@Gemitati
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How big of a gift are we talking? What dollar amount.
I’ve missed that...so it’s 8 years of fun right? It’s crazy because I’ve stopped at 8 years. Is it a Gemini obsession limit—
Lol
oh Dios mio!
I feel like he's just doing his job.
But that more than an hour visit is a bit weird.
Idk. Somethings fishy.
I feel like I just read a script for a movie that is going to be featured on redtube.
Tf did I just read?
He sounds like a classic boundary overstepping cheater.
You sound like someone who caught the line he's been throwing at you. I wonder how "close" he is with his other patients.
I don't get it. He's married.
Married=unavailable.
Why are you going out of your way to look nice for a married man?
Why don't you try dating? Find someone who is divorced, not "separated" by 20 cm.
"Separated but living together" sounds like "I've been happily married for a long time, but my dick mainly responds to new vaginas now. I'm eating at home, while getting my appetite elsewhere".
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Cancer men are CHEATERSAfter Pisces Taurus and Virgo
They're just bad
All men are cheaters if woman isn’t good enough!
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Cancer men are CHEATERSAfter Pisces Taurus and Virgo
They're just bad
All men are cheaters if woman isn’t good enough!
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There is a difference between men and fxckboys. You described the latter.
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
Cancer men are CHEATERSAfter Pisces Taurus and Virgo
They're just bad
All men are cheaters if woman isn’t good enough!
There is a difference between men and fxckboys. You described the latter.
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Not even close!
Refuse good man sex and he will cheat!
Lay there as a piece of wood and he will cheat!
etc.
Be good and he wouldn’t have a reason unless he is just a serial cheater - but that’s just a kind exists in men AND women! Living for thrill...
Well, I expected the judgement. 🙄
People, it happens! You can’t help who you have a connection with...
For now, it’s just a bit of fun and great conversation.
1. I have made it very clear I would never do anything with a married man...but for entertainment value, I was just curious as to what this Cancer male is up to - especially since they’re suppose to be secretive and all about marriage, family and loyalty.
2. His Daughter is 16 and all he speaks of.
3. The gift was $ 200
4. We’ve known each other for over 8 years but the flirting started under a year ago when I was still married and escalated when he found out about my divorce.
Either way, this isn’t a home wrecker situation..he knows the invites (which he hints interest in) are with large groups and not one on one.
Thanks to all the none cancer males pointing fingers...your opinion is warranted, but a tad bitchy.
🙂
Posted by Lady32
Well, I expected the judgement. 🙄People, it happens! You can’t help who you have a connection with...
For now, it’s just a bit of fun and great conversation.
1. I have made it very clear I would never do anything with a married man...but for entertainment value, I was just curious as to what this Cancer male is up to - especially since they’re suppose to be secretive and all about marriage, family and loyalty.
2. His Daughter is 16 and all he speaks of.
3. The gift was $ 200
4. We’ve known each other for over 8 years but the flirting started under a year ago when I was still married and escalated when he found out about my divorce.
Either way, this isn’t a home wrecker situation..he knows the invites (which he hints interest in) are with large groups and not one on one.
Thanks to all the none cancer males pointing fingers...your opinion is warranted, but a tad bitchy.
🙂
You’re right that you can’t help your feelings, but you can control your actions. I have a problem with any person who gets so heavily invested in their emotions that they can’t see anything past them. They fail to control their actions. There is such a concept as self-restraint. Use it!
Dressing up for a married man = no control over your actions. You say that you won’t act on it until he’s moved out, but you’re already acting on it by dressing up for him, buying him an extravagant gift and entertaining him by staying an hour for appointments. I wonder what you’d do if he gave you the green light. You’re transparent, so stop with the honorable excuses,
P.S. do the right thing and stop engaging an unethical married man with no integrity in his personal nor professional life. His excuse about living together for the kid is a common narrative with cheaters.
Posted by Lady32
Well, I expected the judgement. 🙄People, it happens! You can’t help who you have a connection with...
For now, it’s just a bit of fun and great conversation.
1. I have made it very clear I would never do anything with a married man...but for entertainment value, I was just curious as to what this Cancer male is up to - especially since they’re suppose to be secretive and all about marriage, family and loyalty.
2. His Daughter is 16 and all he speaks of.
3. The gift was $ 200
4. We’ve known each other for over 8 years but the flirting started under a year ago when I was still married and escalated when he found out about my divorce.
Either way, this isn’t a home wrecker situation..he knows the invites (which he hints interest in) are with large groups and not one on one.
Thanks to all the none cancer males pointing fingers...your opinion is warranted, but a tad bitchy.
🙂
You’re right that you can’t help your feelings, but you can control your actions. I have a problem with any person who gets so heavily invested in their emotions that they can’t see anything past them. They fail to control their actions. There is such a concept as self-restraint. Use it!
-Wow! Innocent flirting and you already have me strung from the nearest tree...shall we talk about restraint—
Dressing up for a married man = no control over your actions. You say that you won’t act on it until he’s moved out, but you’re already acting on it by dressing up for him, buying him an extravagant gift and entertaining him by staying an hour for appointments. I wonder what you’d do if he gave you the green light. You’re transparent, so stop with the honorable excuses.
-The gift was not for sex points but for going over and above through my separation & re: medical needs.
-I don’t set out to stay an hour we just get into conversations that last over an hour.
-I believe we had a moment and I stopped it BECAUSE HE’S MARRIED... what part of entertainment interest in an online forum is hard to comprehend??
P.S. do the right thing and stop engaging an unethical married man with no integrity in his personal nor professional life. His excuse about living together for the kid is a common narrative with cheaters.
- we haven’t done anything - N.O.T.H.I.N.G! Put your weapon down for sec.
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Re-read my post and understand you weren’t attacked. The perception that you have of people judging or attacking you is coming from your conscience. Again, read my post and realize that have already begun to act.
Who cares about check ups, you go woman 😄
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Another Gemini here with Cancer after a Scorpio..so Cancer seems like the best gift ever! And no he isn’t hard to read at all. Maybe because he is divorced and yours is married. It’s difficult with married men. How old is his daughter?