
...not to take excess drugs?








Posted by dpriyu
.... isn't there any way to motivate him not to take drugs?...it feels really bad seeing a young talented life going into ashes.
please help..anyone?





Posted by dpriyu
well Nefer and P..i don't know from where u guys got the point that i want to control his life..
it just felt bad seeing a talented life getting ruined.





Posted by kstarks2
GeminiMind, I wonder how funny you think it will be when your loved one is laying out on the street corner strung out on heroin sucking dick in the alley for a hit...talking bout "gimme drugs"

Posted by everevolvingepithet
*shrugs*
Tough love works, from personal experience.
No stats or studies necessary 🙂

Posted by dpriyu
but..last day when i saw him, i was in utter shock. that cute little boy has turned into a match-stick figure with a blank stare in his eyes..
at one time he came close to me n said---"i don't want to take all these..but......(silence)....uhhh..what was i talking about??"
i couldn't say a single word..

Posted by everevolvingepithet
*shrugs*
Tough love works, from personal experience.
No stats or studies necessary 🙂






Posted by kstarks2Posted by GeminiMind
@Kstarks
NEVER! Why? Because it's not necessary. But, we are talking about narcotics, right? I mean, of course, aspirin, Tylenol, etc. But, barbiturates? No. Pills? No. Needles? No. Cocaine? No. Weed? Yes. Marijuana is not a drug, but a organic stimulant, and is not an addictive substance. But, alcohol can be considered a drug if you want to get technical. I don't drown myself in that shit either. I'm a control freak to the extent of being in control of myself. But, that's just me. *shrugs* I'm not a teacher, but a learner. I've learned by watching other peoples mistakes, so I choose not to be the things that I would never want to become. Again, that's just me. Kstarks, you're a Capricorn, right?
Yes I'm a Capricorn, why does that matter?click to expand


Posted by P-AngelPosted by everevolvingepithet
*shrugs*
Tough love works, from personal experience.
No stats or studies necessary 🙂
Yep, it works ... no stats or studies to prove it here, niether.
Interventions work very well, but, the people doing them have to know what they are doing, and try on from a textbook.click to expand

Posted by kstarks2
@GeminiMind,
I didn't ask which drug you tried. I asked Have you ever tried any drug before? Essentially your answer is yes because Marijuana IS a drug. The fact that you think otherwise leads me to believe you want me to think you "NEVER" tried a drug before. Which is a lie. You have. Marijuana is a drug.
Do you know the definition of "drug"? Not all drugs are addictive substances. Not all addictive substances addict people. Drugs have different effects on people.

Posted by kstarks2Posted by GeminiMind
Oh, and for the record. I am absolutely NOT an enabler. Especially to Pisces. I have walked away from my own Piscean family members for trying to trap me into their "woe is me" and the "don't you feel sorry for me?" bullshit. I don't play that game, sweets, I will eat them, and they know it. It's because I truly love them, so I would never ENABLE them. Pisces surround themselves with "Enablers" (like the creator of this thread). I hope that you are not one, kstarks. Because if you are, you are in for a lot of pain. Prepare yourself.
Calm down. You're reaching now...
Enabler? see this is where YOUR problem lies...
Just because I don't walk away from my loved one's who are addicts doesn't make ME an enabler. Addicted individuals?? behaviors are confusing and it takes a very STRONG minded well aware individual to know how to deal with them. and NOT get caught up in their "woe is me" tactic. See you're taking it personally as if this is some sort of character weakness that they have and its not. They are on DRUGS! Not just Pisces but all addicts often hurt those who love them. They can steal, become violent, cheat,lie, use kindness for weakness and so on. And to some (YOU) this is viewed as betrayal because you can't recognize a person is suffering when they are causing YOU pain. This is why I said you fold under pressure and you're the weaker one. You feel angry because can't control what is happening to them.click to expand


Posted by kstarks2
oh no no no Geminimind. I have NO attitude. Just a regular discussion. Why are you being so defensive? You just proved my whole point.
I didn't say people are drugs. YOU said that. I asked you the definition.
Obviously i hurt your feelings, but unfortunately for you, there isn't any insult you can ever say to bend my spine of steel, short stuff. Remember that. i'm flattered that you following me around reading my every post. I haven't read anything you've posted beyond this thread so I categorize you as irrelevant...unimportant..and pretty much "loser"
I argue on point whereas you divert from the topic at hand.



Posted by GeminiMind
I can dig it bruh. But I don't know who's keeping count, nor would I trust them. *shrugs*

Posted by FebruaryFish
... for the rest of the general population weed is a drug. You just one person going against a nation of millions. Its hard getting people to see your point of view since there mind is set.



Posted by P-AngelPosted by FebruaryFish
... for the rest of the general population weed is a drug. You just one person going against a nation of millions. Its hard getting people to see your point of view since there mind is set.
FF, there can no more be a label 'drugs' as there can be a label of 'love'.
Caffiene is a drug, nicotene is a drug, love is a drug.
To say that weed is as bad a drug for a person as is heroine is a huge leap. It's like saying you love dandilions the exact same level as you love your mother.
Weed was put on this planet for us, it's not man-made .. every plant on this planet is here for us ... carrots, the shade of an elm, the scent of a peonie .. this also include peyote.
An addiction belongs to the person, and not the substance .. don't ever forget that. I have a friend who has never touched a drug, as you would label all to include marijuana, never smoke the first blunt in her life, and is such a raging alcoholic that it's a miracle she hasn't drowned in her own inebriation yet.
So, to say someone has a drug problem is a false statement .. because a drug isn't a problem, it is a tool to utilize while experiencing this problem.
click to expand

Posted by FebruaryFishPosted by GeminiMind
I can dig it bruh. But I don't know who's keeping count, nor would I trust them. *shrugs*
Just because the point of view is different doesnt mean you shouldnt trust. Some people grew up listening to mama all their life they too blind to see the world for what it really is or they just dont believe cause "mama" said thats how it is.click to expand


Posted by GeminiMindPosted by FebruaryFishPosted by GeminiMind
I can dig it bruh. But I don't know who's keeping count, nor would I trust them. *shrugs*
Just because the point of view is different doesnt mean you shouldnt trust. Some people grew up listening to mama all their life they too blind to see the world for what it really is or they just dont believe cause "mama" said thats how it is.
Dude, I'm a statistician by trade. Statistics are the most manipulated thing on this here Earth my man! My mama is a Virgo, and don't listen to shit she has to say either! HaHaHaHa!! But, hey, I pay her mortgage so she should be happy, right? NOT! She's a Virgo, remember? She's never happy! HaHa!click to expand

Posted by P-Angel
Crime?
If you want to talk about crimes, then I suggest you start a thread about it ... here, we are discussing what a drug is, as it is relative to addiction.
What does you getting popped by cops have to do with me and what I said?
If you're getting popped by cops then have enough sense not to be carrying in your car, Einstien.
Now, if you'd like to address the matter of what is a drug and it's addiction, this thread is open .. if you'd like to discussion geography as it's relative to criminals .. then start a thread.




Posted by P-Angel
You know what ... maybe you should be smoking pot ... you took two different posts and convoluted them together ... yeah, that's some good herb.
*** looks from side to side ***
maybe you should put some thought into why you continue to get popped, though

Posted by P-Angel
When you grow some focused thought processes .. look me up

Posted by FebruaryFishPosted by GeminiMindPosted by FebruaryFishPosted by GeminiMind
I can dig it bruh. But I don't know who's keeping count, nor would I trust them. *shrugs*
Just because the point of view is different doesnt mean you shouldnt trust. Some people grew up listening to mama all their life they too blind to see the world for what it really is or they just dont believe cause "mama" said thats how it is.
Dude, I'm a statistician by trade. Statistics are the most manipulated thing on this here Earth my man! My mama is a Virgo, and don't listen to shit she has to say either! HaHaHaHa!! But, hey, I pay her mortgage so she should be happy, right? NOT! She's a Virgo, remember? She's never happy! HaHa!
Thats you and what you believe....but there is still grown ass people who still believe what mama told them to be true. You cant deny that, and thats the people you would have a hard time converting(to your point of view). For instance, Sally grew up in the church, shes catholic, mama says the catholic religion is the right one everything else is false, Sally believe mama and live her life like that without researching Jews, muslim, baptist, etc, so how she know catholic is right when she doesnt know any other religion? mama told her it was.click to expand
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