Im In Love Wit Pisces Kryptonite But Imma Libra!

Im in love with a Pisces Woman and she tells me she loves me also, but she doesn't want to be my girl. I think she just wants me for sex cause everyone knows Libras are good in bed. I asked for a relationship and she turns it down. She Offers to be friends, but even though im a Libra and we fall in love quickly my feelings for her are ginuwine. I said if we cant be together whats the point of being friends because we crossed the friendship line a long time ago. Just to give u a little bit of history. When we first met things were fine as FRIENDS I was going though a divorce and she was a shoulder to lean on. Then a month or so goes by and she says i had some stare that turned her on and we went at it. The sex was the best I ever had and every time after. I mean we never had any bad sex then we hung out even more. From the get go she said she was not interested in being friends with bene's or just sex partners, So I said ok and i really started liking her. Now to make a long story short she doesnt want to be my girl, but wants to continue to have sex together till her Mr right comes around when ever that is then she's gonna cut me off and then ill just be the friend. So I call it how I see it. I said well how bout we just become fuck buddies that way when u decide to stop fooling around with me it will be easy for me to let go. She states i already told u thats not what im lookin for. Aaaahhhh somebody please help me or am i goin crazy! We're having sex basically a relationship with out the title is'nt that being friends with bene's or fuck buddies, but just not stating the obveious......Any way my feelins are so deep for her that i cant pull away. I always wanna see her, or hear her voice,or do something for her. How do i lose these feelings with out losing her. I mean i would like to be her friend, but i know me and im gonna wanna sleep with her, cuddle, stay the night and all that jazz. So how do i stop the Pisces kryptonite do i continue to see if she will give in or take the lose and just cut her off first.

aye that was some real shit u wrote i just hate being a libra sometimes cause thats what we do...LOVE

Looks like a case of the wanting what you can't have.

Posted by Chance11
sometimes it's hard to pull out

lmmfao.

Posted by Starfish225
Dude, whats wrong with you— She has already told you that she is using you for sex until her Mr.Right comes along..Your doing this to yourself..Drop her ass and move on. There is plenty of women out there that wants a man who wants a relationship stop wasting your time on her..It was what it was now its over..Let go..And a lil bit of advice ppl come into our life for a reason, a season or a lifetime you need to learn which is which when dealing with women..

*Shakes head*

SF - One thing I have learned from Libra men ....the more they get treated like shit ....the more they want that person. I have never understood this about libras. One of my very good friends has a cap girl he has been continually back and forth with him and she even admits she is seeing other guys ....but he still mopes around wanting her. The minute a girl wants a libra ....he is gone like a flash in a pan. *Shakes head....sigh* It is almost like gluttens for punishment. *sigh*

PD

Sounds to me like she's terribly confused .... for she has a FWB relationship and doesn't know it, she thinks it's a meaningful relationship, yet, is also in denial of it being one, and thinks she's waiting for Mr. Right.


She doesn't know what she wants.


People would tell you that you should leave her because she has told you that she doesn't want you, and I oppose that conclusion ..... she talks out of both sides of her mouth, so there is no clarity as to what she wants ... so she hasn't given you anything definitive.

I would suggest you spend a little more time truly understanding the Piscean Nature .. for there are ways to "get" the Fish, and rather than just giving up on her, since you care about her, and she obviously cares about you ... I would attempt to capture her.

One way, and there are many ways ..... is to be a person in need. Piscean females LOVE to care for our man, if he's broken and NEEDS us to nurture him, we melt.

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Posted by Starfish225
Dude, whats wrong with you— She has already told you that she is using you for sex until her Mr.Right comes along..Your doing this to yourself..Drop her ass and move on. There is plenty of women out there that wants a man who wants a relationship stop wasting your time on her..It was what it was now its over..Let go..And a lil bit of advice ppl come into our life for a reason, a season or a lifetime you need to learn which is which when dealing with women..

*Shakes head*

SF - One thing I have learned from Libra men ....the more they get treated like shit ....the more they want that person. I have never understood this about libras. One of my very good friends has a cap girl he has been continually back and forth with him and she even admits she is seeing other guys ....but he still mopes around wanting her. The minute a girl wants a libra ....he is gone like a flash in a pan. *Shakes head....sigh* It is almost like gluttens for punishment. *sigh*

PD

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I concur.

I think pisces is one of the hardest sign to pin down. I mean they can commit and are so loving, but part of them is never really there. It's like off in that fantasy land. Their actions and their talk matches up but their mind always seems unattainable. I think they are one of the most mysterious signs. It's interesting. Thats what I've noticed anyway. They can fool you, but it's not on purpose😉