Even the word Pisces causes shudders of pain (Page 2)

Its PRETO not NEGRO...you can't fool anybody. HAHAHHAHA

Posted by PiscesArgie
Its PRETO not NEGRO...you can't fool anybody. HAHAHHAHA

I speak just enough to get the job done. Just because I can't type it as well as I can speak it, doesn't mean I don't speak it at all. Nice try in your lame attempt in putting me in my place though. Trust me, my place is far from sweet cheeks. Calling me a "KNOW-IT-ALL" makes me happy, ya know. It shows that while I know that I know nothing, it means that you know even less. Keep trying. But, stay a lady, M'kay? 😉

Its OKay cowgirl, now I will go cry and whine as all we fish do.. haha bye. I got bored.

PiscesArgie are you saying that I've been right in my assessments about the Fish and the Crab? See, English we all speak here, so I'll stay on point with that lingo. Besides, I was just showing my fellow Gemini, Feliciaf some respect. You wouldn't know anything about that, now would you? HaHaHa!

Wow! She just proved most of my points in just a few short posts. HaHaHaHa! Swim fishy! Swim far far awaaaaaay!!! They always come back! DAMN! I don't even dangle lures or nuttin! WTF?! My ex is buggin the shit out of me now about some "supportive" shit. Fuck that! I told her to go find a Taurus or a Cappy. I don't support dreams, I support VISIONS. There's a difference. Just the things that I can physically touch, at some point. Get a clue! Yeesh!

Posted by GeminiMind
Wow! She just proved most of my points in just a few short posts. HaHaHaHa! Swim fishy! Swim far far awaaaaaay!!! They always come back! DAMN! I don't even dangle lures or nuttin! WTF?! My ex is buggin the shit out of me now about some "supportive" shit. Fuck that! I told her to go find a Taurus or a Cappy. I don't support dreams, I support VISIONS. There's a difference. Just the things that I can physically touch, at some point. Get a clue! Yeesh!

HA! Hold on there GM! You talkin' about bulls? 😉

Posted by GeminiMind
Wow! She just proved most of my points in just a few short posts. HaHaHaHa! Swim fishy! Swim far far awaaaaaay!!! They always come back! DAMN! I don't even dangle lures or nuttin! WTF?! My ex is buggin the shit out of me now about some "supportive" shit. Fuck that! I told her to go find a Taurus or a Cappy. I don't support dreams, I support VISIONS. There's a difference. Just the things that I can physically touch, at some point. Get a clue! Yeesh!

earth signs makes dreams a reality you bitch!

make 😛

Posted by caligula

Posted by GeminiMind
Wow! She just proved most of my points in just a few short posts. HaHaHaHa! Swim fishy! Swim far far awaaaaaay!!! They always come back! DAMN! I don't even dangle lures or nuttin! WTF?! My ex is buggin the shit out of me now about some "supportive" shit. Fuck that! I told her to go find a Taurus or a Cappy. I don't support dreams, I support VISIONS. There's a difference. Just the things that I can physically touch, at some point. Get a clue! Yeesh!

earth signs makes dreams a reality you bitch!

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True dat. 🙂

Posted by taurusgirl78

Posted by GeminiMind
Wow! She just proved most of my points in just a few short posts. HaHaHaHa! Swim fishy! Swim far far awaaaaaay!!! They always come back! DAMN! I don't even dangle lures or nuttin! WTF?! My ex is buggin the shit out of me now about some "supportive" shit. Fuck that! I told her to go find a Taurus or a Cappy. I don't support dreams, I support VISIONS. There's a difference. Just the things that I can physically touch, at some point. Get a clue! Yeesh!

HA! Hold on there GM! You talkin' about bulls? 😉

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You know how I feel bout dem there bulls, tuarusgirl. 😉

Posted by caligula

Posted by GeminiMind
Wow! She just proved most of my points in just a few short posts. HaHaHaHa! Swim fishy! Swim far far awaaaaaay!!! They always come back! DAMN! I don't even dangle lures or nuttin! WTF?! My ex is buggin the shit out of me now about some "supportive" shit. Fuck that! I told her to go find a Taurus or a Cappy. I don't support dreams, I support VISIONS. There's a difference. Just the things that I can physically touch, at some point. Get a clue! Yeesh!

earth signs makes dreams a reality you bitch!

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Do I know you— And, I gotcha bitch, bietch!! 😉

Posted by taurusgirl78

Posted by GeminiMind
Wow! She just proved most of my points in just a few short posts. HaHaHaHa! Swim fishy! Swim far far awaaaaaay!!! They always come back! DAMN! I don't even dangle lures or nuttin! WTF?! My ex is buggin the shit out of me now about some "supportive" shit. Fuck that! I told her to go find a Taurus or a Cappy. I don't support dreams, I support VISIONS. There's a difference. Just the things that I can physically touch, at some point. Get a clue! Yeesh!

HA! Hold on there GM! You talkin' about bulls? 😉

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I was telling my ex that she'd be better suited for someone that gives her that illusion "security" that she want's since we broke up, and she's in New York. Trust me, I'm doing any and everything to keep her ass in the Big Apple! ANYTHING@ She was always comforted by my Taurus Venus and Moon. Maybe that's why this Gem is so damn stampedish! Moo!

Lena282

I don't give advice, little girl. I give descriptions and observations (Gemini). Learn to read, Lena282. And stop making shit up about me not knowing this or that. Also, stay out of adult conversations, at least the ones that I'm in. When I found out that you were just 19 when you came on the Gemini boards, I tried to be nice to you, and give you a chance at showing intelligence, you didn't like the truth, so you swam away like a little fry. But, you keep responding to my posts. Now that you're 20, not wise beyond your years which means you're still a child to me. Stop talking to me, or better yet, please be so kind as to put me on your ignore list, okay? I've got no time for a Pisces that hasn't even started to live yet, let alone be able to give any advice, about anything. I responded to a fellow Gemini who was in need. I don't recall asking you for your 20 year old opinion, or your "I haven't lived yet, but I think I know so much" attitude. You're like a Sophomoric child playing in a grown up world, to me. So, again, I'm asking you nicely, ignore me. Thank you, and be safe. 🙂

Goodnight all!
~GM

Being in the army, Ive met PLENTY of different people from all over the world and ages.

I met a 40 something yr old lawyer, who was a Gemini, that was placed as my battle buddy in Basic and she was the most immature woman EVER. They kicked her out in basic because of her immaturity, and her personality.

She changed my concept of maturity. Its not determined by age. Even Oprha said it on her show the other day and I think its due to the fact that she has met plenty of people from all over as well. So dont sleep on the yougins.

I wholeheartedly agree that a sign dosent completely define a person but i was married to a Gemini and dated a Pisces. No one is perfect and I believe both parties are responsible for the demise of a relationship with one contributing a greater percent.

P-Angel is lucid but she keeps it 100% Raw....its oddly refreshing but not without regard to GeminisGal pain. I understand, we all as chicks been there but if you come out of this not learning a lesson and maturing it a bit then that would be the offense.

Learn from it, grow, move on, and be happy.

Hate and love are almost the same feeling ...


I've read all to this saga and I stand by my views ... this Gemini woman treated the man like he was beneath her. Even in her description of events that she posted on this thread, she speaks about it like he is beneath her.


A Fish is going to disconnect from a person who doesn't treat them right .. this break up was inevitable. The fact that she believes nothing in this was her fault or responsibility, that she played no role in what happened only confirms that she thinks she is above him.


Because, if she was as she described herself .... he wouldn't have done that to her. For the fact that he emotionally disconnected = the Fish didn't feel all those things she said she was in her description where she exalted herself as a girlfriend.

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Posted by PiscesArgie
I will only say that there are no victims ...it takes two to tango.
I'm sure the Pisces guy wronged you, there was nothing YOU did wrong, too?
It is easy to blame others for our disgraces, but hardest and tough to learn what we did wrong..it is there when we can learn how to improve and not to stumble with the same stone twice...

Yeah Yeah Yeah..Until it happens to you, Pisces....then u all just go celibate I guess..




What makes you think it never happened to me— What is your problem, attacking everybody? Burnt by a Fish—?




You are such a cunt.
Shut the fuck up
with your burnt by a gayfish theory
because
SHE IS RIGHT

Another one obsessed with Fish. LOL!!!!

Posted by Lena282
You thought your Moon was Leo give it up. If you kept out of the Pisces boards I'd happily block you, but sadly you're overly obsessed with us, your behaviour is not natural and shows your mental instability.

Agreed, Lena. He can't stay away from us. Poor thing.

Man, you guys sure throw the word "Hate" around like it's candy. I challenge anyone to show me where I said I "Hate" anyone. That's a helluva strong word to use to or for anyone. There are "things" that I hate, but not one person, or Zodiac sign for that matter. I have nothing but Love in me for everyone, including my foes and the people who've dishonored me, and themselves. I'm a Gemini, remember? But that doesn't mean that I won't speak my mind and stand my ground on my assessments of you either. I can accept my idiosyncrasies, address them, then fix them if at all possible. Are my words strong? Hmmmm..... Perhaps. True? Mos Def.

However, I don't hear anyone saying that I'm wrong on any of the things that I've stated in the past or the present, do I? No, I don't. What I hear is whining, lots and lots of whining. It's cool, just don't say that I hate you because that would mean that you are important enough to me to channel that kind of energy to do so. You're not, sorry. I stand by all of my words that I've said about Water signs though. The good and the bad. You don't have to agree with any of it, it's somewhat of a free country still. But you do have to live with yourselves, I don't have to live with you. I don't know where any of you come from. But, where I come from you are suppose to be straight up to the people you love. So if it's easy for you to say that "GM hates". Know that you are on my "Incorrigible" people list, and I'm being nice, hey, I'm in a good mood. 🙂

So, get over yourselves. You aren't important enough to be hated, at least not by me. But I digress, FEAR is what causes you to say that you're hated, not LOVE. If some of you would learn to face your fears and love yourselves then you wouldn't even notice whether you're hated or not. *shrug*

Here's some things that I DO hate (not exactly in this order): Squash, anyone that would cause harm to a child, Chemtrails, injustice, floor traders (scumbags), anyone that would hurt an animal, reality t.v., soap operas, Wachovia (former employer), Goldman Sachs (Former employer), and Winter (Yeah, I know, I live in Chicago). To name just a few. 🙂 But, I haven't met anyone on dxp that warrants hate. Ha! Get over yourselves people, there is a bigger picture. We are all just a tiny pixel in an epic movie. HaHaHa! Hate, hmph! Crybabies! 😄

Seems to be a theme with several Geminis in dxp to ....



Rush into a room where they think there is something to defend

Flap their jaws at whatever is moving .. I guess because they're moving so fast, they don't know what the target is

Continue to just blast away in any direction

Then take a nap because it exhausts them

When they wake up .. they try to pretend as though the reason why they came was to provide sound and profound wisedom

Then they will back out of the room making the claim they are special and loving and always providing the upmost care and concern for everyones feelings.

@Lena
My chart has been posted on these boards for about 3 years now. If I misspoke, then, oh well. However, I've been pretty adamant about my Taurus moon in the past, so you amuse me. 🙂 Some of you should learn to read, really. Listening is an acquired skill, acquire it. I came on this board for the poster, not for the Fry. I repeat, get over yourselves. I'm a Leo rising, child. Spend your time wisely and focus on becoming an adult instead of trying to trap people on something as petty as "He said, She said." I like strong women, not children, and certainly not emotionally unstable weak women. So, no to the Pisces, deal with it. Many have tried, but too slow, too projecting, too volatile and lacking progress and substance for my tastes. Oh yea, and scared to progress. Not for me. You mistake truth for want. Typical. 🙂 Do you know how many signs that say that people are obsessed with them? ALL OF THEM! So, you.are.not.special. Gems say it too.

@PiscesArgie
I think that I might have a total of mabye 3 or 4 post directed your way in the past when you were talking about Cancer men this and that. Do you remember what I told you, and how it would turn out? Yeah, right. So don't go talking all Prima donna and crap, you're a fry too. I responded to the people who responded to me. My problem has always been getting RID of the emotional day walker Pisces, not going to them. See, you give a little bit of attention to a fish, and they think that somebody wants them. Yuck! Just shows that it's in some peoples DNA to be emotionally unstable. HaHaHa! Some of you are the biggest projectors I've ever come across. HaHa! You can't be nice to water signs. They'll misinterpret it as something that it's not. Typical.

@The projecting hypocrite

Really? Coming from you? Still pissed about the Gemini men in your life so you're the one to talk, hypocrite. You still haven't learned anything. Typical. Dishonorable people would say something as asinine and incorrect as that lie. Then there are their minions. Rats in the same sewer roll in the same manure, I guess. *shrug* Yes, there was something to defend, a fellow Gemini who was taking unwarranted abuse. But, I don't expect a water sign to understand this. I mean, it is all about YOU, init? HaHaHa! What a joke! Cannibals. Wow. But, I guess I'd hate myself too if I were you. I'm not. AAAAAHHHH but life in the Oceans are dying, aren't they? That's what happens when you take the air out out of the water. It's showing here too. People are just starting to notice the carcasess washing ashore, and it smells. *smh*

Good day.
~GM

Posted by P-Angel
she speaks about it like he is beneath her.

Ummmn, ma'am? I AM totally above a liar and a cheater. However, again you are so right. I'm lowly scum and deserved to be cheated on. You really are a piece of work.

Also? A quick note to anyone who has formerly, presently, or will futurely say that P-Angel "dishes it up so real" "says it right" "shoots it straight" or whatever misguided words you'll use... While she is capable of saying some very insightful things in threads where Gems aren't, it is unfortunate that piss and vinegar fills her mouth so often you'll only get the insightfulness half the time.

If I were you, I'd look to a more reliable source for your wisdom. Even a broken clock is right twice a day.

Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
I said a few flippant things. Those instances we discussed at length and I would always apologize for anything I said which could have been flippant as he would for any behaviors that were out of line. I was very mindful of the flippant side of a Gem, observative to a T the Gems ability to seem flighty, etc etc. I dropped all game play. I didn't care about right, wrong or indifferent, I just looked for middle ground and always did so from a sane and calm place. This is not normal behaviour for me and this is what I am referencing when I say I grew. I knew he wouldn't put up with "drama" and I never gave him any. I really truly felt that I was growing into a healthy adult relationship.
The day I found out about the cheating you could have knocked me over with a toothpick. ...there were no warning signs. Nothing. This truly blindsighted me.

i feel for you, i really do. it's not easy to let someone in, trust them and find they betrayed you. your heart will heal, your mind will be at peace again; hopefully soon.

however...i have read your posts regarding this fish and am a little confused by some of your words ^^^ up there.

you did not drop the games - you wanted to be in a relationship with him when he took that girl to coffee and yet you were going to wait to see what his response would be in and base your actions on his feelings towards you. you probably don't even realize you're playing games, but this...this IS playing a game. being real with someone means you are just that - REAL. you know pisces are intuitive...he probably read you and was confused himself by your drama.

you recognized your flippant remarks - one in particular being NYE wherein he stood you up. i realize you were hurt but if you were not into playing games you would not have responded in that manner as you were only trying to get a rise out of him which was very manipulative on your part. again with the drama, which you say you didn't do.

you realize it's not in your natural behavior to be sane and calm...again, he probably intuitively knew this is not your usual MO and didn't take your actions as genuine. you probably did try, very hard...but instinctively he was reading your energy the whole time.

i think in time you things will come to you about your relationship and the warning signs will be there. i think you were concentrating so hard on making things work with him and changing your attitude that you put on blinders.

truly i wish you well. ...but i would take another hard look at yourself if you really wish to grow from this. x

Cappiebella - If I have not clearly stated this.... there was confusion, game play, what have you in the beginning. He did it. I did it. However, when we decided, together, to be in this relationship. That stopped. I didn't push him, provoke him, manipulate him. He didn't do any of that to me either. We were both in this full force (from what I, my friends, his friends could tell).

There are a few other threads that I have posted randomly on in the past three months regarding my fish and ALL of those posts are reference my open and honest behaviour with him and how we were doing so awesome. I can dig those up for you if you like.

Again, I have nothing to hide. I've said it once before and I will say it again... in the beginning I wasn't playing by the rules of put it all on the line healthily for him. However, when we both gave in, this changed.

Sure, back then when this first started I was different. I was asking how to even have the conversation of becoming someone's girlfriend. Before this I was single for over two years.

I am capable of being sane and calm, but in the last couple of years I didn't have to. Emotions were on the line and typically it is easy to get carried away, but I made sure not to.

All -

This is getting ridiculous. I would like to calmly ask everyone to step down from their high and mighty pedastals. Could the person who has never said something flippant to their lover please cast the first stone? Perhaps the person who enters into all their romantic relationships with elegance and grace could speak up? Wait, no let's hear again from those who think it is appropriate to chastise the woman who WAS CHEATED ON. I suppose the woman who wore the short dress deserved to be raped as well?

Let's get this straight. He began a romantic relationship with another woman. He spoke to her exactly as he spoke to me. There is nothing I said or did that was deserving of this kind of betrayal. If we want to start another thread about how to perfectly enter into romantic relationships without ever being manipulative, protective of yourself, or bringing your own insecurities to light, so be it, but this is not the place.

...you are missing my point. you posted for sympathy, which you were given. there is absolutely no excuse for him to cheat on you, or for anyone to intentionally cause pain to another. ...but you also stated things about yourself that didn't seem to square up with your actions, and you said you wanted to grow..i guess that's not true? i understand you think you were in a wonderfully loving relationship when you two kids decided to be real with each other, but i think in time you will find that because of the initial game-playing, it set the tone of the relationship. perhaps if you look at my response individually instead of lumping me in with the rudeness and uncivility in this thread you'd realize perhaps it could apply to your next relationship. good luck xoj

Kstarks - Oh dear... and sometimes I really admire you... How inane is it that the people on this forum are condeming me for something I said. Once. You're right. Jesus. How could I be so short sighted? I forgot that everyone everywhere else has never said a vengeful sharp tongued thing in their life, because if they had, they too would be deserving of the ultimate torture of the heart.

YES! I get it. I almost completely broke it off on NYE. I said the following words, "You don't deserve me." It was awful, it was rude. People say and do some awul things to each other when they are upset. Take the "Angel", I've never seen such venom. However, never, ever, does that OR ANYTHING ELSE justify cheating.

Did I start this off and say I'm so wonderful? No. I simply said it. He cheated. Broke my heart. Even people who sometimes say the wrong thing in a bad situation get their hearts broken. Perhaps you can understand that.

I'm simply appalled that this thread has taken this turn. You're right. I should go and flog myself for ever saying such an awful thing. Right after that I guess I should hop to violating everyone who has ever said something even midly inappropriate to me. Grace and forgiveness have no purpose in this world now? Sweet, I guess this means I can start being the awful person I've always secretly wanted to be.

Posted by Lena282

Posted by GeminiMind
@Lena
My chart has been posted on these boards for about 3 years now. If I misspoke, then, oh well. However, I've been pretty adamant about my Taurus moon in the past, so you amuse me. 🙂 Some of you should learn to read, really. Listening is an acquired skill, acquire it. I came on this board for the poster, not for the Fry. I repeat, get over yourselves. I'm a Leo rising, child. Spend your time wisely and focus on becoming an adult instead of trying to trap people on something as petty as "He said, She said." I like strong women, not children, and certainly not emotionally unstable weak women. So, no to the Pisces, deal with it. Many have tried, but too slow, too projecting, too volatile and lacking progress and substance for my tastes. Oh yea, and scared to progress. Not for me. You mistake truth for want. Typical. 🙂 Do you know how many signs that say that people are obsessed with them? ALL OF THEM! So, you.are.not.special. Gems say it too.

https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/astrology/common-misconceptions-about-sign-2397064/?p=3

You thought your asc was Taurus. Next page you admit you got it wrong. This was last month.



If you're gonna lie do it right, and I don't care what kind of women you're into I don't do old men...particularly mentally unstable ones.

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I went to the link, and found him talking to you, eventhough he says he doesn't ... and you are quite right, he didn't know his Rising.

Just wanted to state this in case he decides to hide it.

Posted by cappiebelle
because of the initial game-playing, it set the tone of the relationship

This statement I can appreciate. Having never been cheated on, having never been so "played out" I will take many things from this experience. Defense mechanisms are a funny thing; life and the evolution of the person you want to be are fluid.

What distresses me is that it seems to keep being suggested that if I had acted differently in the beginning I would not have been cheated on. That's simply not true. Had I been different in the beginning I wouldn't have been with him and we wouldn't have progressed into this relationship. What's that little saying about hindsight? Yeah, that's the one... 50/50.

Seems that there are a couple Gemini's in here who cannot accept that they err. They will go to great lengths to cover up that they might be wrong.


I am especially fond of the excuse that infers everybody is fucked up ... this gets used by Geminis anytime they are called out ....

" .. everyone who has ever said .. "
"Could the person who has never said .."
"Perhaps the person who enters into all their .."


Just a few quotes from GemsRaPals there ^^^^^^


For some reason, they love to try and use that tactic to draw fault away from themselves and they fail miserably at it.

Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
it seems to keep being suggested that if I had acted differently in the beginning I would not have been cheated on.

my interpretation of ^this^ was actually this:

Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
Had I been different in the beginning I wouldn't have been with him and we wouldn't have progressed into this relationship.

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life's lessons are great once we get over the initial hurt and they help us evolve, but i think what everyone was saying is that you were warned in the beginning before anything started and because you chose to forge ahead thinking the best of this relationship, you were the one at fault because you actually sought out this hurt from the beginning. he showed you this side from day one and yet you paid no heed to the stop signs your own intuition and everyone else was holding up. it's like your parents telling you, "well, i told you not to stick your fingers in that fire".... maybe take a step back and realize that no one (at least i don't think they are, expect miss p-angel) is saying you deserve to be cheated on, but that you brought this hurt upon yourself. look, i've made the same mistake of overlooking signs in past relationships, i'm sure at one time or another we've all done it. learn and move on and try not to make the same mistake twice. he's got his own issues and will no doubt be repaid for his deeds in some form or fashion. ...and that's all i have to say about that. good luck, and i just know your next relationship will be better. the wrong one comes along just before the right one does. 🙂 xoj

I'm not surprised though ... because these couple Gemini's have proven over and again, and Moro, omg, who can forget Moro ....


They have this belief that they are perfect partners .. then can't keep the partner.


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The reality of that escapes them because they believe they are above any responsibility in the development of the relationship ... and will only allow themselves the throne of honoring themselves.

If you were so wonderful to him, as you make sure to say you were ... then you wouldn't be here, this thread wouldn't exist.


The reality of that ^^^ will escape your comprehension, though, as always.

Posted by cappiebelle

Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
it seems to keep being suggested that if I had acted differently in the beginning I would not have been cheated on.

my interpretation of ^this^ was actually this:

Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
Had I been different in the beginning I wouldn't have been with him and we wouldn't have progressed into this relationship.

life's lessons are great once we get over the initial hurt and they help us evolve, but i think what everyone was saying is that you were warned in the beginning before anything started and because you chose to forge ahead thinking the best of this relationship, you were the one at fault because you actually sought out this hurt from the beginning. he showed you this side from day one and yet you paid no heed to the stop signs your own intuition and everyone else was holding up. it's like your parents telling you, "well, i told you not to stick your fingers in that fire".... maybe take a step back and realize that no one (at least i don't think they are, expect miss p-angel) is saying you deserve to be cheated on, but that you brought this hurt upon yourself. look, i've made the same mistake of overlooking signs in past relationships, i'm sure at one time or another we've all done it. learn and move on and try not to make the same mistake twice. he's got his own issues and will no doubt be repaid for his deeds in some form or fashion. ...and that's all i have to say about that. good luck, and i just know your next relationship will be better. the wrong one comes along just before the right one does. 🙂 xoj

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Yes! All of this makes sense. I do feel like I should have known better and will next time. I will learn from this. I will modify my behavior moving forward.

I apologize for my earlier lashing out to you. This thread has been very painful at times and some of it forced me to look at my responsibilities which is never fun, but necessary. Your class and grace are very much appreciated, from what I know so far you are the type of woman I admire and strive to be.

What is it about these couple Gems and their propensity to exalt ?


I guess they think that if they tell someone that they admire .. then this other person is suppose to feel special .. eventhough there's nothing special about being admired or adored?


Perhaps this is the whole relationship problems you keep having .. instead of actually experiencing for what it's worth, you put admiration into the equation ... you build him and the relationship up ..... so that there's nowhere to go except down.

I am bookmarking this thread ..... because soon you'll be back telling us it's on again.

Posted by kstarks2
The fact that you are being so facetious speaks volumes about who you are and why he may have fell for another woman.

This behavior, as I found out after everything was said and done and over, is repeat behaviour for him. Very repeat behaviour for which he feels no remorse. And I quote, "So I had an affair, so I had a fling. It happens, it's a part of life."

Look, at this point, there's nothing more I can do. I can't go back and change my behaviour. I can't go back and take back my words. All I can do is bookmark this experience in my life and remember it. Bookmark it and reference it when I head down this path again with someone else. Lessons learned - Say what you mean and do what you say. Don't say things to get a reaction. Trust your instincts and those of the people you trust. Have the respect for yourself to only allow someone to be disrespectful once.

P-Angel, I'm not surprised you don't understand admiring someone's kindness. Really, truly, not surprising.

Thank you Kstarks. It was exactly the "shit happens" shrug. He even at one point said that he would like for the conversation to be over because he didn't feel like having it anymore, that he wished I would go ahead and leave so that we wouldn't have to work through it. Cold. Cruel.

The day before he was holding me in his arms while we watched a movie and he said to me. "I didn't want to fall in love, but you, you baby, I had to have. I'm so happy to be with you. You and me, we go together like peas and carrots." Moments after that, I fell asleep and.... he texted the other girl and asked about seeing her soon. whileIwaslayingthereinhisarms.

I truly hope one day he has the realizations that thezone had and is able to find true happiness because this kind of behaviour is just sick.

Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
I apologize for my earlier lashing out to you. This thread has been very painful at times and some of it forced me to look at my responsibilities which is never fun, but necessary.

no offense taken; your emotions are raw. meh, one day you'll back on this and feel like the girl you are today is light years behind the woman you will be.


xoj

Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
Lessons learned - Say what you mean and do what you say. Don't say things to get a reaction. Trust your instincts and those of the people you trust. Have the respect for yourself to only allow someone to be disrespectful once.

awesome, lady. ...and...i read your last posts...good riddance to bad rubbish, i say. it only takes one betrayal like this to open one's eyes. you've paid your dues with this chump. sheesh, how awful. xoj

Kstarks - that was the best laugh I've had all day!

Cappiebelle - *le sigh* I wish I didn't have to learn everything the hard way. THERE'S my Aries moon for ya!

Oh and K? You can rest assured I won't be speaking with him again. The "Angel" can bookmark this thread all she likes to try to throw at me later, but it ain't happening. When you wake up to find out you've been in a relationship with the Ted Bundy of the dating world it's not something one typically chooses to revisit.

That kind of behavior can be deadly. :p

I've spoken with the girl and I saw the texts. And yes, I am telepathic.

Sidenote - Gems really can make friends anywhere, the girl and I now buds, not hang out every day buds, but friendly.

Nemesis, if you've been following along, I clearly lacked that at the time. 🙂

Posted by GemsRaGalsBestPal
Nemesis, if you've been following along, I clearly lacked that at the time. 🙂

I don't think you or any woman lacks intuition. Some of us do not trust or listen to it.

Posted by GeminiMind
@Lena
My chart has been posted on these boards for about 3 years now. If I misspoke, then, oh well. However, I've been pretty adamant about my Taurus moon in the past, so you amuse me. 🙂 Some of you should learn to read, really. Listening is an acquired skill, acquire it. I came on this board for the poster, not for the Fry. I repeat, get over yourselves. I'm a Leo rising, child. Spend your time wisely and focus on becoming an adult instead of trying to trap people on something as petty as "He said, She said." I like strong women, not children, and certainly not emotionally unstable weak women. So, no to the Pisces, deal with it. Many have tried, but too slow, too projecting, too volatile and lacking progress and substance for my tastes. Oh yea, and scared to progress. Not for me. You mistake truth for want. Typical. 🙂 Do you know how many signs that say that people are obsessed with them? ALL OF THEM! So, you.are.not.special. Gems say it too.

@PiscesArgie
I think that I might have a total of mabye 3 or 4 post directed your way in the past when you were talking about Cancer men this and that. Do you remember what I told you, and how it would turn out? Yeah, right. So don't go talking all Prima donna and crap, you're a fry too. I responded to the people who responded to me. My problem has always been getting RID of the emotional day walker Pisces, not going to them. See, you give a little bit of attention to a fish, and they think that somebody wants them. Yuck! Just shows that it's in some peoples DNA to be emotionally unstable. HaHaHa! Some of you are the biggest projectors I've ever come across. HaHa! You can't be nice to water signs. They'll misinterpret it as something that it's not. Typical.

I know old folk talk non-stop but really, don't you get tired of all that typing and typing?? I get bored reading the first line of your nonsense. Just retire and do us all a favour.

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Posted by PiscesArgie
I will only say that there are no victims ...it takes two to tango.
I'm sure the Pisces guy wronged you, there was nothing YOU did wrong, too?
It is easy to blame others for our disgraces, but hardest and tough to learn what we did wrong..it is there when we can learn how to improve and not to stumble with the same stone twice...

Yeah Yeah Yeah..Until it happens to you, Pisces....then u all just go celibate I guess..




What makes you think it never happened to me— What is your problem, attacking everybody? Burnt by a Fish—?




You are such a cunt.
Shut the fuck up
with your burnt by a gayfish theory
because
SHE IS RIGHT

Another one obsessed with Fish. LOL!!!!

No, I wont shut the fuck up asshole not for u or anyone else on this bullshit foruum. Get your fucked up information correct. No, I am a Diva, and the Cunt word is all the buzz now, since I put that shit on blast....

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Stop spreading venom, will you? why don't you check—? you are getting all worked up for nothing.

that shit was directed to me from the German thing, not to you...RELAX, "hot diva"!!!

DOUBLEG you go on, and on, and on like Duracell.....post after post after post.
Go bathe in formaldehyde "young forever" HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHA

He really, really is devoid of humanity. He just texted me, he's apparently in town and wants to know if I can help him find drugs. Devoid of humanity. Searing pain all over again. Who is this person—

piece of work, that one. perhaps a good thing that he continues to act this way....makes it easier to move along though, doesn't it? xoj