Help! I think I'm insane

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Don't feel that way, you are not pathetic,

It's difficult, because as you say it has became a pattern in your relationships, but because of that you can analyse it and change it.

A two week relationship is a very short one, but, did you just met that week or you knew him before?

Maybe you like "unreachable" guys, I don't mean they are better than you, but, they maybe aran't prepared for a serious commitment, so is an impossible match, and you get attracted to them because of that without knowing.

I would look for the causes of your fast emotional attatchment, maybe abandonment of a parent or smth that triggers that response in a possible boyfriend.
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Posted by AquaPiCusp

Now I'm feeling like there is something wrong with me.

And maybe that's the Pisces talking.

And that makes me feel pathetic.

Like I can't even get a guy to maintain interest in me for longer than 2 weeks.

Every "relationship" I've had has more or less ended the same.

I become waaaay to emotionally involved too fast, they learn my personality. And then they leave.

It's so devastating.




No, it's not a Pisces thing ... it's an immature little girl thing, who can't get over herself.

You feel pathetic because you are pathetic ... put some big girl panties on, for crying out loud.

Of course, you can't get a guy to maintain interest in you ... you act like a child. At 21 guys are looking for women, not little girls who have zero emotional control over themselves.

He dodged a bullet ... kudos to him for having sensibilities enough to toss you aside.

Do yourself a favor and stop talking and crying and start listening to grown ups, so you can learn to become one.