Hot fever for Pisces

but...now he seems to be swimming in the deep waters.

Several shared meetings with a nice connection through conversation on philosophy, authors, movies, and politics was experienced. There appeared to be an obvious mutual attraction. It was dreamy. From learning that he recently broke with a gf of one year and was busy saving the world, I gave him space. Initially, he was responsive from my contact though non committal to meet, and now he has gone completely cold.

His lack of response shows no interest. However, from my perspective it seemed like such a beautiful rare connection that it would be a waste not to pursue. Perhaps, he met another or is entertaining his ex, or my perceived connection was only one sided. I can't help but contemplate some other grand gesture that may provoke a reaction to at least meet, despite my last two contacts made no impact. The contact was sweet, and included an invitation to a celebratory coffee or drink in honor of his recent triumph.

Two of my friends thought he was probably scared or hesitant to initiate.

Everything that i've read on Pisces seems a bit contradictory.

I don't know, but i thought it may be fun to get some input from other pisces who would have the greater familiarity and understanding or from those with an experience with one.



Any pisces care to comment or one with experience?

Recent breakup - I'd say he's not done dealing with it. And on that note, despite what your connection felt like - it doesn't seem it was strong enough on his side to tear him away from alternate areas of his life.

It's always confusing when you, yourself, perceive a connection - but the other person might not be feeling it even though you got on well together.

Me:
Sun Leo 6??17'55 in house 2 direct
Moon Pisces 14??06'54 end of house 9 direct
Mercury Leo 21??32'54 in house 3 retrograde
Venus Gemini 24??50'40 in house 12 direct
Mars Leo 19??25'00 in house 3 direct
Jupiter Sagittarius 29??36'06 in house 6 retrograde
Saturn Gemini 17??01'56 in house 12 direct
Uranus Libra 14??48'21 in house 4 direct
Neptune Sagittarius 2??33'07 in house 6 retrograde
Pluto Virgo 29??58'16 in house 4 direct
True Node Capricorn 26??00'48 end of house 7 retrograde

Him:
Sun Pisces
Venus either Pisces or Aries (but prob pisces)

Yah, thanks for the comment Deezie. The break has only been only a few months, but we met after just one.

It was truly dreamy though from my perspective and at the time thought he shared that perspective. I felt that he had attraction for me and seemed to be a bit nervous around me. Idk..

My moon is in pisces and i seem to relate well to them. However, i'm generally never undecided and if feel something rare i want to pursue. Obviously, i can't predict the outcome but i like to put forth the effort when i'm moved.

I'm not trying to burst bubbles with kittens inside - I'm just saying sometimes timing has a lot to do with whether a connection will actually go anywhere. And to me a few months out of a breakup is just going to be a messy start of something else. If he's being unresponsive, that is why I say it seems the timing might be off - if you are correct about the connection being there on both sides. Plain and simple he might not be ready to get into anything no matter what the connection.

Posted by TheLeo
My moon is in pisces and i seem to relate well to them. However, i'm generally never undecided and if feel something rare i want to pursue. Obviously, i can't predict the outcome but i like to put forth the effort when i'm moved.

I agree... and one can only conclude if the effort isn't put forth, the person isn't moved. For whatever reason. Happens all the time.

I agree potential development has everything to do with timing...

Seems like such a waste though....... 😢

So just keep that in mind with him... if he does like you... he'll snap around when he's ready. Worst advice to receive, and yet usually the simplest and most accurate. Booooo!

Yes the waste part... I get it. I've had numerous "connections" with guys and they never went anywhere, and I felt the same way... such a waste. The good news is there are always more out there to find a new/better/different connection with.

A man once said to me "it's not the end of the world"... and as asshole-ish as I thought that was at the time, it was true...

IDK If it's a leo thing but i love to pursue when i'm moved. good or bad,it is that.

Pisces seem to be 110% passive. i'd like to be able to move the waters...

When is his birthday, do you know exact date?

It's beautiful here: warm, festive, couples galore. Omg,,, is there anyway to move this guy?

Yes, fever, maybe.

Posted by deezie
I'm not trying to burst bubbles with kittens inside - I'm just saying sometimes timing has a lot to do with whether a connection will actually go anywhere. And to me a few months out of a breakup is just going to be a messy start of something else. If he's being unresponsive, that is why I say it seems the timing might be off - if you are correct about the connection being there on both sides. Plain and simple he might not be ready to get into anything no matter what the connection.

i really agree with this, timing is everything.

Also.... you speak about "meeting" - have you spent time in person with him already, or is this an online connection?

no idea... i'm just trying to move him towards meeting me again.😉 trying to complete a plan which communicates on a romantic level but not too heavy in case he's scared....i put so much energy in this if he only knew he wud put on his sneakers and advance at lighting speed🙂.

thanks for the complement, btw.

This was an in person connection... not online.

Ya being the rebound girl never ends well... girl gets hooked, guy puts in time til the next girl comes along and he makes her his wife. haha.... can't count how often I've seen that shit.

i've been cursed as the eternal optimist, and therefore, want to contact. ideas?

hahaha ya sorry, I'm the eternal opposite pessimist.

Case in point: everytime I force the issue with a guy who is seemingly not interested, it never works anyways.

I will leave this to some of the other ladies posting.

i'm no help either. when i meet resistance i just leave it, happens everytime. no matter how much i like the person 😢

venus in aries losing interest easily whereas venus in pisces is evaluating the ideal romance without a stop watch. ?

Do you not know his birthdate?

I would initially say to leave it alone.. If someone likes you enough they will come to you when they're ready,, I could have taken this advice before though, myself. I used to conjure up little sneaky plans to text or leave FB posts to put myself in the mans mind or to suggest a hang out.. Probably making an ass of myself in the end. Had I just left it up to him (even if he didn't contact) I would have looked like less the ass :p it's so hard though to back off when you have a smokin hot (and sweet) guy on your hands..

On the other hand, there are guys who pursue me that I have tried to give the hint that I am not interested, but as they keep pushing to talk to me over months and even years I eventually open up as a friend to them and am willing to be more communicative. I don't ever see myself with these guys, ever. But I guess who knows. I also have never dated a guy I had a lengthy friendship with before hand, so I suppose that's very possible. So.. I'm saying you could pursue to no end and bug him until he eventually opens up lol. But, I don't think that is the most ideal advice. I think that men enjoy chasing so, you may just chase him off.

Ps. Go Pisces moons *thumbs up*

how would one pursue one with a venus in pisces ?

haha ^^^^^ yah, i did a bit of a pursuit dance, but not that flamboyant. 😉


Piscesposterboy, your insight could in fact be quite on target, however, i didn't receive it before it was totally apparant that i was interested in him and furthermore, though i can be a bit coy initially most see right through that. therefore, hiding my interest or expression of interest somehow doesn't agree with me. perhaps, venus in aries ( if he is) than is not meant to be a successful conquest or match. 🙂

What you see isn't always what you get

Posted by Pandemonium
Lawlz... Yeah, I think her routine might be a tad bit too over the top for a regular courting ritual 😛

Maybe i'll try that if i pursue a leo though 😉