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@LiveSilence
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Help with what I should look for?
Nobody?
Wow. We have a lot of the same placements.
My most successful relationships have been with a Sag sun, Libra moon, sag Venus and a Taurus Sun, cancer moon, Taurus Venus.
Both make me insecure AF, but I think it’s more that aim just overly emotional and when they withdraw, for any reason, I perceive it as negative towards me or about me. The problem isn’t so much them as I need near constant reassurance. They tolerate it as best they can and I, knowing that it’s my problem, try to not be neurotic about it.
Relationships that haven’t worked at all. Cancer Suns. Seems like a great idea, nope. Scorpio, too pushy for my sensitivities and their nature conflicts with my Cap moon. Air signs are way too in the ether for me.
My most successful relationships have been with a Sag sun, Libra moon, sag Venus and a Taurus Sun, cancer moon, Taurus Venus.
Both make me insecure AF, but I think it’s more that aim just overly emotional and when they withdraw, for any reason, I perceive it as negative towards me or about me. The problem isn’t so much them as I need near constant reassurance. They tolerate it as best they can and I, knowing that it’s my problem, try to not be neurotic about it.
Relationships that haven’t worked at all. Cancer Suns. Seems like a great idea, nope. Scorpio, too pushy for my sensitivities and their nature conflicts with my Cap moon. Air signs are way too in the ether for me.
Posted by LiveSilenceFeels that way a lot. These placements make us feel like everyone and no one. Unlovable. It’s hard.
Nobody?
Mercury?
Posted by MichelleTIts honestly frustrating I feel all over the place when it comes to romantic relationshipsPosted by LiveSilenceFeels that way a lot. These placements make us feel like everyone and no one. Unlovable. It’s hard.
Nobody?
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Mercury?
Posted by MichelleT
Wow. We have a lot of the same placements.
My most successful relationships have been with a Sag sun, Libra moon, sag Venus and a Taurus Sun, cancer moon, Taurus Venus.
Both make me insecure AF, but I think it’s more that aim just overly emotional and when they withdraw, for any reason, I perceive it as negative towards me or about me. The problem isn’t so much them as I need near constant reassurance. They tolerate it as best they can and I, knowing that it’s my problem, try to not be neurotic about it.
Relationships that haven’t worked at all. Cancer Suns. Seems like a great idea, nope. Scorpio, too pushy for my sensitivities and their nature conflicts with my Cap moon. Air signs are way too in the ether for me.
Definitely hit the nail on head with the neuroticness. I don't like when a person withdraws but being smothered irratates me and of course I want my alone time every now and then... I'm confusing asf
Posted by LiveSilenceWhat I’m learning to do is devote less of myself to the relationship and more time to myself. You know how extra we can be. I have to fight the instinct to go deluxe nurturer and chase these men. I also tend to date men who are quite a bit older than I am. Not all older men are more mature or evolved, but it helps.Posted by MichelleT
Wow. We have a lot of the same placements.
My most successful relationships have been with a Sag sun, Libra moon, sag Venus and a Taurus Sun, cancer moon, Taurus Venus.
Both make me insecure AF, but I think it’s more that aim just overly emotional and when they withdraw, for any reason, I perceive it as negative towards me or about me. The problem isn’t so much them as I need near constant reassurance. They tolerate it as best they can and I, knowing that it’s my problem, try to not be neurotic about it.
Relationships that haven’t worked at all. Cancer Suns. Seems like a great idea, nope. Scorpio, too pushy for my sensitivities and their nature conflicts with my Cap moon. Air signs are way too in the ether for me.
Definitely hit the nail on head with the neuroticness. I don't like when a person withdraws but being smothered irratates me and of course I want my alone time every now and then... I'm confusing asf
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I sleep on emotions instead of texting or calling and getting stupid on a mood change. It’s really hard, but I’m learning to restrain myself.
I feel like that analytical Cappy Moon makes us over rationalize emotions. Makes it all too in our head and that when a perfectly decent beginning goes to crap in a hurry.
Posted by MichelleTYeah I find I over do it after a few weeks, so working on self restraint is a must. Nice to know someone understands!Posted by LiveSilenceWhat I’m learning to do is devote less of myself to the relationship and more time to myself. You know how extra we can be. I have to fight the instinct to go deluxe nurturer and chase these men. I also tend to date men who are quite a bit older than I am. Not all older men are more mature or evolved, but it helps.Posted by MichelleT
Wow. We have a lot of the same placements.
My most successful relationships have been with a Sag sun, Libra moon, sag Venus and a Taurus Sun, cancer moon, Taurus Venus.
Both make me insecure AF, but I think it’s more that aim just overly emotional and when they withdraw, for any reason, I perceive it as negative towards me or about me. The problem isn’t so much them as I need near constant reassurance. They tolerate it as best they can and I, knowing that it’s my problem, try to not be neurotic about it.
Relationships that haven’t worked at all. Cancer Suns. Seems like a great idea, nope. Scorpio, too pushy for my sensitivities and their nature conflicts with my Cap moon. Air signs are way too in the ether for me.
Definitely hit the nail on head with the neuroticness. I don't like when a person withdraws but being smothered irratates me and of course I want my alone time every now and then... I'm confusing asf
I sleep on emotions instead of texting or calling and getting stupid on a mood change. It’s really hard, but I’m learning to restrain myself.
I feel like that analytical Cappy Moon makes us over rationalize emotions. Makes it all too in our head and that when a perfectly decent beginning goes to crap in a hurry.
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Last Sag I met was a player, Leo was too narcissistic and a SOB, the Taurus I met seemed cool but distance was too great, Capricorn confuse me, Scorpio was a nope. So behold my frustration 😂
Posted by LiveSilenceSun signs are but one factor. I think a persons moon and Venus sign are far more important when looking at relationship behaviors and potentials. I really connected well with a Virgo with a Leo Venus. You would think that would work well, and it did. They like constant affection and strive for perfection, but my Cap moon and his Cap moon made both of us over think it right into the ground. I played myself on that one (I always do, though). I think that Virgo was deeply afflicted by life and detrimentally aspected, so chances are we weren’t meant for the long hall anyway.Posted by MichelleTYeah I find I over do it after a few weeks, so working on self restraint is a must. Nice to know someone understands!Posted by LiveSilenceWhat I’m learning to do is devote less of myself to the relationship and more time to myself. You know how extra we can be. I have to fight the instinct to go deluxe nurturer and chase these men. I also tend to date men who are quite a bit older than I am. Not all older men are more mature or evolved, but it helps.Posted by MichelleT
Wow. We have a lot of the same placements.
My most successful relationships have been with a Sag sun, Libra moon, sag Venus and a Taurus Sun, cancer moon, Taurus Venus.
Both make me insecure AF, but I think it’s more that aim just overly emotional and when they withdraw, for any reason, I perceive it as negative towards me or about me. The problem isn’t so much them as I need near constant reassurance. They tolerate it as best they can and I, knowing that it’s my problem, try to not be neurotic about it.
Relationships that haven’t worked at all. Cancer Suns. Seems like a great idea, nope. Scorpio, too pushy for my sensitivities and their nature conflicts with my Cap moon. Air signs are way too in the ether for me.
Definitely hit the nail on head with the neuroticness. I don't like when a person withdraws but being smothered irratates me and of course I want my alone time every now and then... I'm confusing asf
I sleep on emotions instead of texting or calling and getting stupid on a mood change. It’s really hard, but I’m learning to restrain myself.
I feel like that analytical Cappy Moon makes us over rationalize emotions. Makes it all too in our head and that when a perfectly decent beginning goes to crap in a hurry.
Last Sag I met was a player, Leo was too narcissistic and a SOB, the Taurus I met seemed cool but distance was too great, Capricorn confuse me, Scorpio was a nope. So behold my frustration 😂click to expand
As I write this, I’m doing that thing where everything is an emotional sign from my partner that he doesn’t want me anymore. It’s so hard when your mind chases itself. Logical Michelle says he is Taurus, he needs personal space and decompression time when he gets home from work. Over emotional Michelle says, it’s a sign that he is home and isn’t makimg plans with you. He’s distant. Logical Michelle says, gtfo with that bs. You are amazing and who wouldn’t want you? Hes been telling you all week he wants to see you sexually and non sexually. Emotional Michelle says drive by that mf’ers house and see if there’s a car in the driveway, he’s cheating! And it happens alll at lightning speed over and over in my head. That’s the true fight. I’m almost positive you do the same, but your Leo placement probably helps you come across as a lot more confident. My Aquarius rising makes me come across like that, until you get to know me.
It’s not them. It’s us.
Posted by MichelleTPosted by LiveSilenceSun signs are but one factor. I think a persons moon and Venus sign are far more important when looking at relationship behaviors and potentials. I really connected well with a Virgo with a Leo Venus. You would think that would work well, and it did. They like constant affection and strive for perfection, but my Cap moon and his Cap moon made both of us over think it right into the ground. I played myself on that one (I always do, though). I think that Virgo was deeply afflicted by life and detrimentally aspected, so chances are we weren’t meant for the long hall anyway.Posted by MichelleTYeah I find I over do it after a few weeks, so working on self restraint is a must. Nice to know someone understands!Posted by LiveSilenceWhat I’m learning to do is devote less of myself to the relationship and more time to myself. You know how extra we can be. I have to fight the instinct to go deluxe nurturer and chase these men. I also tend to date men who are quite a bit older than I am. Not all older men are more mature or evolved, but it helps.Posted by MichelleT
Wow. We have a lot of the same placements.
My most successful relationships have been with a Sag sun, Libra moon, sag Venus and a Taurus Sun, cancer moon, Taurus Venus.
Both make me insecure AF, but I think it’s more that aim just overly emotional and when they withdraw, for any reason, I perceive it as negative towards me or about me. The problem isn’t so much them as I need near constant reassurance. They tolerate it as best they can and I, knowing that it’s my problem, try to not be neurotic about it.
Relationships that haven’t worked at all. Cancer Suns. Seems like a great idea, nope. Scorpio, too pushy for my sensitivities and their nature conflicts with my Cap moon. Air signs are way too in the ether for me.
Definitely hit the nail on head with the neuroticness. I don't like when a person withdraws but being smothered irratates me and of course I want my alone time every now and then... I'm confusing asf
I sleep on emotions instead of texting or calling and getting stupid on a mood change. It’s really hard, but I’m learning to restrain myself.
I feel like that analytical Cappy Moon makes us over rationalize emotions. Makes it all too in our head and that when a perfectly decent beginning goes to crap in a hurry.
Last Sag I met was a player, Leo was too narcissistic and a SOB, the Taurus I met seemed cool but distance was too great, Capricorn confuse me, Scorpio was a nope. So behold my frustration 😂
As I write this, I’m doing that thing where everything is an emotional sign from my partner that he doesn’t want me anymore. It’s so hard when your mind chases itself. Logical Michelle says he is Taurus, he needs personal space and decompression time when he gets home from work. Over emotional Michelle says, it’s a sign that he is home and isn’t makimg plans with you. He’s distant. Logical Michelle says, gtfo with that bs. You are amazing and who wouldn’t want you? Hes been telling you all week he wants to see you sexually and non sexually. Emotional Michelle says drive by that mf’ers house and see if there’s a car in the driveway, he’s cheating! And it happens alll at lightning speed over and over in my head. That’s the true fight. I’m almost positive you do the same, but your Leo placement probably helps you come across as a lot more confident. My Aquarius rising makes me come across like that, until you get to know me.
It’s not them. It’s us.
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You seem to have hit the nail on the head with a lot of points. Sorry about that Virgo of yours, the one I knew was charming and very good looking.
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