Pisces and Pisces…

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I dated Pisces twice, both very comfortable relationships, even arguing was a walk in the park. The one that lasted several years ended up more like a sibling relationship. It was great to have someone who understood me so well that he could even complete my sentences, lol.

What was a argument like? Was he laidback and comfortable rather quickly?
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One type of argument was when he started to criticise or patronise me while I was doing something. This was his Virgo rising, though. I had more fire than him and took charge if he didn't. Last thing I wanted then, was for mister "do nothing" to look over my shoulder and tell me what to do! I usually snapped pretty quickly and he left me alone, but only for a minute or two....his desire to criticise was wayyyyyy too overwhelming, lol.

Another type was when we had different views about something, and he couldn't stand that I didn't agree with him. His tone was becoming increasingly defensive. I pointed out that I wasn't attacking him or even dismissing his POV. He usually stopped and then calmed down quickly. If we got into an argument in public (e.g. restaurant) I usually stopped talking to him because I hate public scenes. He couldn't stand my silence either, and called me passive aggressive. Whatever!

These above were with a Pisces I lived with. I don't remember any arguments with another Pisces I was dating for less than a year. His sun was in conjunction with both my sun and moon, I thought we got on amazingly well. He eventually complained towards the end that we never argued and that I said "yes" to everything, lol. His Leo moon didn't get the drama he craved, obviously...

All in all, it depends on other personal placements.... What does your Pisces have and how does he argue? I'm Pisces sun and moon with the rest of my personal planets in fire/air, btw.

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I dated Pisces twice, both very comfortable relationships, even arguing was a walk in the park. The one that lasted several years ended up more like a sibling relationship. It was great to have someone who understood me so well that he could even complete my sentences, lol.

What was a argument like? Was he laidback and comfortable rather quickly?

One type of argument was when he started to criticise or patronise me while I was doing something. This was his Virgo rising, though. I had more fire than him and took charge if he didn't. Last thing I wanted then, was for mister "do nothing" to look over my shoulder and tell me what to do! I usually snapped pretty quickly and he left me alone, but only for a minute or two....his desire to criticise was wayyyyyy too overwhelming, lol.

Another type was when we had different views about something, and he couldn't stand that I didn't agree with him. His tone was becoming increasingly defensive. I pointed out that I wasn't attacking him or even dismissing his POV. He usually stopped and then calmed down quickly. If we got into an argument in public (e.g. restaurant) I usually stopped talking to him because I hate public scenes. He couldn't stand my silence either, and called me passive aggressive. Whatever!

These above were with a Pisces I lived with. I don't remember any arguments with another Pisces I was dating for less than a year. His sun was in conjunction with both my sun and moon, I thought we got on amazingly well. He eventually complained towards the end that we never argued and that I said "yes" to everything, lol. His Leo moon didn't get the drama he craved, obviously...

All in all, it depends on other personal placements.... What does your Pisces have and how does he argue? I'm Pisces sun and moon with the rest of my personal planets in fire/air, btw.
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Oh my goodness. I’m not sure what all his placements are but I can see the defensive side a bit. I had to tell him about his communication staying up to par. I’m a communicator. I have air in my chart so I try to be calm in a lot of situations but I’m gone speak my mind. His response was the phone works both ways and I agree but damn. He’s been doing a little better. The biggest thing now I think is our schedule. How do we compromise with that? The living together thing, is that something you decided on or both of you?
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Absolutely not, I wouldn’t even try this again with a Pisces woman. Last Pisces woman I talked to she was pancaking (flippy floppy). One minute she wanted to be friends next minute she wanted a relationship. I don’t got time for no pancake games.

Yeah she just wasn’t evolved. We’re not all like that. Was she a February or March pisces?

She’s February while I’m March.
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Facts big facts. Is communication hard for you?
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Absolutely not, I wouldn’t even try this again with a Pisces woman. Last Pisces woman I talked to she was pancaking (flippy floppy). One minute she wanted to be friends next minute she wanted a relationship. I don’t got time for no pancake games.

Yeah she just wasn’t evolved. We’re not all like that. Was she a February or March pisces?

She’s February while I’m March.

Facts big facts. Is communication hard for you?

No but I prefer to remain quiet
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Even when there is a issue?
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Eh Pisces men are pretty laid back. But who wants to deal with any guy with two young kids that will need to take up most of his attention… be prepared to constantly take a back seat.

So this close Pisces friend of mine falls in love with this Pisces woman who I thought was perfect for him. It sounded like they were going to get married at first sight no lie. I follow up some months later and find out she’s ironically too much for him lol….
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Eh Pisces men are pretty laid back. But who wants to deal with any guy with two young kids that will need to take up most of his attention… be prepared to constantly take a back seat.

So this close Pisces friend of mine falls in love with this Pisces woman who I thought was perfect for him. It sounded like they were going to get married at first sight no lie. I follow up some months later and find out she’s ironically too much for him lol….


True yet the kids are not here and I have my own child and a demanding job yet I know how to manage my time. She was too much for him in what way?
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Eh Pisces men are pretty laid back. But who wants to deal with any guy with two young kids that will need to take up most of his attention… be prepared to constantly take a back seat.

So this close Pisces friend of mine falls in love with this Pisces woman who I thought was perfect for him. It sounded like they were going to get married at first sight no lie. I follow up some months later and find out she’s ironically too much for him lol….

True yet the kids are not here and I have my own child and a demanding job yet I know how to manage my time. She was too much for him in what way?
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Oh if you also have a kid then I’m sure you’d both be more understanding of each other. According to him she started becoming overbearing and more eager than him. It’s weird to me because initially he came off eager too but it’s like a switch flipped in him and he started getting scared and just wanted to back off? It’s kinda like she didn’t give him any room to be the man and chase her? She was always so available and eager that drove him away? He’s usually attracted to very broken people so I personally thought it was great he finally met someone who had their shit together and knew what they were doing with their life but that scared him away instead. I find water sign men extremely strange.