Get over breakup?

I am really sensitive on occasion, even when I am the one breaking up with someone.

I was dating a gemini, I know I know. There were things about him that bothered me quickly, things he would back peddle on, the reasons he said he broke up with his ex w, his life style . But he was sweet most of the time so I thought maybe he was just not open talking sometimes about some matters. The other times, he would snap at me and be incredibly rude even to the point of body shaming me. I asked if he ever hit anyone, he said an old boss of his and he would have road rage. I asked if he ever hit his ex and he said he didn’t. Then he made racist and homophobic comments. It made me debate if there was any redeeming quality he had, maybe he could learn to be more accepting of people and manage anger. We talked the day after seeing him on the weekend, while it was all on my mind. He was sweet on the phone but I asked something about his traveling plan soon and he snapped at me, it was out of no where. So I told him I can’t do this, the way he can be fine one minute and scream another. To just leave me alone and I am done, it is the second time I tried to end things with him when from when he flipped but he seemed to be sincere about apologizing the other time. I hung up the call, then sent a message telling him that I can’t accept the way he talks and to just stay away

We did not speak since that day and I feel better off because his behavior made me feel very uncomfortable sometimes. But why can’t I just get him out of my head. I am not in love with him, didn’t think about him the first few days but today am thinking of him a lot. We didn’t do anything in bed btw, just dating and a lot of kissing. He said he would respect until I was ready but something did not make comfortable to. How do I stop thinking about him, is it my Pisces sensitivity, my Sag rising, my Cap moon, Venus in Taurus or am I just clueless

Posted by ACsquarepluto
Time heals. Hang in there. ♥︎

Thank you, just wish it wasn’t happening. I am proud of myself to end it because a few years ago I would have stayed in it

Write every bad thing he did on a paper and put in in your fridge. Keep reading it.

He doesn’t deserve you and you don’t really like him.

Good on you to send him packing.

Maybe it’s your venus not wanting to give up but he is not good so lucky you have your sun that see it and don’t tolerate it.

Best of luck

You listened to your instincts. Good job.

Thank you everyone, it really helps to hear this. I have plans with friends tomorrow that I haven’t seen since I got closer with him. It would be nice if he didn’t matter in a week max but trying to be patient 🙂

Posted by Fallen2Pisces

Posted by lovingpisces
I am really sensitive on occasion, even when I am the one breaking up with someone.

I was dating a gemini, I know I know. There were things about him that bothered me quickly, things he would back peddle on, the reasons he said he broke up with his ex w, his life style . But he was sweet most of the time so I thought maybe he was just not open talking sometimes about some matters. The other times, he would snap at me and be incredibly rude even to the point of body shaming me. I asked if he ever hit anyone, he said an old boss of his and he would have road rage. I asked if he ever hit his ex and he said he didn’t. Then he made racist and homophobic comments. It made me debate if there was any redeeming quality he had, maybe he could learn to be more accepting of people and manage anger. We talked the day after seeing him on the weekend, while it was all on my mind. He was sweet on the phone but I asked something about his traveling plan soon and he snapped at me, it was out of no where. So I told him I can’t do this, the way he can be fine one minute and scream another. To just leave me alone and I am done, it is the second time I tried to end things with him when from when he flipped but he seemed to be sincere about apologizing the other time. I hung up the call, then sent a message telling him that I can’t accept the way he talks and to just stay away

We did not speak since that day and I feel better off because his behavior made me feel very uncomfortable sometimes. But why can’t I just get him out of my head. I am not in love with him, didn’t think about him the first few days but today am thinking of him a lot. We didn’t do anything in bed btw, just dating and a lot of kissing. He said he would respect until I was ready but something did not make comfortable to. How do I stop thinking about him, is it my Pisces sensitivity, my Sag rising, my Cap moon, Venus in Taurus or am I just clueless

never ever fk with a gemini as pisces, them fkers are harsh and abrupt, all over the place, your gentle soul does not need this or even try to understand those fkers...they are cancerous!...believe me when i say pisces and gemini do not belong together! from my exp atleast...i fought them throughout my life..and you seem ,like a very sincere, honest pisces soul...they are not for you..trust me get over this dweeb. find something else....geminis will always break the pisces down..unless he gemini moon maybe idk...fk them geminis..they cheat alot too

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I don't know why I do it, years ago I had a very abusive gemini partner. We dated and broke up a couple of times before getting married. The patterns of this gemini remind me of him, but the whole list of empty promises and body shaming was new for me. He knows I workout and eat healthy, I felt so unattractive with him, that never happened to me with a guy before. It might have been some kind of life lesson to know him, that is what I can chalk it up to.

I did go on a date with someone Sunday evening and it was super cute. Trying to just move on, just taking more effort than I usually need to recover