Help. ME. -Gemini Woman. Cancer Man-

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gemini41
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4 Years

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I’m a Gemini, with a Cancer Moon and Leo Venus. He is a Cancer, with a Cancer Moon and Venus.

I met him three years ago. What was suppose to be a casual hookup turned into him wanting to hookup all the time. I was super distracted with other things at the time and honestly ghosted him. Every once in a while, I would get a message request from him on FB but never went forward.

A little over a month ago, out of boredom honestly, I decided to play along. We’ve been hooking up now consistently, often times multiple times a week. He’s giving me whiplash.

Where we typically met at hotels, he now wants me to come to his place. I spent the night once and now he gets upset if I don’t stay over. He’s ran little errands for me. Constantly asking if I’ve eaten and if I’m “good”. Before sex, he’s super cuddly and even after. It’s like he’s not happy if we aren’t cuddled up.

We live about an hour away from each other. I let it slip to one of our mutual friends that I was coming to town. I got a phone call from him, panicking... asking if I was in town because he thought I snubbed him.

During sex, he insists on intense eye contact and it’s always AMAZING.

My question is.... what is going on? What is happening? We come from two very different worlds. But, I’m finding myself thinking about him... A LOT. He’s so guarded but has admitted that he’s jealous of me showing any attention to any other guy.

Any insight would he greatly appreciated. He’s making me crazy. Haha.
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LadyNeptune
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10 Years25,000+ Posts

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You might be reading into this.

He wants to have sex with you.. because he has a high sex drive.

He invites you to his house now... because getting hotel rooms was draining his funds.

He maintains eye contact during sex... cause he gets off with more intimacy.

He makes sure your fed... cause he's a gracious host.

He cuddles before and after sex... cause affection enhances the experience for him.

He gets upset if you don't spend the night... cause then he can't fuck you in the morning.

Unless he is introducing you to friends and family as his gf, asking you for commitment, talking about your future, planning what your kids name will be, etc etc. he is just a fwb.

Remember what that stands for. Friends with benefits.

Idk about you but I make sure my friends are comfortable and fed when they visit.