Confused with my Pisces

I need advice on my Pisces bf we have been together almost 2 years living with each other for a year everything was going fine until his grandma passed away he started to loose hope then he lost his job a few months later his attitude has changed sometimes he is happy the next he is quite he let his family use him which they do not care him when we do have arguments he says things like get out my face no one wants to hear it but when I leave the apartment to keep the peace and come back he is still ther I'm a cancer female I have been nothing but good to him when it's good it's good when it's bad it's bad I shut down for a few days then he acts like nothing happened at this point I don't know what to do we don't have issues we always argue over his family they use him for money and he speaks on it like he knows but still does it I thought when you have someone being ther for you no matter what you try your best then when we are not speaking he makes extra noises laughs at the tv things that's extra to get my attention so after this last argument I shut down

Can anyone give me advice on this

I think everyone assumed you were still talking since there was no "."

Posted by Bunzlusa

I have been nothing but good to him

lol

Posted by Bunzlusa

we always argue over his family

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lol

Well sorry I am done I just need advice on this

You're not in reality.

The only advice you need is to tell you to wake up from your dream.

the fact that you see yourself as not contributing to the demise of your relationship ("I have been nothing but good to him"), while attempting to tell us that he's fucking up, even though you are clearly jealous of his family, and likely the reason you are always arguing with him about his family, even to the point that he has to tell you to get out of his face about ..... and yet, you still believe that you are "nothing but good to him" .......

..... means you're an ignorant fool.

So, it's highly doubtful that you want advice ... what you want is an audience, so that you can use them to feed specific and calculated info to, so that they will validate you, and your fuck ups.

..... because trying to put ultimatums on a person due to your inability to cope with that fact that he has a family is a severe fuck up on your part.

So, there you go ..... although, we all know you can't actually handle the truth. And we know this by the quote ......

"I have been nothing but good to him" .... which implies your ignorance to the happenings of your own relationship.

Posted by Bunzlusa
I need advice on my Pisces bf we have been together almost 2 years living with each other for a year everything was going fine until his grandma passed away he started to loose hope then he lost his job a few months later his attitude has changed sometimes he is happy the next he is quite he let his family use him which they do not care him when we do have arguments he says things like get out my face no one wants to hear it but when I leave the apartment to keep the peace and come back he is still ther I'm a cancer female I have been nothing but good to him when it's good it's good when it's bad it's bad I shut down for a few days then he acts like nothing happened at this point I don't know what to do we don't have issues we always argue over his family they use him for money and he speaks on it like he knows but still does it I thought when you have someone being ther for you no matter what you try your best then when we are not speaking he makes extra noises laughs at the tv things that's extra to get my attention so after this last argument I shut down

You made a mistake by moving in with him. You are crowding his space!He's probably checking out another girl , since u old news for him.

For p-angel for the record I am far from jealous of his family his family use him for every dollar he has they never come to check up on him and make sure he is ok and when they do come by it is to get something from him ignorant far from it I just try and tell him to be careful of what's going on that's why it leads to an argument

And for aquastic it's my apartment that's one not trying to be rude but if it's another girl God will show that to me so thats something I will address if that's comes

I came across this little website on Google but I see I made mistake this did not give me any insight at all maybe I should have worded it different people calling me an ignorant fool I have to laugh cause me responded in an ignorant way will only make me as low as the original fool

And let me warn you! Once a pisces starts cheating on you, it never ends until he finds a suitable replacement for you. you sound like a type of girl that nags .

And when the other girls that he is cheating on you with don't give him what is wants, he takes it out on you cause you always around and you cramping his style by being all wifey for no reason! Stop being too good him you not his mother!

Posted by Bunzlusa
And for aquastic it's my apartment that's one not trying to be rude but if it's another girl God will show that to me so thats something I will address if that's comes

Never take a man into your own apartment and live with them! Right now he feels like he does not have control over his life.he has no job, he does not have his own apartment to take his new girl to, and his family is using him. He does not feel man enough, he feel sorry for himself and once a pisces feels that way you can't help them!

Think hard about this , its not looking good for you

Girl don't run away! Good people will see this and comment sense.

Posted by Bunzlusa
I came across this little website on Google but I see I made mistake this did not give me any insight at all maybe I should have worded it different people calling me an ignorant fool I have to laugh cause me responded in an ignorant way will only make me as low as the original fool

But, you are being a fool. If you can't own yourself, how do you expect other people to take you?

Lol welcome to DXPNET

Posted by Bunzlusa
For p-angel for the record I am far from jealous of his family his family use him for every dollar he has they never come to check up on him and make sure he is ok and when they do come by it is to get something from him ignorant far from it I just try and tell him to be careful of what's going on that's why it leads to an argument

take this for example.

you're just bitching ... and that's all he is getting from it also

if you can't see yourself as being stupid here then I don't know what you expect

You can't change a person. Didn't you learn that around age 5, like the rest of us? If you're not happy, and you've been reduced to bitching about his family to him ... then YOU are the one tearing the relationship down to where it is.

If it isn't working for you .. then have some fucking pride to walk away. You don't sit at the front steps of an employer and bitch about how much you hate your job, do you?

do you really go to people in your life and argue with them because they aren't living up to your expectations enough to make you happy?

you really do that? you're that fucking small-minded?

This little site on the net is real talk. if you want someone to fill you full of fluff, so your little feelings will be protected .. then you should leave here right now. You'll only get the truth here.

My only question here is .... you've been together 2 years.

Have you been trying to pitt him against his family these 2 years long, or have they just started to annoy you recently?

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Posted by Bunzlusa
For p-angel for the record I am far from jealous of his family his family use him for every dollar he has they never come to check up on him and make sure he is ok and when they do come by it is to get something from him ignorant far from it I just try and tell him to be careful of what's going on that's why it leads to an argument

take this for example.

you're just bitching ... and that's all he is getting from it also

if you can't see yourself as being stupid here then I don't know what you expect

You can't change a person. Didn't you learn that around age 5, like the rest of us? If you're not happy, and you've been reduced to bitching about his family to him ... then YOU are the one tearing the relationship down to where it is.

If it isn't working for you .. then have some fucking pride to walk away. You don't sit at the front steps of an employer and bitch about how much you hate your job, do you?

do you really go to people in your life and argue with them because they aren't living up to your expectations enough to make you happy?

you really do that? you're that fucking small-minded?

This little site on the net is real talk. if you want someone to fill you full of fluff, so your little feelings will be protected .. then you should leave here right now. You'll only get the truth here.

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Jeez you funny but the truth shall set her free!

What's your sign by the way!

Posted by Bunzlusa
For p-angel for the record I am far from jealous of his family his family use him for every dollar he has they never come to check up on him and make sure he is ok and when they do come by it is to get something from him ignorant far from it I just try and tell him to be careful of what's going on that's why it leads to an argument

You want advice, here it is...

STOP TALKING SHIT ON HIS FAMILY!!!

They were there before you and they'll be a part of his life long after your gone. His choice to give them $ $ is his choice, not yours.

He knows your stance on how you feel they are 'using' him. No need to beat a dead horse.

Let it go. Focus on your interactions with him instead of theirs.

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Posted by Bunzlusa
For p-angel for the record I am far from jealous of his family his family use him for every dollar he has they never come to check up on him and make sure he is ok and when they do come by it is to get something from him ignorant far from it I just try and tell him to be careful of what's going on that's why it leads to an argument

You want advice, here it is...

STOP TALKING SHIT ON HIS FAMILY!!!

They were there before you and they'll be a part of his life long after your gone. His choice to give them $ $ is his choice, not yours.

He knows your stance on how you feel they are 'using' him. No need to beat a dead horse.

Let it go. Focus on your interactions with him instead of theirs.

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