Failure With Pisces Girls

Personally I think Pisces girls are a little bit too cute. It is the expression that they wear on their face that attracts me to them the most. It strikes me as being incredibly sweet yet enticingly empty at the same time. There has been a couple of times that I have met girls like that and have gotten a huge crush and felt all warm inside like I just wanted to gobble them up. Tragically I have never been able to relate to them. Its like my passion for them makes me appear really crude or something. I don't know maybe I just haven't met the right one. But I am asking the opinion of you Pisces gals out there. Do you all get turned off by obsessive men?

...define obsessive...?

Yes! Although we do love attention from a man and compliments and stuff like that, we definitely need our space and we don't like to be smothered at all. But just like @deezie said, you may have to define obsessive because it really depends.

Obsessive as in not being able to take my eyes off of her and just feeling like she's the love of my life and bringing that kind of energy around her all the time. Its like I just got the feeling that she was a little taken aback by all the attention that I would give her. Im a Pisces too and sometimes I feel taken aback when people approach me with really intimate energy but it has been this recurring theme in my life that I get burned in the same way all of the time. Maybe its my Leo Moon?

Posted by Tornadoday16
Obsessive as in not being able to take my eyes off of her and just feeling like she's the love of my life and bringing that kind of energy around her all the time. Its like I just got the feeling that she was a little taken aback by all the attention that I would give her. Im a Pisces too and sometimes I feel taken aback when people approach me with really intimate energy but it has been this recurring theme in my life that I get burned in the same way all of the time. Maybe its my Leo Moon?

We like attention but not too much.. obsessive attention. . Not so much. Attention to let us know you are interested is okay. But all out staring. .no. makes us self conscious and creeped out.

Haha. I'm a contradictory Pisces. In the initial stages, men that come on too strong, possessive, controlling and all the intense staring etc...scares me off.

But when in an established relationship, I like my men to be a little bit possessive ;-P without being controlling or too demanding.

lol "all out staring" yep thats me. I mean that is understandable and all you guys get creeped out by that it is just unfortunate for me. Pisces seem so feminine I like lose my mind I swear.

lol a pisces man "all out staring"



please.... 😄

^^^Yea but thats the thing. I fell so hard for this girl. I liked her aura so much but besides that I didn't ever feel a great connection. I don't know how that could be...

lol... well now you just necessitated more explanation on your part.
Go on...

I'm getting the feeling that you like the pisces gals, but you cease to function around them - and therefore a connection cannot even start to form.

aura - instant feeling for no apparent reason
connection - happens through talking, interacting, etc...

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Im not sure if I would say that an aura is a feeling for no apparent reason. People have different auras and the best I can describe the aura I have come to connect Pisces girls is that it is gentle, unassuming, soft. I could be wrong but to me there is something really adorable in the eyes. I have had trouble expressing myself around these types and I think that it might be because I am too intense. It might also be that Im not really able to man up to the intensity of my feelings though and she can sense that...

Posted by deezie
lol a pisces man "all out staring"



please.... 😄

So cute 🙂

You have to strike earlier, before the obsessive phase kicks in. Establish a connection before your hormones take over your mind.

The easiest way now would be for you to find some competitive interest(s). Another girl on your mind, or a new hobby. Take some time to cool off and then start again. Talk to her and her mates, make them laugh, ask their opinion, invite them somewhere. Then go for her, if you sense that she likes you. Obsess over her later, if and when she becomes you girlfriend.

Right now, the way you react says little about her (because you don't know her very well), but loads about you. This is the way you react when you meet a pretty girl. Whoever that girl might be.

The Pisces girl won't like someone with over-the-top reactions triggered too soon by...........almost nothing! You sound unreliable and the situation is not even flattering.

I guess there is a fine balance. I'm much more strongly attracted to personality and the character within a person than their physical appearance. Duh, the physical is what will get you the initial meeting but after you pass through that gate.. it's all about who you really are. If you can make me laugh.. if we can connect.. if we can comfortably reveal little pieces of ourselves to each other.
Once that connection is established THEN I want you to obsess alittle over me.. but not too soon.
Because I want to think that you know me before you get a little crazy about me.
I want to make you crazy for the right reasons.. me as a whole.. not just my body.
Obsessing too soon makes me think you are too easy.. you just wanna touch my ass and not my heart.

pices/pisces is not a good paring. Each one will try to play games and be smarter than the other instead of dating

@Hydorah
The thing is I am really influenced by Leo seeing as Cancer is my rising sign and Leo is my Moon sign. So It is more like a Leo-Pisces relationship, or it would be... hopefully...

He's got cat!

Or maybe not.....is that a vet room?

You won't have any chance with Pisces girls after you put your cat to sleep!!!!

When we meet a man we will intuitively know what you are looking for and we will give you that. that's probably why you fall for us quickly, but don't be fooled we are watching your every move in the beginning. Too much attention and we will think something is wrong with you too little attention and we will think you are not into us. Typical back and forth of a pisces woman.

Wow Undine you are definitely intuitive. Yea she was my cat for fifteen years and I had to put her to sleep because she was really suffering and not eating. But she was a good cat and now I have got a Snowfoot Siamese Kitten.

Posted by Tornadoday16
Wow Undine you are definitely intuitive. Yea she was my cat for fifteen years and I had to put her to sleep because she was really suffering and not eating. But she was a good cat and now I have got a Snowfoot Siamese Kitten.

You seem to be a caring, good guy. I forgive you 🙂.