advice anyone?

Hi guys,

I have a question about a pisces man. We had a few dates last year, but we were both going through our own breakups with our exes, and he gave up on me. He couldn't concentrate on anything else but his pain. I let him go without insisting too much. He did tell me he needs a while to recover.
Recently i friended him on fb, but he didn't accept, although he did talk to me, he said hi. And i told him, hey, i remembered we had fun together, wanna go out for a coffee? He said hes working (he goes outside town with work), and that we will talk. That was yesterday. As a scorpio, i have issues with patience, but i am willing to be patient.
I just want to know, do you think we will talk and go out for that coffee? or is he too nice to tell me no in my face? Does he need time to think or what? Can you tell me from a pisces man perspective?
Please note we slept together and it was amazing, he told me so himself. We laughed together and had loads in common. He also told me he liked me a lot, and invited me to go on a vacation with him (back then). I put that on the account of his pain, and rebound. I dont want to hurt him and i am willing to be patient, and even let go if that what he takes, but if theres a shot, i would like to grab it.
Any insights?

Thanks!

i just saw that i can send him a friend request again, wich means he declined my friend request 😢😢😢😢 Should i back off for good?

Im so sad...

You've done enough.
Now he knows where you stand.
So back off.

I can imagine 100 reasons (he) might have for not wanting to return to a past friend/fling. Can you?
If you have any questions, talk to an female Aqua or Libra friend maybe.

And not on FB - (it's the opposite of BF after all)...

And don't imagine he's the reason you're sad. He's not.

thank you for your answer. I feel like i should back off too. I hope he knows how much i like him and will give me another chance in the future. I will leave him alone. 😢

Posted by energycreature

I will leave him alone.

Good for you.

A Pisces doesn't like gamers, and you appear to want to manipulate for his attention. And he might sense that, or think he does.

But, then you turn around and realize that this has to be mutual. So, leaving him alone is what you should do.

If a Pisces feels like a person is trying hold their feelings hostage or try to control their feelings ... then their wall goes up, one you can't penetrate.

And maybe he realizes that. Maybe not. But, what is certain ... if there is an inkling, he will jump stream.

You are right, i think i would feel the same way in his situation. I feel stupid for sending him a friend request 😢. He probably doesn't want to see me or talk to me just because it would remind him of how terrible he felt in the time period we met.
I've been with a pisces man myself and i know how sensitive they are and how deeply they love.
I wish him luck and hope he finds his new true love when he is ready.
Thank you for your insights!

you guys, guess what!!!!
he asked me on fb if i want to see him tomorrow 😄😄😄😄😄
i guess he had to think about it a little?
i said yes, sure!
and i had given up... but i am going to see him and just be myself, and see what happens!
wish me luck!

So..what happened, dying here!