How to you tell a Pisces man to leave the house...

My co-worker has a housekeeper who has threatened to quit if the co-workers micro-managing husband does not stop critically managing her process. She began scheduling the housekeeper around his work schedule but on a few rare occasions he was off and remained home to "manage" the housekeeper.

She is sitting at her desk now fucking mortified about what he might say to offend the housekeeper. My advice was just to tell him that he's making her uncomfortable and ask him to busy himself outside the house while the lady works. She broke into a hysterical laughter and said that would only make it worse.

I'm at a loss..what should/could she say?

By the way...the housekeeper is awesome!

I think she should ask him why he feels compelled to harass the house keeper. Perhaps she doesn't do things to his liking. It could also be an issue of ego. Some men get of bully people who are "under" them.

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Posted by KaptainKhaos
I think she should ask him why he feels compelled to harass the house keeper. Perhaps she doesn't do things to his liking. It could also be an issue of ego. Some men get of bully people who are "under" them.

She says he doesn't believe he is doing anything offensive and their kids various schools hate to see him coming. He's bossy and controlling. Her personality is the opposite...she is kind of timid and a bit of a doormat. She's a cancer who mothers everyone around her...it's kind of sad. I thought Pisces and Cancers were supposed to be good together.

He might be abusing her...she looks like she's going to pass out... I feel for her.

Posted by dixie
Wtf? You tell that asshole he's gonna clean the house his damn self if he can't keep his busy ass mouth shut....

I know right!! She said she called to check up on him and he's doing the dishes! I feel for her. I've always been told the best way to communicate with a Pisces is to be direct.

You guys love to put Cancers down boy.smh.
How does she "mothering everyone"equates to being a doormat—
Newsflash, it means they care and if their"mothering"is too much for you (not you personally) tell them to back the fuck off or say thank you but I got this.
Plus the last time I checked Cancers ARE the nurturers and mothers of the zodiac.

Posted by dixie
Wtf? You tell that asshole he's gonna clean the house his damn self if he can't keep his busy ass mouth shut....

I would give the housekeeper 2 weeks off with pay and tell him to "do his thing" since he's the only one that knows to do things right.

Posted by MsFisk
She didn't equate being mothering as being a doormat. She just said that this particular Cancer is both.

Okay I see.

I don't understand how you can care that much about other people's lives

Posted by crabRiot

Posted by MsFisk
She didn't equate being mothering as being a doormat. She just said that this particular Cancer is both.

Okay I see.

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I was raised by a Cancer mother...I doubt anyone would refer to her as a doormat..more like a General. She runs everything in her charge better than most! 😉

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Posted by crabRiot

Posted by MsFisk
She didn't equate being mothering as being a doormat. She just said that this particular Cancer is both.

Okay I see.

I was raised by a Cancer mother...I doubt anyone would refer to her as a doormat..more like a General. She runs everything in her charge better than most! 😉

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Yes that's how I know myself to be and that's because we're Cardinal.
I think we can be different in love though...we seem to be extra kind, extra supportive, extra compassionate, extra understand, extra forgiving...extra everything and some people have taken advantage of that because we go the extra mile in love...and that's where others think we give off doormat-y vibes I guess.

Anyways carry on with your thread I don't wanna derail it

Posted by ellle
I don't see doormat. I see controlling.

If he acts like a dick and the housekeeper quits....that's his problem. *shrugs*

Sounds like he has 6th house planets....maybe he would prefer to clean the house himself anyways.

That's what I was thinking. Somehow it sounds like he prefers to be the one to do things rather than tell others to. Maybe he feels like he takes care of his people and possessions better than other people. Prominent Taurus or 2nd house energy?? Lol

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Posted by dixie
Wtf? You tell that asshole he's gonna clean the house his damn self if he can't keep his busy ass mouth shut....

I would give the housekeeper 2 weeks off with pay and tell him to "do his thing" since he's the only one that knows to do things right.

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i guarantee he would rather clean the house himself...

--Mack

Posted by yellow01gt

Posted by crabRiot

Posted by dixie
Wtf? You tell that asshole he's gonna clean the house his damn self if he can't keep his busy ass mouth shut....

I would give the housekeeper 2 weeks off with pay and tell him to "do his thing" since he's the only one that knows to do things right.

i guarantee he would rather clean the house himself...

--Mack

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Lmaooo, believe me I would let his ass do it!

there's no doubt in my mind...lol

--Jack