My Pisces and I

My new boss (pisces) and i have been seeing eachother for a few month's now. He was very persistent and still is about us hanging out!. He met someone online at the same time we met...recently he told me he doesnt like her , so they r no longer talking ...of course, we were not sexual at all just friends, but he wanted for us to continue having as he calls it (cuddle) time. at one point he was talking about if we'd to have babies and all this madness etc..then one day i left his place to come to work a half hour earlier and he went crazy! he asked if i didnt like to sleep with him and i said that's not it?! i just wanted to leave earlier than usual..well after that he said that he was no longer emotional involved with me and that he wants to make sure i dont get hurt...i said okay!!! anyways, he is still persistent wants to know where i am and with whom i am with at all times! recently got pulled over by the cops and have my license suspended and he wants me to stay over his house , so he can take me everywhere...he doesnt like my friends calling nor texting me as much..he also, when hanging out with his buddies, he wants me to tag along..he says i am his best friend..he tells me when he is sick, what he is thinking...at this point hes thinking of leaving the job and wants me to go with him...for someone who is not emotional?! is this typical pisces behavior?...

Controlling..RUN!!!

That's typical PSYCHO behavior.. this is how it starts.. and it ends with your photo on a milk carton :/

Oh my goodness...im worried now...

I don't think it's as bad as that. He's just the jealous and possessive type, it seems. And likes to move fast. He's probably making excuses like 'i don't want to get emotionally involved' and stuff as a way to convince him inside that that's what he wants. He'd probably be really happy if you chased him or showed more interest. Though, once again, you'll have to deal with the jealous/possessiveness forever. He sounds like the type to be really bothersome after a break up (texting all the time, always wanting to know what you're doing, etc). He's just an emotional little pisces. Probably a little immature, too, but oh well. I don't think you're name is going to end up on a milk carton; don't worry.

Scenic: you hit the nail right on the head! He's excatly like that! Overall, he'll do anything for me...although, he gets snippy on a daily basis! He's protective and comforting...

I'm sorry but from the description the op gave rings controlling sounds a bit to much for me. and he sounds emotionally unstable...((shrugs)) but you know what you can handle.

Whoa nelly... Hmm yeah not good.

Whoa nelly... Hmm yeah not good.

U guys r right! Im actually online looking for jobs....thinking back, i can't really invision this turning out good at all...this morning i decided to take a 15 minute bath and when he decided to take a shower "no hot water" he flipped...i think he has major anger issues...but, i got myself into this mess, i'll get myself out of it!..cant stand him right now..he made me cry...i felt like crap! I'd never make anyone that i like feel like that...

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Posted by bibiana
He's protective and comforting...

this will get old real soon...because he will soon snap...I say this because he seems to be *too* forthcoming with his control tactics...Pisces usually if insecure try to keep the possessive controlling jealous bad habits under wraps...we might let up a tiny bit here and there...but for him to be like this full on...he has major [extreme] trust issues and for a man it's not pretty...

he'll probably fire you and I can see a lot of arguments coming if they haven't already started...

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For anyone it isnt pretty, your enabling him. Stop this now or it will only get much worse.

I'm unclear why you made this thread.


You describe a scenario in which every responser has to judge his character in a bad way, while making yourself sound sane .... yet, you're still there, taking a bath.


You make your choices to be there .. and then come in here to present a situation in which people are looking at him badly?


If he really was all that you said then you wouldn't even be there taking a bath for him to get upset about the water usage ..... you are there, so maybe you're the crazy one.

P-angel...all I did was explain a scenario, than ask if this was typical pisces behavior ...everyone has opinions about what I wrote....i've never said he was a bad guy ...i asked if this was a familiar pisces trait! If he was a bad guy " I wouldn't be with him"! All I was explain about certain scenarios ..thats it!

Posted by bibiana

.... If he was a bad guy " I wouldn't be with him"!

Well then, perhaps, he should be aware of what you say, when you talk behind his back.


So, if he isn't the bad boyfriend like the picture you have painted for us to come to that conclusion ... then what is the purpose for you coming here and painting that biased picture?

All I wrote was a scenario! Period! I ask if its a pisces trait period!.....so that was my purpose period! That's it! Again, people gave their opinions and that's it! And im sure there are plenty of people who come on boards and talk about boyfriends & girlfriends back..! Im not the first and im sure won't be the last!

I think she likes his behavior. I think it makes her feel, special, and wanted, and needed. She's not going anywhere. And to answer your question....is it a Pisces trait? Nope, its the actions of an individual.