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I dont know you, im just using instances, but I know for a fact you tryna prove weed isnt drug when it is. So you tryna convert people to your method of thinking and got mad at homechick when she didnt.
and I didnt say you was an addicted so what the fuck you getting pissed off for. You talking down on others imposing your will round here and you the one thats looking like a idiot like this other P-Angel chick....and if you Pisces spooky why you keep hanging around
I've worked around stock brokers and traders for years. You wanna see drug addiction? Come to downtown Chi-town, I'll give you a tour of Goldman Sachs, and you'll notice all of those six figure a month making coke heads do drugs because they are stupid. That's what addiction is all about. Stupidity. People get addicted to all sorts of things. Women get addicted to men and men get addicted to women. They are STUPID!! If a woman stays in an abusive relationship because she's addicted to a man, she deserves everything that she gets. Same goes for the opposite roles. There, I said it. Deal with it. I can't stand a weak ass woman. There's nothing worse. Somehow a lot of them find there way to dxp, post some sob story, begging for advice, and expect some sort of therapy. Just like a recovering dope fiend. Unfuckingbelievable! Wow! Just Wow!
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I've worked around stock brokers and traders for years. You wanna see drug addiction? Come to downtown Chi-town, I'll give you a tour of Goldman Sachs, and you'll notice all of those six figure a month making coke heads do drugs because they are stupid. That's what addiction is all about. Stupidity. People get addicted to all sorts of things. Women get addicted to men and men get addicted to women. They are STUPID!! If a woman stays in an abusive relationship because she's addicted to a man, she deserves everything that she gets. Same goes for the opposite roles. There, I said it. Deal with it. I can't stand a weak ass woman. There's nothing worse. Somehow a lot of them find there way to dxp, post some sob story, begging for advice, and expect some sort of therapy. Just like a recovering dope fiend. Unfuckingbelievable! Wow! Just Wow!
Thats their lives you live yours, if you not an addicted more power to you, just because you not thats doesnt mean you should look down on others, but thru my eyes I see you the same as I see these addicts, humans, I dont view em as addicts, everybody have issues they dealing with some might deal with em differently than others. As far as the people that come here, at least they man/woman enough to admit it and they seeking advice. So why not give some helpful advice instead putting them down?
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I dont know you, im just using instances, but I know for a fact you tryna prove weed isnt drug when it is. So you tryna convert people to your method of thinking and got mad at homechick when she didnt.
Little boy, I don't give a fuck about you or "homechick" slick. You got your peeps mixed up homey! If you knew so damn much you wouldn't be dodging bullets in the "dirty" mothafucka! HaHaHaHaHa!! This isn't mad, this is me putting your dumb ass in check little fellow. You mistake seriousness for anger. It's just like a slow Pisces to project what he'd do and how he'd feel as if everybody works like you. You're weak, your "homechick" is weak, and I made it clear as to what makes you weak. The more you bump your gums, the more you expose just how weak you are. So keep bumppin them son, I'm listening. So it's clear, I don't give a fuck whether weed is a drug or not. If you were paying attention (slow fish) then you'd know what we were talking about. But, if you stayed out of grown folks conversation I wouldn't be whippin your ass right now, would I? It's quite obvious that you didn't listen to YOUR mama when she said when adults are talking to keep your mouth shut, child! 😄
Sorry to be so harsh bro. But, it's tough love. That's how you deal with addiction. Shock therapy! It works!
Posted by GeminiMindPosted by FebruaryFish
I dont know you, im just using instances, but I know for a fact you tryna prove weed isnt drug when it is. So you tryna convert people to your method of thinking and got mad at homechick when she didnt.
Little boy, I don't give a fuck about you or "homechick" slick. You got your peeps mixed up homey! If you knew so damn much you wouldn't be dodging bullets in the "dirty" mothafucka! HaHaHaHaHa!! This isn't mad, this is me putting your dumb ass in check little fellow. You mistake seriousness for anger. It's just like a slow Pisces to project what he'd do and how he'd feel as if everybody works like you. You're weak, your "homechick" is weak, and I made it clear as to what makes you weak. The more you bump your gums, the more you expose just how weak you are. So keep bumppin them son, I'm listening. So it's clear, I don't give a fuck whether weed is a drug or not. If you were paying attention (slow fish) then you'd know what we were talking about. But, if you stayed out of grown folks conversation I wouldn't be whippin your ass right now, would I? It's quite obvious that you didn't listen to YOUR mama when she said when adults are talking to keep your mouth shut, child! 😄
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Im glad you dont give a fuck about me, concentrate on your 6 figure crackhead boss. You calling me slow but you say stupid like Im dodging bullets in the dirty, yea thats real smart, smart people based their opinions on facts and I dont see a single fact just a bunch of bullshit opinions, actually it shows how dumb you really are, and yes you mad cause your feelings got involved cause if you wasnt you wouldnt result to putdowns and name calling like a little boy. I know what yall talking about, the name of this thread "is it possible to motivate a Pisces..." and you aint talking about motivating no one. Unless your idea of motivation is calling us slow. Pat yourself on the back if you think you was harsh cause actually you wasnt, its just a bunch of bullshit to me, I see thru fake comedians vying for lols and lmaos.
*sniff sniff* I smell a bunch of hypocrite in your post.
Something's not adding up here.. backpedaling and trying to justify sticking your nose in someone else's personal business sucks.
You run into a guy you hardly see, he's lost a lot of weight and seems distracted, smells of marijuana. Pot smokers (if they're thinking it's a problem and want to stop) who are talking of their drug use do not say, "I don't want to take all of these.." (they'd say, "I don't want to smoke all of this...") therefore you took your quick observations (lost weight, distracted, mumbling nonsense) or rumors you've heard (he's lost interest in his artistic stuff and other mood/behavior changes).. and jumped to conclusions.. 1) that he's a drug addict 2) that it's "excessive" 3) that he's crying out for YOUR help.
I realize you have limited exp with drugs, but you're judgmental about someone CHOOSING otherwise. But pot-smokers, even to the extent of Cheech & Chong or Snoop Dogg DO NOT tend to get "match-stick thin".. that's just NOT what pot does to most people. The "munchies" tend to make people "veg out" and snack a lot, and GAIN weight from more calories and lack of exercise. Cocaine or speed.. he could lose weight bigtime.. but not usually pot :p
Actually, weight loss can happen for many reasons.. like money trouble causing him to miss meals, or having no appetite due to stress or heartbreak. (YOU lost your appetite after Pisces left you, wanted to sleep/cry all the time, and HE had to tell you to take better care of yourself and eat some food, iirc?) For all YOU know, a girl he really loved could have left him - trouble eating, sleeping, and lost interest in some things. For all YOU know, his Dad could have died.. or his dog Rover back home that he's had since he was 8.. you don't know enough about him or his life to decide what his "problem" is, or if he actually HAS one, much less one he can't handle on his own.
Now, I'm not denying that the boy could have been higher than a Georgia pine when he ran into you on campus, esp w/ the pot smell. That COULD even explain his dazed behavior.. but you don't see/know him well enough to decide he's not only a druggie, he needs help he's not ASKED FOR.. esp from a near-stranger.
How would YOU have liked someone to see you after Pisces dumped you, see how tired, lost, distracted you were, smell pot on you, and assume you're a total druggie and need an intervention? Esp someone who doesn't even KNOW you or your situation—
You run into a guy you hardly see, he's lost a lot of weight and seems distracted, smells of marijuana. Pot smokers (if they're thinking it's a problem and want to stop) who are talking of their drug use do not say, "I don't want to take all of these.." (they'd say, "I don't want to smoke all of this...") therefore you took your quick observations (lost weight, distracted, mumbling nonsense) or rumors you've heard (he's lost interest in his artistic stuff and other mood/behavior changes).. and jumped to conclusions.. 1) that he's a drug addict 2) that it's "excessive" 3) that he's crying out for YOUR help.
I realize you have limited exp with drugs, but you're judgmental about someone CHOOSING otherwise. But pot-smokers, even to the extent of Cheech & Chong or Snoop Dogg DO NOT tend to get "match-stick thin".. that's just NOT what pot does to most people. The "munchies" tend to make people "veg out" and snack a lot, and GAIN weight from more calories and lack of exercise. Cocaine or speed.. he could lose weight bigtime.. but not usually pot :p
Actually, weight loss can happen for many reasons.. like money trouble causing him to miss meals, or having no appetite due to stress or heartbreak. (YOU lost your appetite after Pisces left you, wanted to sleep/cry all the time, and HE had to tell you to take better care of yourself and eat some food, iirc?) For all YOU know, a girl he really loved could have left him - trouble eating, sleeping, and lost interest in some things. For all YOU know, his Dad could have died.. or his dog Rover back home that he's had since he was 8.. you don't know enough about him or his life to decide what his "problem" is, or if he actually HAS one, much less one he can't handle on his own.
Now, I'm not denying that the boy could have been higher than a Georgia pine when he ran into you on campus, esp w/ the pot smell. That COULD even explain his dazed behavior.. but you don't see/know him well enough to decide he's not only a druggie, he needs help he's not ASKED FOR.. esp from a near-stranger.
How would YOU have liked someone to see you after Pisces dumped you, see how tired, lost, distracted you were, smell pot on you, and assume you're a total druggie and need an intervention? Esp someone who doesn't even KNOW you or your situation—
Oh, and P.S. .. I have a very low drug tolerance personally, my body simply does not react well with them. So I don't take prescription pain-killers and such unless absolutely needed, and always half or less of the prescribed dose. Usually, I won't even take an aspirin or Tylenol for a headache. I don't do street/illegal drugs. The "hardest" I've ever even tried was pot, and it was only a couple times in my life. I've never even done speed, FFS. I don't even usually drink more than 1 or 2 drinks at a time, and go months and months without ever drinking any alcohol at all, and have only been DRUNK perhaps two or three times, ever. When I go out with friends, I usually drink water, or occasionally a soda pop.
The point is.. these are MY CHOICES.. I've never cared for the feeling of being high or drunk, and I CHOOSE to not indulge in those things. However, I do not try to force MY beliefs on others. If they choose to drink, even to excess, even to the point of "ruining" their own lives.. that's on THEM... same for drug use. Not my business when someone makes a personal choice like that.. no more than it being my business what their career choice is, if they choose to have or not have kids, if they choose to not go to church on Sunday, if they decide to start or give up a hobby.. see what I mean?
If a friend ASKS for my help, I give it as best I can. But I don't ASSUME it's my place or my business to make choices for them, or judge them for what they choose. Go ahead and ASK this boy if he needs your help.. I bet you $ 1 he says no. And if he doesn't believe he needs your help, he'll certainly resent your judgment and interference, you Nosy Nellie. :/
The point is.. these are MY CHOICES.. I've never cared for the feeling of being high or drunk, and I CHOOSE to not indulge in those things. However, I do not try to force MY beliefs on others. If they choose to drink, even to excess, even to the point of "ruining" their own lives.. that's on THEM... same for drug use. Not my business when someone makes a personal choice like that.. no more than it being my business what their career choice is, if they choose to have or not have kids, if they choose to not go to church on Sunday, if they decide to start or give up a hobby.. see what I mean?
If a friend ASKS for my help, I give it as best I can. But I don't ASSUME it's my place or my business to make choices for them, or judge them for what they choose. Go ahead and ASK this boy if he needs your help.. I bet you $ 1 he says no. And if he doesn't believe he needs your help, he'll certainly resent your judgment and interference, you Nosy Nellie. :/
Ian, omg... what I meant was that pot-smoking isn't generally going to make people lose a huge amount of weight, to the point they "shock" someone who hasn't seen them in awhile.. it's just not that kind of drug. And I wasn't saying that people who smoke pot always get fat haha For example, my Leo ex was a bigtime pot smoker.. skinny guy, stayed skinny even though he ate.. well, like he was always high LOL But he never lost huge amounts of weight or looked haggard until he developed a Vicodin, then Methadone addiction. (I'm sure the meth he was dabbling in didn't help, either.) You're a pot-head, baby.. and YOU aren't skeletal, even if the weed ups your metabolism and keeps you svelte haha *wink*
Oh, and another P.S... just guess who could not "help" Mr. Leo's addictions.. even though he was certainly "ruining" his life with drugs? That's right, ME. The only control *I* had was to choose to walk away and save MYSELF from the association.. nothing I ever did or could have done "helped" his addictions in any way.. even though I LIVED with him, he wasn't just someone I went to school with and passed on campus once in awhile... because he was not READY to be "helped".. long after our break-up, I hear he DID finally seek help and quit taking drugs, and even stopped smoking pot. Kudos to him.
When you LOVE someone, you want what's best for them, but even then you cannot make their choices for them. When it's someone you hardly know and just "feel so bad" over their "wasted potential".. you're wasting YOUR time and energy on something even MORE futile. Why would you DO that?
When you LOVE someone, you want what's best for them, but even then you cannot make their choices for them. When it's someone you hardly know and just "feel so bad" over their "wasted potential".. you're wasting YOUR time and energy on something even MORE futile. Why would you DO that?
If she saw the boy still in college, which is exactly where she saw him .... then it means he is still able to keep up his school work, because if he couldn't manage college, she wouldn't have seen him there.
which means he's sober/straight enough to do his college studies
which means he's sober/straight enough to do his college studies
She's just a control freak, and this behaviour is what ran off her last two boyfriends.
should i be offended now,P?..as u have brought up my past experience with boys which still has to go a long way to be healed..!it didn't feel good.
first of all, my Capricorn ex didn't run away because of me. he was seeing other girl and additionally his family mentioned later that he had been engaged long before he was in a relation with me. i am not a detective neither i have a lot of energy to sniff around to check if a person has anything that they didn't share with me. after knowing that he simply didn't bother to tell me about his fiancee during the 3 years of our relation, i simply chose to ask him how he expects me to react about all these.he answered--as u have known everything about me, i do not expect u to stay any more.
about my Pisces ex, well Angelina, u only know what i have let u guys know..u have no idea what the whole picture is.
however, asking for help/suggestion through this forum is mainly because a lot of point of views come altogether and an individual can extract the help/suggestion from all these perspective.
i didn't say that i WANT this particular Pisces to quit drugs..neither i asked How Can I Stop Him from taking drugs.
i simply know that i can't impose my own expectation on another person..it is his life and he will choose what to do with it.
i just wanted to know whether there is any way to avoid the overdose.
first of all, my Capricorn ex didn't run away because of me. he was seeing other girl and additionally his family mentioned later that he had been engaged long before he was in a relation with me. i am not a detective neither i have a lot of energy to sniff around to check if a person has anything that they didn't share with me. after knowing that he simply didn't bother to tell me about his fiancee during the 3 years of our relation, i simply chose to ask him how he expects me to react about all these.he answered--as u have known everything about me, i do not expect u to stay any more.
about my Pisces ex, well Angelina, u only know what i have let u guys know..u have no idea what the whole picture is.
however, asking for help/suggestion through this forum is mainly because a lot of point of views come altogether and an individual can extract the help/suggestion from all these perspective.
i didn't say that i WANT this particular Pisces to quit drugs..neither i asked How Can I Stop Him from taking drugs.
i simply know that i can't impose my own expectation on another person..it is his life and he will choose what to do with it.
i just wanted to know whether there is any way to avoid the overdose.
Jesus, dpriyu.. unless you chain the boy up in your basement and spoon-feed him for the rest of his life, NO you CANNOT control ANYTHING he CHOOSES to do.. (WHY is this so hard for you to understand?!? WHY are you getting SOOO involved in this imagined "crisis" of a fellow student you don't even know all that well??)... YOU HAVE NO CONTROL OVER HIM OR HIS CHOICES... not if he does drugs, how much/many/often he does drugs, or even if he overdoses and fucking kills himself someday! (Though, that's funny, if we're still talking about weed here. Pot doesn't kill anyone.. just makes you THINK they're dead or in a coma sometimes :p)
Can you truly NOT see how CONTROLLING you really are, dpriyu? If THIS is how badly you wish to affect and control a "junior at uni".. what must it be like to LIVE with you, be in a relationship with you?
Curious.. were/are your parents alcoholics?
Can you truly NOT see how CONTROLLING you really are, dpriyu? If THIS is how badly you wish to affect and control a "junior at uni".. what must it be like to LIVE with you, be in a relationship with you?
Curious.. were/are your parents alcoholics?
about the background of this particular Pisces...well, he started boozing after he got enrolled in uni..he has dropped two academic years already.
just because he is my junior it doesn't mean that i don't know his previous life style , affair, family and friends.in the beginning, i knew that he smokes weed and takes other stuffs but that never alarmed me.he is strong enough to rescue himself from any mess and that's why i didn't "poke my nose" into his business.
i still am not poking my nose in his life..i have made no comment about whatever amount of drug he is taking.from a couple of days,he is spending time with me, talking and more talking..about anything.. but in the end when it's time for me to leave, he says to me with a guilty face "please don't get disappointed at me." and/or "please don't give up on me like everybody else did."
P, i am not judging him for whatever he is doing.he is what he is.
@nefer>> he didn't ask for my help.and neither i have anything to offer him..i was plainly curious about the whole situation and asked u guys the question.he has only asked for my company whenever i find time.i have noticed that during this time, when he is with me, he only smokes cigarette.still no comment i made about it.i am learning to follow the action of a guy.
however, my parents used to be alcoholics.now they have become kind of vegetable 😐
*smile* Then be a friend, if you're comfortable with that, and keep him company. But it's SO damaging to yourself to have all this negative energy around, to not want him to do drugs you see and hear about, to want him to do so much "better" than he is.. it's also a waste of time and a drain on YOUR energy, and absolutely NO help to him whatsoever when his "friend" is quietly, secretly judging him for his choices. So unless you can TRULY let go of even WANTING to control/affect him, close association with him will do you more harm than good.
And I'm not surprised about your parents. "Adult children of alcoholics" tend to have some severe control issues, have extreme difficulty even not wanting/trying to control everything they possibly can.. esp other people. Google it, it's extremely common. Plus, you're looking at one right here. I'm from a family absolutely saturated in alcoholics.. my Mom actually broke the pattern, is NOT a drinker.. however, the damage was already done.. she was raised by alcoholics, which in children so often causes specific behaviors/attitudes/beliefs that carry on into adulthood.. one of them being control issues. Which was also passed onto me, like these things so often are. I was a total micro-manager.. I didn't WANT to be like this, I NEEDED to, it was the ONLY way I could avoid FEELING out of control, pained, distraught, lost, panicked.. I had to LEARN to stop controlling everything, to stop WANTING to control people and situations and outcomes, etc. Now I only control myself, and only as much as I actually NEED to.
And I'm not surprised about your parents. "Adult children of alcoholics" tend to have some severe control issues, have extreme difficulty even not wanting/trying to control everything they possibly can.. esp other people. Google it, it's extremely common. Plus, you're looking at one right here. I'm from a family absolutely saturated in alcoholics.. my Mom actually broke the pattern, is NOT a drinker.. however, the damage was already done.. she was raised by alcoholics, which in children so often causes specific behaviors/attitudes/beliefs that carry on into adulthood.. one of them being control issues. Which was also passed onto me, like these things so often are. I was a total micro-manager.. I didn't WANT to be like this, I NEEDED to, it was the ONLY way I could avoid FEELING out of control, pained, distraught, lost, panicked.. I had to LEARN to stop controlling everything, to stop WANTING to control people and situations and outcomes, etc. Now I only control myself, and only as much as I actually NEED to.
P.S. You're a freakin' Pisces magnet, you know that? :p
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P.S. You're a freakin' Pisces magnet, you know that? :p
lol..yeah..i realized that just after i became interested in astrology.
my little cousin doesn't want to attend any get-together if i am not joining.
i have a Pisces friend who admires me in a way that makes me feel speechless (i wrote about him in another thread)
two of my classmates always expect me to stay with them 24/7.
my Pisces aunt thinks that i am her baby girl who got lost a long time ago (she has a daughter)
....this junior kid from my uni..
i don't know if it is weird..
these people are good..🙂
PP, you are talking about the stoners who alls they do is smoke.
My generation of people, nearly all smoke and hold down executive positions, and are established in their communities ... so, you don't even realize the volume of people who get high.
My generation of people, nearly all smoke and hold down executive positions, and are established in their communities ... so, you don't even realize the volume of people who get high.
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