HE'S BEING DISTANT BUT WON'T LEAVE ME ALONE

I've been good friends with a guy for a while now , on both ends there has been some feelings involved he asked me before for a relationship but I declined . He likes to play his little games so I didn't feel secure with him on that level still over the years I gain feelings for him .He recently told his best friend he could see a future with me but he didn't want to deal with in that way right now because of the things he does and felt I was a good person .

The reason for this post is his weird behavior , we recently got into a disagreement and I haven't contacted him since Sunday however yesterday he called me on FaceTime twice but let the phone ring a few times and hung up . When I ask if he pocket dialed me he one worded me " NO" . Then texts me hours later saying verbatim " at work, long hours". I guess that was a way on him informing me he has a new job . I just texted Congrats and he never responded. Was he trying to get my attention because he hadn't heard from me?

Side note : after he said about not wanting to deal with me right now I've moved on and have been seeing people , not to mention according to a girl on Facebook she's his girlfriend and she discuss having sex with him on Facebook status post . Very much different then the woman I am

Why are u worried about his behaviour when he's not even your boyfriend?

What you said makes no sense aquastic, regardless if hes not my bf of not we still are friends therefore im concern about strange behavior

You must be a special kind of stupid to be so up a regular friend's butt, in where you keep track of his comings and goings.


It makes no sense whatsoever that you are this focused on what a friend is doing.

1. @Op - What is face time?
2. He actually asked you out and you declined..
3. Well you should move on now since you stated not ready because he needs to change..
4. What did he do that you declined? How did you work it out to fix flaws. Everyone has them tbh.
5. Just a case where you both move on and learn from it.

P -Angel I thought I blocked your disgusting self years ago , your still an active member huh? BLOCKED
HAVE A BLESS DAY !

Face time is the web cam service used through iPhone . I didn't think he was ready that's why I declined at that time , however my feelings at the time were the same

Posted by CLASSifiedPisces

he asked me before for a relationship but I declined .

I haven't contacted him since Sunday

right now I've moved on and have been seeing people

The title suggests that you want him to come to you, since it's complaining about his actions ..... while the other side of your mouth tells us how you play on him by rejecting him and seeing others.


basically, this boils down to you playing head games .

Why would you even go for such a manipulative frustrated guy

Posted by risesafterall
Why would you even go for such a manipulative frustrated guy

there's nothing in the OP that even remotely suggests that he's manipulative, nor frustrated ... so you must be projecting.