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This topic was created in the Pisces forum by babyyl0cs on Saturday, May 23, 2015 and has 7 replies.

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@babyyl0cs
11 Years

0why does pisces man treat me bad?

I don't understand why wuld my pisces treat me bad he always says hurtful things he knows it's going to hurt me he thinks I'm out to get him he thinks I'm always doing things behind his back to hurt him or make him jealous when in reality I'm not I care about him alot and he knows that and I don't do shady things I do whatever I can for him I jump for him when he wants im the only one he gots pretty much nd he takes his frustrations out on me and my feelings why is that ?

What can I do to fix it or shuld I just give up

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@babyyl0cs
11 Years

why does pisces man treat me bad?

I don't understand why wuld my pisces treat me bad he always says hurtful things he knows it's going to hurt me he thinks I'm out to get him he thinks I'm always doing things behind his back to hurt him or make him jealous when in reality I'm not I care about him alot and he knows that and I don't do shady things I do whatever I can for him I jump for him when he wants im the only one he gots pretty much nd he takes his frustrations out on me and my feelings why is that ? What can I do to fix things or shuld I just give up and let him push me away

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@LunarMaiden
14 Years5,000+ Posts

Posted by babyyl0cs
why does pisces man treat me bad?

I don't understand why wuld my pisces treat me bad he always says hurtful things he knows it's going to hurt me he thinks I'm out to get him he thinks I'm always doing things behind his back to hurt him or make him jealous when in reality I'm not I care about him alot and he knows that and I don't do shady things I do whatever I can for him I jump for him when he wants im the only one he gots pretty much nd he takes his frustrations out on me and my feelings why is that ? What can I do to fix things or shuld I just give up and let him push me away

Many men, like your Fish don't know how to treat women in fact some are just abusive personalities.

However, I think you believe love means accepting ALL of someone.
Even the extremely bad. That is not love. That is low self esteem.
Love is having self respect and respecting yourself enough to set limits in ALL relationships.
You have an obligation to yourself to make sure you go un-abused and treated right and very well by the person you choose to be in your life.

When you set limits and show you won't put up with bad behavior you will come out with better relationships.

Learn to say no and prepare to leave if he can't respect your boundaries.

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@hydorah
13 Years10,000+ PostsPisces

sometimes pisces can become negligent with their loved ones even though they still care for them. For exmaple they can put more energy into their work than their family.
Just tell him how you feel and what you would want him to do, and if he doesn't feel the need to do it, then you should leave him.

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@WateryGem
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Posted by hydorah
sometimes pisces can become negligent with their loved ones even though they still care for them. For exmaple they can put more energy into their work than their family.
Just tell him how you feel and what you would want him to do, and if he doesn't feel the need to do it, then you should leave him.

Why is that?^^^ I know a few that are like this.

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@piscespoppy
11 Years500+ Posts

He doesn't respect you at all, either tell him "who the hell do you think YOU ARE, talking to me like that, DON'T EVER SPEAK TO ME LIKE THAT!!!! Shout it,!!.....MEAN IT!! Ive only had to do this once with my husband, never had to do it again, hes cancer. I will do anything for anyone but I wont tolerate being spoken to like I'm trash!
Or just dump him, you sound sweet, love yourself, youl attract someone nice then who will respect you and never want to do or say anything to hurt you..ok x