which could have been flippant as he would for any behaviors that were out of line.

I've racked my brain thinking of what I did wrong, and if I had made a mistake I would own up to it. I do not have a problem reflecting and judging my own behavior the way I would someone else's. In fact, I would say I am it much harder on myself than I am anyone else.

If I was truly to find something wrong that I did in this situation it would be this: I got wrapped up in it. I lost my head and my direction. In the beginning he showed plenty of signs of cold feet and reservations about being committed to me. Also, a few times when we disagreed he would first act as if it were ok and was dismissive about wanting to make it right and seemed as if he'd rather just move on. When we talked and smoothed everthing over those times I let these things go. Those were definitely my warning signs and those are severe enough and definitely learning milestones for future endevours.

However, when I tell you I was very mindful of the flippant side of a Gem, observative to a T the Gems ability to seem flighty, etc etc. I mean it. I was completely invested. I dropped all game play. I didn't care about right, wrong or indifferent, I just looked for middle ground and always did so from a sane and calm place. This is not normal behaviour for me and this is what I am referencing when I say I grew. I knew he wouldn't put up with "drama" and I never gave him any. We had an amazing ability to talk through all our misunderstandings. I really truly felt that I was growing into a healthy adult relationship.

The day I found out about the cheating you could have knocked me over with a toothpick. We weren't having ANY problems (other than a few days of him being distant.... which I also handled with class), there were no warning signs. Nothing. For the last two and half months we've seen each other EVERY weekend and spoken and texted every day. Bliss. Happiness. This truly blindsighted me.

So, where d
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I will only say that there are no victims ...it takes two to tango.
I'm sure the Pisces guy wronged you, there was nothing YOU did wrong, too?
It is easy to blame others for our disgraces, but hardest and tough to learn what we did wrong..it is there when we can learn how to improve and not to stumble with the same stone twice...

Yeah Yeah Yeah..Until it happens to you, Pisces....then u all just go celibate I guess..
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What makes you think it never happened to me— What is your problem, attacking everybody? Burnt by a Fish—?
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*where did I go wrong? ....

I didn't listen to my instincts in the beginning because I believed the connection we had was worth it to find out. For that, I am guilty in my heartbreak. However, nothing, absolutely nothing qualifies this type of cheating in my mind. Nothing. It's cruel and unusual punishment.



I understand you well. Not listening to your instincts, knowing , feeling some things were not okay yet going for it....It has happened to me , too.

In this case, learn from the experience , as I did from mine, and don't blame it on the fact the guy was a Fish...it could have been any sign for that matter. There are unevolved people and immature people of all signs...we want so hard to believe the good traits are there, somehow hidden...and sometimes they are not there or won't surface or we just get to know the person at the wrong time...

I also believe that if the universe is not giving you this, it is because it is not meant to be for a reason, call it because there is something better in store or because in the long run, it would have hurt you even more -imagine having committed even more to the guy and then being cheated on- Better if you got to know and it ended...


Regardless of what people say here, Fish don't tend to cheat. I never cheat. When im done, Im done but I don't do two guys at the same time...The Fish guys I know are devoted to their gfs and affectionate and nice..but again....you never know.

I hope you are taking this well, I know it is hard, I know how it feels to have a broken heart. The good thing is that fortunately, it mends..it takes time but it does. 100% guaranteed. 🙂
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Nor Air or Fire signs should be romantically involved with water signs. Air and Fire are about finding truth and communicating it. Water? They surround themselves with enablers and when you won't enable them and force them to face the proverbial elephant(s) in the room they swim off. Some, however WANT to grow. Others, well, they find someone who will support their bullshit. i.e. Earth and other Water signs. Libras are an exception however, since the Libra is always willing to give the benefit of the doubt. Gemini's already know what the deal is. Pisces live in too much fear to face it. I don't have many "hates" but "Cowardice" is one of them. The Air signs here get it. Mercury is a lot closer to the Sun, thus moving a lot faster then Neptune or Jupiter. If you're going to believe in astrology then believe in the revolutions of the planets around the Sun.

Being a Gemini that thirsts for knowledge caused me to look into the Pisces in my chart, and I realized why I attract so many fish, in real life. They're looking into a mirror of what they wish they looked like. It's easier to swim with a fish when you have it in certain places in your chart. Being a Gem, I will point out all of the imagery of that mirror. I HATE delusion and stupidity! I'll deal with slow (for a hot minute). But, I will communicate your delusion and stupidity by showing you. Pisces hate that, then they cry victim. So, let them be the victim, and bounce, or put them on a plane to New York. HaHa!

Honestly, I question whether any sign should be romantically involved with a Pisces. But, from a fractal standpoint, humanity seems to be awakening to the lies and deception on Earth as we leave this age of Pisces. It seems that people are also waking up on dxp too. *shrug*

And for the person who ridiculed this poor girl for finally realizing the TRUE nature of Pisces Sun signs. You are truly a sick individual. At least she was WOMAN enough to come and share it with the very people that just stabbed her. No, it's not something I'd do. But, she wasn't talking to you. Then people wonder why Gems sometimes have to check a pathetic dumb ass from time to time.

GemsRaGalsBestPal at least came here as a LADY; not a BITCH. Some of ya'll don't have a fucking clue as to what an honorable LADY is. Which is why some of you don't have one, or you just aren't one, and you get treated like.... Bitches.

*shrug*
~GM

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I will only say that there are no victims ...it takes two to tango.
I'm sure the Pisces guy wronged you, there was nothing YOU did wrong, too?
It is easy to blame others for our disgraces, but hardest and tough to learn what we did wrong..it is there when we can learn how to improve and not to stumble with the same stone twice...

Yeah Yeah Yeah..Until it happens to you, Pisces....then u all just go celibate I guess..




What makes you think it never happened to me— What is your problem, attacking everybody? Burnt by a Fish—?

Nope, never, u wish...Now go back in your pond.
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Hahah II have seen somme of your posts...attacking ladies. Frustrated dyke maybe??
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Pisces is no good for gemini. Pisces males a TERRIBLE for gemini girls!!! Trust me pisces guys follow me around and i've had experience with 4 of them. They're emotionally manipulative, they lie and they put on angel, innocent faces to try and hide it when you've CAUGHT THEM! Ugh its just not compatible at all. They're too sensitive and everything hurts them. They need to grow some balls. Gem girls need REAL MEN. These boys are not for us.

Im sorry you had to go through this but at least now you know not to get with a pisces again. I remember I told u about these fish boys!!!

In no time you will be back to normal. But I know how hard it is to get over a pisces.. even if he did hurt you terribly because it took me a while to get over mine! They just have a way of sucking you in... DEEP.
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I will only say that there are no victims ...it takes two to tango.
I'm sure the Pisces guy wronged you, there was nothing YOU did wrong, too?
It is easy to blame others for our disgraces, but hardest and tough to learn what we did wrong..it is there when we can learn how to improve and not to stumble with the same stone twice...

Yeah Yeah Yeah..Until it happens to you, Pisces....then u all just go celibate I guess..




What makes you think it never happened to me— What is your problem, attacking everybody? Burnt by a Fish—?

Nope, never, u wish...Now go back in your pond.



Hahah II have seen somme of your posts...attacking ladies. Frustrated dyke maybe??
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Nah, I read somewhere that the tail of the Dragon is fast approaching Gemini. The Divine's messengers are just doing what we do. She just recognizes the teams is all. 😉
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"And for the person who ridiculed this poor girl for finally realizing the TRUE nature of Pisces Sun signs."

and what is the TRUE nature of us'? illuminate me please



I'm not even going to go back to into it Sweetpea. Feel free to go through the arhives, if you wish. But, for time being, see above. ^^^
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You seem so well-versed in Fish. but you are NOT one, so I dont care about your archives dear. I would be better if you took that valuable time trying to understand yourself instead of claiming having the truth about others
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I will only say that there are no victims ...it takes two to tango.
I'm sure the Pisces guy wronged you, there was nothing YOU did wrong, too?
It is easy to blame others for our disgraces, but hardest and tough to learn what we did wrong..it is there when we can learn how to improve and not to stumble with the same stone twice...

Yeah Yeah Yeah..Until it happens to you, Pisces....then u all just go celibate I guess..




What makes you think it never happened to me— What is your problem, attacking everybody? Burnt by a Fish—?

Nope, never, u wish...Now go back in your pond.



Hahah II have seen somme of your posts...attacking ladies. Frustrated dyke maybe??

Wrong again....I am a beautiful hot latino honey..got myself one hot man too...dream away Pisces......
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Lucky you, hot latino lady!!! Lol hahahahahahahhahahahahahaha 😉
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"And for the person who ridiculed this poor girl for finally realizing the TRUE nature of Pisces Sun signs."

and what is the TRUE nature of us'? illuminate me please



I'm not even going to go back to into it Sweetpea. Feel free to go through the arhives, if you wish. But, for time being, see above. ^^^




You seem so well-versed in Fish. but you are NOT one, so I dont care about your archives dear. I would be better if you took that valuable time trying to understand yourself instead of claiming having the truth about others
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Thank you for proving my point.

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GeminiMind - Your words take my breath away. Thank you. I did know that with this post I would have to take quite a bit of heat, but I hoped it would prove to be valuable. I think it has done so. In this thread I did my very best to remain classy, it's not something I have always done here, but I am a work in progress. Again, thank you for your words.

PiscesArgie - Never have I said "all fish". Just this one. It's just that I immersed myself so deep trying to learn better ways of communicating with this fish that the word Pisces causes me pain right now.

Nats - You absolutely did warn me and it was futile. Such is the curse of hindsight. I too fell victim to believing this was or could be different. When will I learn? As curious as a cat I tell you.... I won't definitively rule them all out forever just because I feel that would be a sore generalization, but I'd be much more observant and guarded.
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KOL and GM - I'll have you know, Wineaux and I are just fiiiiiiine (we're real life besties as it were, lucky Houston, eh?). We're diving into cocktails now and going to have a blast.

thezone - Thank you as well for your honesty. When I had my last conversation with my fish we discussed some of that. I told him that everyone has a choice to be a good person or a bad person. Every time he cheats and/or lies he chips away at the good person he is supposed to be, the person I believe he can be. I told him that cheating desynthesizes him to feeling true emotion and love, each time he does this and feels no guilt he is moving farther and farther away from true happiness and inner peace. I told him that this kind of cheating is a sickness that suggests unhappiness inside himself and that I was saying all of this not from a place of malice, but of true concern and desire for him to be the man he was meant to be.

I hope that one day he has the epiphany that you have had. I truly do. While on one hand he may have hurt me severely, I do not wish him ill will, but that he finds inner peace and growth. I hope that he is able to change his ways and find someone with whom he can trust and be as open as I believed he was being with me. The facsade was beautiful while it lasted and if it were to have been "real life" it would have been the thing movies were made of.
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You crack me up Gemini mind. Know-it-all!! hahahahahaha 🙂 we need more peole like you to open our poor blind eyes!!!!



Gee, never that before. At least I'm smart enough to recognize there are a plethora of things that I do not know. So, don't insult my intelligence, PiscesArgie. It's not nice. You being the fish, couldn't handle it if I reversed it on you.

*Points Finger*

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GM - Why don't you just come on down. Wineaux and I will serve you endless supplies of gutteral sounding named beer and let you tell us all the things your Gemini Mind ponders. Even better... we have a couple other fantastic Gems that run in our circle! Oh, and hell, ok... bring KOL too.

Happy St. Patty's Day everyone. Stay classy.
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GM - Why don't you just come on down. Wineaux and I will serve you endless supplies of gutteral sounding named beer and let you tell us all the things your Gemini Mind ponders. Even better... we have a couple other fantastic Gems that run in our circle! Oh, and hell, ok... bring KOL too.

Happy St. Patty's Day everyone. Stay classy.
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