He hasn't swam away...

So Mr. Pisces has decided we have different value systems. The culprit... I tend to drink fairly frequently, not falling down drunk mind you, but none the less. We were headed out last weekend to a haunt and I spent my day cooking and had a few drinks before he came. He was extremely cold to me, I couldn't figure out why at the time, I suppose he smelled the beer on my breath, by no means was I drunk. Anyway, he called me a couple of days later and said that it was disrespectful for me to have 'been drinking' before we went out. As a result, he doesn't want to see me anymore. *smh* What's the big f'ing deal? I'm an adult and have been so for quite some time now! He agreed that although I have an occasional drink (alone) that I'm still a good person and really do have a lot of qualities that he values (there's just the one he doesn't seem to be able to get past). BTW, it was mutual, no tears, no anger, he said his peace and I said mine as I had a few issues with his behavior as well.

So, he doesn't want to see me... and Pisces are said to move on and live and let live when they are done... BUT, he calls me daily still. We talk as though nothing is amiss other than a few third person exchanges (eg. he said something about having a headache the other day and I jokingly commented that I guess he didn't want sex. His response, "I don't have a sex partner". I told him he threw her away. His reply "she drinks too much").

So, where am I going with this... why the hell does he keep calling me?? As much as you all know how much I was taken by him in the beginning, I don't feel any loss (probably because of the reasons I gave him for us not continuing to see each other but that's another story that I'm not going into). So, what do you think is Mr. Pisces deal? Why the daily phone calls and acting as though we didn't agree to date anymore? Mr. Pisces broke it off with me, but has not swam away...

I get the same crap from my Pisces. He calls or texts on a regular basis, somedays flirting, somedays just to say hi, whatever. When we do talk on the phone its as if we are still together, he calls me Baby, etc. They come around when its convenient for them. I dont mind it because I Im not hung up on him emotionally and I do genuinely care for him as a friend. We shared a lot of personal details that he didnt feel comfortable sharing with many people, so Im sure that is probly why he calls/texts me. I havent heard much from him lately, so I am assuming that he is either in an emotional battle within himself right now (he just found out he's getting laid off at the end of this month) or he is busy with someone new. Whatever the case may be, he will swim back around when he pulls his head out of his ass, Im sure. If I were you, Id quit worrying about it because it aint gonna change anything. Move on with your life and if you feel like talking to him when he calls, then talk to him. Simple as that.

I don't mind, I even called him to make sure he got to OH ok as he had to go out of town again. I suppose I'm just as bad feeding into whatever is going through his mind. I truly wanted to know though. I guess it goes both ways. But, why? IDK, I don't have any feelings for him. I suppose it may be the same for him. It's just natural due to our friendship.