If he ever shares anything to you, just listen, do not tell him what to do, what he should feel or not feel, or try to resolve it for him. All he wants you to do is to listen and that is it. 🙂
I am talking to a Pisces. (for about two months). Right away I noticed his personality was "different." He enters these "moods" at any given time. Sometimes I wonder why I bother.
I found this site, and I LOVE IT! I have recently done his birth chart, and I have LEARNED A LOT!!!!!! Not sure what the Pisces you are speaking of has in his chart, but the Pisces I am speaking to has Venus in Aries, and let me tell you, this explains a bunch. Here is something I found with Venus in Aries. (Domineering and overly assertive, must always have your way, argumentative, may make show of independence, constantly proving that relationship does not control you, emotionally cold, may substitute constant activity for depth in relationship, unwilling to compromise). He is everything of the above. Sometimes I get very frustrated with him but do not show it. Wish he had Venus in Taurus instead.
I have also found that he can become bored very easily and can walk away at any time and cease all ties......still wondering why I am still talking to him.....but there is something about him.
Wish you the very best of luck.....and hope he does not have Venus is Aries. LOL.
88NNPISCES: Yes, I have read that Pisces like the chase, however, I think my Pisces is a one-of-a-kind fish where that does not work, but I am willing to give it a try; I am just not exactly sure how. I have refrained from contacting him before, and he does end up contacting me but it just seems that is ALL that happens. (things just go back and forth like that). There is ABSOLUTELY no indication that he gives me that he is truly interested in me. I have given indications to him that I am interested (not specific and to the point), but I still get nothing at all out of him. It's almost like staring at a blank page. lol.
I AM SORRY "BAK", I am not meaning to overshadow your post at all. Maybe we can both learn something from this.
88NNPISCES: To throw it all on the table, he and I met online, talked for awhile and met in person and have continued to talk and see each other occasionally. These "moods" of his bothered me. I did not know how to take them. We mutually decided to just have a casual relationship. And yes, I brought it up because of his "moods." (At that time, I had NO CLUE how to handle them and did not even know this is part of his personality. In the last couple of weeks, I have so much more insight into his "moods" and have adapted to them, and we get along a lot better. (I do not snap back at him. LOL).
As far as the letting him chase me, I am clueless. I have also read that the Pisces that he is you have to keep him totally engaged or he will become bored and swim away. I do not want that to happen, but I do not know how to let him "chase me" where he would become bored and swim away.
Here is more about him:
Sun is in Pisces Moon is in Taurus Mercury is in Pisces Mars is in Scorpio Jupitor is in cancer Saturn is in Aries
Same as 88. Pisces sun Scorpio moon here. When i get upset or tensed i need space to cool down & sort emotions. Although my moods don't really take that much time. When he reaches out for you to talk about it just listen to him, don't correct him or whatsoever.
He prolly does pay attention to conversation but it could be his other half and another half of him could be on another place. Or there is something on his mind that bothers him.
You could ask him if there is something on his mind when you notice his abscense during conversation(s).
Remember to never push him. You don't want a Scorpio to get mad :p jk
we (pisces men) are not that complex a creature, contrary to popular belief...when i'm happy, i smile..when i'm sad, i cry...when i'm upset, i put on some angry music and retreat...how hard is that to figure out ?? stop over thinking shit ...moods? come on now, we're just human...
--Jack
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-Jack