@Rwalston
6 Years
Second round, same Pisces
Understanding Pisces and Communication Patterns
Pisces individuals often value emotional connection but may withdraw when overwhelmed or unsure. His ghosting could be due to emotional uncertainty or personal issues. Open communication and patience are key to understanding his behavior and rebuilding trust.
OMG, he just messaged me as soon as I put this up, but I don't want to check it too soon!
He doesn't want you to think he'll be your next husband
OMG, he just messaged me as soon as I put this up, but I don't want to check it too soon!
He's probably on DXP.
No, but I don't want him to think I was just sitting there waiting for him to message me.
No, but I don't want him to think I was just sitting there waiting for him to message me.
But you were..
He doesn't want you to think he'll be your next husband
Well I don't think either of us want to get remarried.
No, but I don't want him to think I was just sitting there waiting for him to message me.
But you were..
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Well. yeah lol.
If he doesn't want to go on dates or call me, but only text me everyday, does that mean he wants to take it slow or he is stringing me along?
He doesn't want you to think he'll be your next husband
Well I don't think either of us want to get remarried.
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Definitely sounds like it on his behalf
No, but I don't want him to think I was just sitting there waiting for him to message me.
But you were..
Well. yeah lol.
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What do you think that means?
No, but I don't want him to think I was just sitting there waiting for him to message me.
But you were..
Well. yeah lol.
What do you think that means?
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What What means?
Omg notification!
If he doesn't want to go on dates or call me, but only text me everyday, does that mean he wants to take it slow or he is stringing me along?
What did the text say?
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We had lots of texts. What do you mean?
He didn't give a reason. He just didn't confirm the date and didn't text since Tuesday. He just message now saying he will fill me in later. The last time we were supposed to see each other he did the same thing and then made up an excuse and said that his messages didn't go through. Yet, he keeps saying he wants to do all this stuff.
Take your time pull back, you are overthinking everything. They need to know you aren’t planning your whole world around them because if they think you are they’ll swim away. You do you first and learn patience.
Only the strong, patient and persistent will survive a Pisces!
So...he’s done this twice now, made up some BS about messages not going through and says he wants to do things with you but doesn’t follow through 😐
What do you like about him again? The sex?
We have this strong connection and I just feel like we are meant to be together, especially if we got together again after all of this time. Yes, our sexual chemistry is off the charts, but that isn't the only connection. I keep reading that this is what Pisces men do sometimes.
Take your time pull back, you are overthinking everything. They need to know you aren’t planning your whole world around them because if they think you are they’ll swim away. You do you first and learn patience.
Only the strong, patient and persistent will survive a Pisces!
You're right. It's so freakin hard! I guess I won't ask him out any more. I'll leave it to him.
So this is his text to me today...hey you I’m sorry.everything is fine.I’ll touch base tonight and bring you up to speed.but I’m good thanks for checking. So far he hasn’t read my response and hasn’t messaged.
Well he’s told you everything is fine and he’ll get back to you later. What do you want him to do? Drop whatever he is doing to cater to you because that’s what it sounds like. Give him the space he needs, let him breathe and deal with whatever is on his plate. He might not even tell you what it is but it’s not your business to know either unless he volunteers the information.
You’re heading in the right direction to be blown off if you continue your obsessive behaviour... it’ll wear thin in the end with a Pisces!
Well he’s told you everything is fine and he’ll get back to you later. What do you want him to do? Drop whatever he is doing to cater to you because that’s what it sounds like. Give him the space he needs, let him breathe and deal with whatever is on his plate. He might not even tell you what it is but it’s not your business to know either unless he volunteers the information.
You’re heading in the right direction to be blown off if you continue your obsessive behaviour... it’ll wear thin in the end with a Pisces!
Did you read my first post? I feel like he is going to make up something. We haven’t gone this long without texting. I have learned not to put him on the spot and that he is sensitive to me even expressing my feelings. I am just trying to learn him.
Well he’s told you everything is fine and he’ll get back to you later. What do you want him to do? Drop whatever he is doing to cater to you because that’s what it sounds like. Give him the space he needs, let him breathe and deal with whatever is on his plate. He might not even tell you what it is but it’s not your business to know either unless he volunteers the information.
You’re heading in the right direction to be blown off if you continue your obsessive behaviour... it’ll wear thin in the end with a Pisces!
Did you read my first post? I feel like he is going to make up something. We haven’t gone this long without texting. I have learned not to put him on the spot and that he is sensitive to me even expressing my feelings. I am just trying to learn him.
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I read his text.
You’re overthinking again... but do as you will
Well if you don’t know the history you can’t give advice
Well he’s told you everything is fine and he’ll get back to you later. What do you want him to do? Drop whatever he is doing to cater to you because that’s what it sounds like. Give him the space he needs, let him breathe and deal with whatever is on his plate. He might not even tell you what it is but it’s not your business to know either unless he volunteers the information.
You’re heading in the right direction to be blown off if you continue your obsessive behaviour... it’ll wear thin in the end with a Pisces!
Did you read my first post? I feel like he is going to make up something. We haven’t gone this long without texting. I have learned not to put him on the spot and that he is sensitive to me even expressing my feelings. I am just trying to learn him.
I read his text.
You’re overthinking again... but do as you will
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So...he’s done this twice now, made up some BS about messages not going through and says he wants to do things with you but doesn’t follow through 😐
What do you like about him again? The sex?
We have this strong connection and I just feel like we are meant to be together, especially if we got together again after all of this time. Yes, our sexual chemistry is off the charts, but that isn't the only connection. I keep reading that this is what Pisces men do sometimes.
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well good luck but also try to date other people is all i'm saying
So...he’s done this twice now, made up some BS about messages not going through and says he wants to do things with you but doesn’t follow through 😐
What do you like about him again? The sex?
We have this strong connection and I just feel like we are meant to be together, especially if we got together again after all of this time. Yes, our sexual chemistry is off the charts, but that isn't the only connection. I keep reading that this is what Pisces men do sometimes.
well good luck but also try to date other people is all i'm saying
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I don’t want to date. I’d he doesn’t work out I’m ok being alone.
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I met my Pisces back about 10 years ago. It was immediate connection and the sex was OMG. Anyway, he wasn't over his newly divorced ex, so meanwhile I got married to an Aquarius. BTW, I'm a Virgo. Now I am the one that is divorcing. I reached out to him and we have been talking for months. We have only gone on one date, which ended up a sleep over, which was still OMG! Anyway, we pretty much text every day. I'm not sure why he just won't call me sometimes, but we were planning on having lunch this week. He said yeah, Wednesday would be good for him. I said, great let me know what time and let me know the day before if possible. Well, we had a couple of texts on Tuesday and then he didn't read my last message for hours and has ghosted me ever since. WTH?