I need help...

Okay, i dont know who else to talk about this to, without sounding completely insane, so i thought i'd post this here. I'm a Pisces, and there is this scorpio that i know, who is VERY close to me. We know eachother pretty much very well, and recently i've been having alot of emotional pain...but i dont know if its ALL completely mine. If that even makes sense. I feel like im feeling pain from him? I dont know how to explain it, but i feel like i need to help him or something. I always feel worried that something is wrong, when there are no signs that would cause any worry...and then sometimes i feel like im being stupid for thinking that. Also, we used to be a couple along time ago (we are both bi-sexuals), and even though we havent said anything, there IS something still between us, so maybe thats why we still feel so connected, and i think it'll always be that way. I dont know, i just feel like im insane sometimes, cause i feel like im hurting FOR him, and not just myself. I've never felt something like that before, so its all really overwhelming i guess. I dont know if theres any point to this post, but i know i needed to get this off my chest, and especially to other Pisces people like myself. What do i do?

Bijou - are u sure u are not a pisces - ha - wow that is the first time someone has put sense into the way I have felt a million times over! Thank u 🙂

Aqua_Boy why ur name Aqua_boy if u a pisces?

Until i realised that I am an emotional sponge AB, I couldnt understand what was going on with me - Now when I experience this - your comment:"and recently i've been having alot of emotional pain...but i dont know if its ALL completely mine" I have a look around and ask a few questions of those around me (in a casual way) to see if they are going thru something - if it is not them then i dig deeper. Is there an energy in the air? is there a planet affecting my sign? After asking a few questions of myself as well this: is this a outer emotion or an internal feeling that has been building up & I didnt see it coming & now I have to release it - these sort of questions, if not that then i go even further - I call my family & friends that are not near me but close to me - after that i normally find the source of the emotional outbreak and can deal with it appropriately. the best thing I find is to sit in the shower or go for a swim if possible - this gets rid of negitive emotional build up.

Anyways, if worse comes to worse ride it out - just be patient & he might tell u whats on his mind.

It appears that DE and I are thinking in the same terms here ....

Aqua_Boy .. this is tricky .. tricky in the aspect that Pisces can feel sympathy for causing pain to another, as well as, the other persons pain that we feel we've caused .. as though it's the same.

"I feel like im feeling pain from him? I dont know how to explain it, but i feel like i need to help him or something. I always feel worried that something is wrong, when there are no signs that would cause any worry"

The above quote, coupled with the one below .. suggests to me that because the two of you were once a union, and continue to "feel" each other .. that there is an underlying desire for partnering that is lingering. And since you're a Pisces .. if you believe that by NOT being his partner, when he might have a desire to be so, then your Piscean psyche will process this as YOU causing him a pain ... and that is the tricky part about empathy. Sometimes, it's true empathy .. and other times, it really is our own pain that merely "feels" the same IF we were the ones who caused it.

" .. we used to be a couple along time ago (we are both bi-sexuals), and even though we havent said anything, there IS something still between us, so maybe thats why we still feel so connected .."


True empathy comes from outside of ourselves ... this sounds like it's coming from within you. If I had to put my finger on the culprit for your feelings, I would say .... you are worried, or fear, that he might be wanting you back, and by you NOT being his partner, that you are causing him emotional pain. What mostly leads me to this assessment is when you say that you feel like there is something to worry about when there are no signs to worry.

Worry?

That sounds more like the pains of guilt.

What to do? Talk to him about your relationship with him. It appears that what you are worried about is exactly how he feels about you, and how he regards his friendship with you .... ask him.

Thank you guys for replying. And to the person who asked why my name is Aqua_Boy if im a pisces, lol..its because i like the color "aqua" lol.

Anyway, P-Angel i dont worry because i feel guilty or anything. I dont have anything to feel guilty about. I worry because i always have bad feelings that something is wrong with him, its just...weird.

Shattered-Dreamz, im not completely sure he wants me back, but when he broke up with me he said it was because he didnt love me anymore, and i sensed that it wasnt true, an to this day i still dont think its true. After about a year and a half, he talked to me again (just like i predicted) and told me how sorry he was for hurting me back then, and told me how much he loved me when we were together. He asked if i still loved him, and i said yes..cause i obviously didnt wanna lie. And he also wanted to know if i've seen anyone since our break up, which i felt was kinda nosy. But yeah, i dont know lol....Scorpio's can be very confusing! All i know is that its very hard for them to say "sorry" for things.

I did some thinking about this, and i feel that maybe he has some regrets, and maybe im feeling it from him or something? I dont know.

"he said it was because he didnt love me anymore, and i sensed that it wasnt true, an to this day i still dont think its true. After about a year and a half, he talked to me again (just like i predicted) and told me how sorry he was for hurting me back then, and told me how much he loved me when we were together. He asked if i still loved him, and i said yes..cause i obviously didnt wanna lie."


I still say that this is your own feelings, and not something you are picking up from him .. except the normal that Pisces can sense from another person.

Alright, maybe guilt wasn't the right word. You're worried because he has confused you .. he says he doesn't love you, and then says that he actually did love you.

"I worry because i always have bad feelings that something is wrong with him, its just...weird."

You're worried because he has you confused ... You're in love with him AB ... you're in love with a person to whom you don't know what his real feelings are for you because he keeps changing his mind.

Scorpio and Pisces struggle in relationships .. so, you're not alone in not being able to figure out what his intentions are.

Maybe what you should do is back off for a while and let him sort out his true feelings for you .. especially if the moods you are picking up on him is making you upset.

Well its not that he keeps changing his feelings around, cause i know he did love me when we were a couple, but then broke up with me and told me he didnt love me anymore, but then after such a long time, he started talking to me again, and wanted to remind me how much he loved me when we were a couple, and how sorry he was for hurting me. Thats the part that confuses me actually. I dont know why someone would want to bring stuff up like that, if its over. Especially after so long.

Blahhhhhh i hate scorpio's lol.

whoops..there was meant to be a "a" in front of all those h's at the bottom lol.

A hurt pisces that turns into a bitter pisces sometimes - nothing worse than a bitter pisces - Seen it first hand & they are bithces

I guess we're all different because I can love somebody with all my heart and still swim.

Just completely detach/severe the cord, while still maintaining the same love.

I thought all Pisces could do that ... guess not.