pisces bleeding underwater (STAR)

hey star, this is ichthyo.

i just broke up with my virgo girlfriend last night. i'm still trying to swallow the idea that i won't be seeing her anymore. work is really rough, as i am a graphic designer and need to be able to concentrate at a high level to produce quality results. so being at work is hell at the moment. i've got the whole doubt thing going, i can't really eat anything, and i'm just sorta...hurtin'...i guess.

i'm thinking virgos are better as friends to pisces, than as mates. i just couldn't stay in a long distance relationship with a younger girl, especially because she was so wishy-washy with knowing how she felt. her favorite expression was "...i dunno..." and she used it anytime i tried to ask her specific questions about her feelings or our relationship in general. she played a lot of little games when we had conflict, and generally lacked the communication skills, and the resolution skills to keep things working in the long run. on the other side, i would worry about things i probably didn't need to, like the way she would say something, or what she actually meant when she said certain things. i needed a lot of open communication, reassurance and mature interaction. i knew a breakup was inevitable, as i sensed these issues from the very start. it was just a matter of when.

but this still sucks. a lot.

at least now i've got the time to re-connect with a lot of the friends i neglected when i was spending every single weekend with my girlfriend. man, this is the last time i screw around with long-distance relationships by god! 🙂

ugh. any thoughts? anyone?

-ichthyo

Hey Ichthyo!

I feel your pain! I mean it! I am not making fun of you.

I, myself, could never decide if work was a good thing or a bad thing at times like this...it provides a welcome distraction at times...but, it can also be difficult to keep your head in the game because of overwhelming emotional feelings!

How much of a long distance thing was it?

Friends are good. Friends are real good at this time in your life.

You are a very sensitive individual. You are also wise, artistic, and have a good head on your shoulders (common sense). I know you will survive and be a better person for the experience..but, it sucks, doesn't it? I don't know why it can't be simpler...
Like you meet someone and that is THE person...why can't there be flashing lights?? Some kinda clue!?

You will always have me as a friend, Ichthyo! Sorry, I am no help...but, I do feel for ya, my friend.

Take Care! Breathe in...breathe out...
Star

hello there Ichthyo and star,
I've been reading your postings Ichthyo about your relationship. I gotta say that in some ways my situation is similar to yours. A brief introduction about me and my deal. I'm a pisces, met a taurus girl things started great, then it was back and forth with her ex and I. 2 years later, she's not with her ex anymore and we are now friends. By far this has got to be my most difficult relationship. Trying to cope with the fact that I want her as a friend and at the same time wanting more than that. We've been intimate before, and I know that there is a mutual feeling.
It has boiled down to just leaving it as friends and i don't think that's(friendship) going very far anytime soon.
So I won't be seeing her as much as I used to. THIS SUCKS!!!
Anyway what I meant to say Ichthyo is to hang in there. I've been thru exactly what you're talking about before and it bites...just think ahead, and stay positive.

star,

she was 2 hours away. i spent every single weekend with her except for one, since the beginning of october. that's 4 hours in the car round trip.

if i could concentrate, work would be a great distraction from thinking about her. i think it will be better after a couple days.

yeah, i'm seeking the company and advice of my friends more so than usual right now. just got back from having a few drinks at lunch with my best friend in fact. 🙂

godDAMMIT alcohol helps sometimes. as long as you spend enough time actually experiencing and dealing with the emotions, a short liquid vacation can be just the thing!

i'll survive. it helps to vent though, so thank you for reading and responding.

i think i need a capricorn girlfriend. 😉

what do you think?

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brobster00,

thank you for following my posts and thinking about my situation in terms of your own.

i'm trying to think ahead, trying to remain true to my convictions. i'll be a bigger, better, stronger fish after enough time has passed, but at the moment, i sure feel like throwing up all over the place. 🙂

what do you think about pisces and capricorn? i think a capi girl is my next goal...although i have no idea where to find one.

anyway, both you guys, anybody...any input or advice helps a lot. let me know your thoughts. if you have any suggestions just blurt em out there.

thank you!

-ichthyo

Hi Ichthyo!

Yeah...I think a Capricorn girl would be a good match for you! Where to find her— Good question!

It will probably do you good to give yourself time to recoup anyway...

You will be more impressive (to the chicks) and at your best when you are more whole...more healed...less like a piece of you is missing...anyway...

I know this doesn't help, but, in each relationship you learn and grow...and it helps to make the next relationship better and stronger...

Liquid vacation! Good one! I never thought of it that way!

Take Care and Keep in Touch!


Hi Brobster00!

Welcome! I will look forward to hearing more from you...

I must rest my weary head...I have been up for too many hours...

Farewell!
Star

hey star,

yeah, some would say it takes the same amount of time to "get over" someone as the amount of time you were together. obviously, this depends on how serious and involved you were in the relationship.

if this is the case, i'm in for about 5 months of hurt.

but its okay. it's really starting to sink-in that things are over. i'm just starting to think of myself as being outside of a relationship...that things are over, there's no going back, and the only place to go is forward.

now, i know it's more attractive to the opposite sex to be a healthy, whole individual, rather than a crushed shell of a human 🙂 but i was wondering exactly what is unattractive about being..well...not totally recovered yet? is it the depression? that the person who just left a relationship seems down and hurt? i only ask so i can be sure to avoid doing these things as i move on.

-ichthyo

hey,
I too went through a similiar situation and it does truly suck! Don't put a time limit on how long it will take. I am still hurting from it all. Do take time to recoup as I know I am not the same as I usually am. Otherwise you may end up attracting a less than desirable mate!!

joe,

how long were you in this relationship?

how long has it been since you broke up?

going through it, whats the best, or most helpful thing you've done to get over the person?

-ichthyo

Hi Joe!

Good point! ...about attracting a less than desirable mate...
Hope all is well with you! Job going OK? You strike me as as dedicated professional...so, I would think all is well...
Keep in touch!


Hi Ichthyo!

This can certainly happen...attracting a less than desirable mate!
Yes, depression can be felt and is a downer! (Silly boy!)

Down and hurt...that could attract a few females...but, mostly temporarily...eventually, a girl would wonder how she stacked up against the (former) competition...don't ask me why...we don't know!

But, if a relationship seems fresh... without remnants of the past...questions will not arise and it will all seem fresh and new and sometimes...exhilarating!!

It is best not to have remnants hanging around if possible...as in feelings or objects...if they are objects you plan to keep, that is fine, do not lie...but, do not disclose the source of where the object came from, if possible...

I, myself, am still trying to decide what to do with this one thing...
I think it is cool...but, it belongs to Geo's family and I do not think Dave will want it around...know what I mean?
Yet, it is specifically an Italian fishing village (Palermo) kind of thing...so, it is not like I could really say that I just inherited this from my Irish/French/Swedish/...etc.blood...
As I Learn and Grow!
Star

star,

i know what you mean.

see, i keep all the little mementos because i suspect someday, like years and years from now, i'll look back and see reflect....see how far i've come with actual proof.

but i dont keep the things where i can see them. i bag em up and stick em in a box.

do you think there might be any future value to keeping these things? you know, the letters, the pictures, etc...

-ichthyo

ichthyo

My relationship was a short one, but it was the second time around, and actually hurt even more.
The main problem was the reminents of her past still being ever present in our time together.
At first, I was strong and supportive, slowly that changed to frustration and uncertainty.
It hurt alot, I was giving my all for this girl, and whenever it seemed to be progressing, it really just became more cmplicated.
I saw a great gir in trouble, I listened to all the promises of what wa to be.... I waited, with no real progress being made, I vented... she ran.
It's tuff when someone has a dark past, one they will not disclose to anyone. Her friends were kept in the dark, her family, thus... I could only assume I would be kept in the dark too. Logically, I should've stayed away, tuff when you care about someone. We exchanged some real harsh words. I finally told her what my conclusion of her past, and present reality is. I may have been wrong in some aspects, but... what does one do when the info provided is half-truth when it is even available.
Communication was only on her terms and was not even completely honest.
Yes, I believe she used my positive energies to again pick herself up. But, I believe she wouldv'e kept this up as long as I was up for it.
I never wanted anything more than a chance for a relationship with this girl, she approached me after a year and a half... again, I am alone and drained.
See what I mean, take your time, It has been a little over a month, but unfortunately I have tried to keep the lines of communication open, especially having to look for new employment, would've been nice to see her suck up her anger and be there for me once... with forgiveness and understanding that what I said was out of frustration, not to try and judge her.
If I was judging her past, I would have never stood by her.
Who says pisces aren't romantic!!!
PLEASE

Ichthyo,

I'm sorry that you are hurting. I know everyone else is telling you to give yourself time. I am a Capricorn and I guess maybe I really don't know how a pisces gets over being hurt but I know sitting at home thinking about it would drive me crazy! Of course I would want to stay in bed pull the covers over my head and tell the world to just go away. I would eventually realize hey I haven't eaten in 2 days- I really need to shave my legs and damn my eyes are really puffy and if I don't brush my teeth I am going to have to put a clip on my nose so I don't pass out from the smell of my breath! I would get up go out with my friends (shower first ..teeth. makeup... damn I look good again. oh yeah mental note..shave legs.) I would also start doing some physical exercise that worked some of my anguish out,... and hey if you get in great shape - the better for you. Start doing things that you love to do- things that give you inner peace. Go out on casual dates - different people not more than once- otherwise you may fall into a relationship too fast. (Try to keep it lighthearted) Whatever you do keep busy!! Don't leave any time to think about her. Then one day you will wake up and your first thought won't be about her and your last thought before you sleep won't be her and you'll realize hey... I'm living again. You may love her,.. but you can and you will live without her. You sound like a great guy - I've read your posts I know your heart aches everytime you think of her or a particular memory. But you have to try to move forward. It will get easier - I promise..... I don't know if I helped any.. I must admit Pisces confuse me more than any other sign...
~Thea

Joe,

Wow...that sounds like it was tough! I mean trust is an important aspect of any relationship...half truths make trust difficult. You are right, standing by someone says a lot, and is a way of showing you are willing to trust.
That says a lot for you!

(Who said Pisces are not romantic? You guys are very romantic! Deep, intense, charming, charismatic, sensitive, as well as kind and compassionate...and funny too! That is what I know about Pisces men! You guys may be dreamers, but each of you is going to make some lucky girl's dreams come true someday!!)

OK..I got sidetracked...Ichthyo is used to me doing that...

A few more thoughts...
It does sometimes feel like the negative people need the energy from the positive people, doesn't it?...Interesting thought, Joe!
And communication...we all know that is a biggy!

I have tried a twice (once in high school and once in real life! LOL!) to go back to a relationship that was once ended only to have it end again...
I never went backwards again. I do think you are right, Joe, it hurts worse the second time!

Ichthyo,

I don't know about the value of your boxed items...but, save them if they are important to you. Someday, you may want to release them in some manner...but, until you are ready for that...just save them.
I did save things until I was ready to let them go. But, I am weird about energy and releasing the past...
That is why it bugs me that I have this heart shaped thing that is made of silver that I know is an antique that he won't take back! I can't sell it or give it away...that would be mean and wrong! So, it sits in my storage unit...

Thea has some good ideas, Ichthyo...but...I don't think you should shave your legs or put on the make-up! LOL! (You do need to laugh too!)

Thea,

Hi! Yeah, if I wasn't such a complicated nut who found an Aquarian guy who actually understands me (!), I would be scoping for a Pisces man! But, as it is...I am very happy with Daveman and will only remain friends with the romantic, mystical Pisces men!

Ichthyo,

One last thing...the bleeding underwater description gets me every time I read it...
It is like energy being sucked away...and there is no controlling it...

Take Care, My Friend. My thoughts are with you. And do have fun as Thea suggested!

Take Care All...Be good to yourselves!
Star

star,

thank you again for the response.

i really can't decide what to do with all the memento type stuff. i know i need to keep it from sight, so i think i'll pack it all away and worry about throwing it away later.

as for the title "bleeding..etc," i was in more pain that day. i guess that was a dramatic way of saying how i felt. if i had to title it again right now, i'd probably call it, "pisces forming scar tissue," or some such nonsense.

i had a pretty rough weekend. it was the first weekend i spent apart from her in 5 months. it was rife with self-doubt, confusion, sadness and everything else in between, but i survived. i sent her a letter, along with some of the things she'd lent to me, so everything is final. i've got some closure now, so i guess all i need is time.

write back!

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thea,

everything you said hit home. everything. you've made it clear that most people have gone through these exact same feelings. perhaps i shouldn't be venting and complaining all over creation like i'm the only one who has?

every time i think about her i feel sick. i have to be careful not to think about her when i'm eating. it's worst when i'm tired, because i get down and stuff and it's just harder. so i especially liked what you said about the first and last thoughts of the day, and how sooner or later, i'll realize i've returned to the realm of the living. i'm waiting for that day with great anticipation.

yeah, from this website i'm gathering that most people don't really get pisces. oh well. i guess we can be pretty weird. so i can only speak for myself when i say i'm the jesus-fish, sleek and sexy and second only to the great messiah himself. sorry. sorry. 🙂

however, i like capricorns. my dad is one, and we have an especially strong connection. i think pisces and capricorn are really different puzzle pieces, that just happen to fit together well.

write back with any thoughts!

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joe,

let's go get a drink.

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-ichthyo

I am with you there!!

ichthyo-
By all means vent and complain..moan and say why me?... your supposed to... Heck I do it all the time. It definitely helps to release built up tension and anxiety. I know that sick feeling your talking about. Been there done that..I also know that feeling when your driving down the road and you remember a certain facial expression or memory and you feel your heart squeeze and you just feel like crying. Man I hate that-it really sux!! It's miserable and you wish you never met that person and then 2 seconds later you tell yourself that you are better for the experience and look what you would have missed out on if you hadn't met them.... (2 seconds after that... wait.. I would have rather done without this pain!) back and forth.. back and forth... Aaauuughhh see what not keeping yourself occupied does? Brings it all back damn it! Of course this is all part of the healing process. Isn't there a better way—

Star.. I'm losing it you really need to get me back on track. I am starting to get depressed. I think I need to go get a drink with ichthyo and Joe....🙂
~Thea

thea,

totally, totally, totally. all i can do is nod my head when i read your posts. it makes me feel better to be reminded that other people go through this garbage all the time.

the heart squeeze...feeling like crying...i just can't believe these sensations can be felt in the exact same way by more than one person. i feel terribly alone when i get caught up in those thoughts, but knowing i'm not the only one to have their heart pinched and their lungs collapse with little more than a reflective thought helps me a lot. thank you.

the accuracy and empathy with which you responded makes me think you just recently went through a breakup. maybe you're going through one now? what's up?

hell yes you're welcome to come with us for drinks. i'm buyin.' -if i can't rid myself of these memories the natural way, i'll burn 'em out with fiery, intoxicating liquids. naw.

write back!

z

whoops! i meant to sign that last post "ichthyo."

"z" is the way i sign emails.

can you guess what my name is? 🙂

-ichthyo

ichthyo-
Zach? If not I'll look up another Z name each time- til I guess. Well yes I am kinda going through the same thing. But mine is such a doozie that if I post it more than likely I'm goina get slammed by everyone kinda like Dr. Laura does... (Radio - in case you've never heard her.) You know I agree with alot of what she says but just say it once why humilate the person over and over and over. I hate that!! I know I know they shouldn't have been stupid enough to call her. I will give you a tiny bit of info..... He's pisces hence the confusion on your particular sign.
What do ya think- should I divulge more. I swear it's a soap opera!
~Thea

Thea,

If I was younger, I would go have that drink with Ichthyo and Joe!
See, you can't depend on me to say you shouldn't on this one...

I would go for it!
I say, begin a beautiful friendship when given the opportunity!!
You have a lot of insight. I like reading your posts! And your humor comes through too!
Take Care!
Star

Well thank you Star- I like reading your posts too. I have to admit that your one of the reasons why I started reading these. I was amazed at how much you know about astrology!

My insight comes from experience unfortunately. However I still think you should come for drinks with us... You can console us three bleeding hearts. Of course you'll go back to the Daveman saying.. Boy they are really messed up! All they kept talking about were their problems and arguing about who's love life was the worst!!🙂
~Thea

Hi Thea!

Yeah, a lot of my insight comes from experience too...and from studying people, as well as reading books...

The knowledge gained from experience is the hardest won! Therefore, the most precious.

OK! You convinced me! I will join you three for drinks! After all, Ichthyo is buying!! 🙂

LOL!
Star

hey hey..that's right... Didn't know what he was getting into....🙂
~Thea

yeah thea, you guessed the name. -but can you dig it?

and by all means, let that soap opera rip. i know it takes forever to type out complicated stories and such, but i'd like to read it if you're willing.

alright, so we've got 4 drinkers now? excellent. i'll wear my glow-in-the-dark boxers.

-ichthyo

Well, in that case....I'll wear my shades with the pink frames!!

I dig your name, by the way, Ichthyo!

Star

Yes,

Thea, we will listen....feel free to impart...

Your Friend,
Star

Ichthyo,
I like your name too. Ok here goes- try not to think too bad about me ok?
First I get this job my boss...uh oh you see where this is going... well I was attracted to him from day one. But that was ok I'm married he's married...the plot thickens! About 10 months later we go on a trip together ..uh oh (you know... this is so cliched) Well after dinner had a few drinks. He kisses me. apolyigises (of course) I say (stupid me) what for and then kiss him. Well one thing led to another....4 times later... I don't think I got any sleep that night! I'm laying there thinking oh my God what did I just do!! I am a very happily married woman! He is a very happily married man.. This will NEVER happen again! Well needless to say he shows up early for work the next day. (to see me) I am trying to forget it.. he is inviting me to lunch coming back to my desk etc. Needless to say I haven't ever been that pursued in my life. On top of everything I really respect him as a person. He is a great person. Anyway he wore my resolve to stay away from him down... How he did it- I have no idea. He just wouldn't give up. 10 months LATER we are still trying to break it off. We can't go more than a few days before we screw up. I mean at least once every month one of us goes to the other and says "I can't do this anymore." We both agree we need to do the right thing..we are happy about the decision we made but not happy about having to live with it. Right now we are in the doing the right thing phase. I don't know if I can ever be happy at home again. I know I love him I think I loved him since the first time I saw him...shouldn't have taken that damn job!! Anyway last week I decided that I was going to look for a new job. I will never have closure as long as I work there around him. So I'm on the road to recovery however I did want to know if he loved me and that was why it went on for so long, why neither of us seemed to be able to stay away from each other for very long. I wanted to know if for the last 10 months that it was more than sex. I wanted to know that we at least had love between us. So I asked him. He said that he could not allow himself to feel anything towards me because it would make it that much harder for us. He would not allow me to feel anything for him either. So really the best thing for us was for him to be an asshole about the whole thing. I told him "you stupid idiot I've been in love with you since May.." He said "maybe I'm not saying this right...." (He's not really very good at being an asshole.) Anyway I told him very dispassionately that I hated his guts and left (Of course I didn't hate his guts I was just mad.) Next morning he showed up early. (He always comes in an hour late!) He showed up before me. I ignored him.. I didn't even want to talk to him. He started coming up with really stupid reasons to talk to me. But basically I ignored him but was polite when spoken to. Next day he came up to show me his new computer. He knew I didn't want to talk to him. But he was being nice I was trying not to be rude because then everyone would know. Stayed at my desk for 20 minutes showing me all the stupid functions. While I'm trying my best to work and ignore him so he would leave me alone. He starts drawing me a cute little picture and lays in on top of my keyboard while I'm trying to type... I guess my dirty look finally worked because he left soon after that. Next day I'm pretty much worn down. By 5:00 pm I'm smiling and talking to him again. This week he's running hot and cold first thing this morning he calls has a chat with me asks who's there I say everybody.. he says well I guess your safe then. The rest of the day he spends in his office reading magazines. I've got to get the hell out of there. I keep counting down the days. I have to stay there 6 more months and then I'm branching out into a different field. Anyway...what da ya think... and you though

I'll play. I'll guess your name- is it Tracie?

Nope.. Guess again begins with a C...Ha Ha I alway's liked the name Thea.

Thea...
Wow! That would be very hard. When something is over for me...it is over, dead, gone, cut-his-head-off-the-pictures-over! (Well...maybe that is extreme), but, I do not like 'sort-of' relationships...as it sounds like you don't either.

How are things at home? Is that going OK?

I am not going to pass judgement on you for this...
I think you've handled the 'continuing to work together' thing very well. That would be very hard for me! But, yeah, I would do as you are and make plans to leave that job and him behind....

So many times people marry before they are ready...
Do you think that was the case for you? And the 'Boss'?

Hang in there,
Your Friend,
Star

Star-
You know my problem stems from having too much responsibility all the time. I work all day helping other people- solving everyones problems. Then I come home handle home problems. Instead of trying to help me out and make my life easier my husband adds stuff to my list of things to do. He's supposed to be my rock to lean on my oasis in the desert. I've tried explaining but I think he thinks It's just my time of the month. The jerk!! Anyway my bosses problem is that he doesn't get it enough at home. He's tried talking to her about it but she's just not interested. You know the sad thing is - I've heard his desperation in his voice when he talks to her and he invites her to go to lunch with him but she's too busy.... It's like he's almost trying to will her to say yes and to come and him from himself.... I do the same thing.... Fate just seems to keep tossing us back together. When we try to avoid each other we end up being stuck in a meeting together and have to look at each other for 2 hours. Then afterwards...we'll be back to drawing board. Oh well - what doesn't kill us makes us stronger so they say..~Thea

Thea,
I had to laugh at your last line!

It doesn't sound easy...

Hang in There!
Star

Star-
Thanks for the support... Actually talking about this helps. Neither of us has told anyone. (Whoops- well he hasn't) 10 months of holding it in is enough to eat away at your soul.
Thanks again...
~Thea

OK, 205.188...
You must give us a name for you...any name...that is the rule.

Star

Isn't that the rule??

Sure it is!!

Star

Thea,
Eating away at your heart, perhaps...but, your soul...no, that could never happen...unless you did darker deeds...

And I do not believe you did..

You are just a wee bit dramatic at times...

But, yes, it is difficult to keep things inside at times...and you did it for an amazing amount of time...

So, who is this new friend that I am asking a name from??

Hmmm, there are many C names, but, I shall refrain from guessing...

The guys may want to have a try...

Take Care!
Star

thea,

i'm impressed you took the time to lay everything out like that for us to share.

i understand the situation you've described, but i have no experience to warrant a definite opinion.

however, my instincts tell me that two people, both from unsatisfactory marriages, are unlikely to come together to form one acceptable marriage. but if the two people in question essentially reached the same stage of maturity and developed similar sets of values and goals in life, well hell...maybe they've both changed in a way that makes them better suited to one another than with their original spouses.

but i really have no way to support these ideas.

-ichthyo

Ichthyo- well I am of pretty much the same opinion. Not a very solid foundation to build anything on. So...sigh... I am either going to try to rebuild what I originally had with a little luck, forgiveness and alot of honesty or become financially stable, and cut all ties and live on my own for awhile. I just need to be free of this situation. If I didn't need this job I would already be out of here. I already told both bosses that I would be leaving in 6 months. They both seem to think I will change my mind. They don't know me very well. If I say it... I mean it.
Thanks for the input...
~Thea

thea,

if it's any consolation, you are darth vader.

- http://www.ophira.com/astrology/starwars.html<BR>
ooo, and it's a full moon tonight. let's get drunk!

ichthyo

Ichthyo,

LOL!

Star

Ichthyo, My Friend,

I am Darth Vader...Thea is R2D2...(she is Capricorn, remember)

I am sick about being Darth...I just can't get the breathing right!!

Full Moon, huh?! Now that makes everything a bit more interesting!

Seriously, you crack me up, my friend!!
(Who would find consolation in the fact that they are Darth Vader?!)

All right...let's go get drunk!
Thea, you coming?
Hey, where's Joe...and the one who gives a number, but not a name...

Cheers!
Star

Ichthyo,

By the way, something good happened in my life...in the wee hours on the 24th when Mercury and Neptune entered Aquarius...
But, I don't want to rain on your sad parade...

Let me know when the time is right for me to share it!

Your Drinkin' Bud!
Star

Yep I'm R2D2 -well I always thought he was cute. But Darth...well now he's a little edgier -You know Star I thought your posts had that laborous breathy quality about them.🙂 huh, I thought I was just imagining things. Okay Lando -(Ichthyo)..... I think it's Definitly a get drunk night. Hmmmm shots or Margarita's—? By the way where is Joe.. Ya think he got tired of scrolling down to read our stuff?? ~Thea

Star- I missed where you asked about Joe already. Any idea's about your mystery writer—
~Thea

Alright? Very funny...I did laugh..!

No, actually I appreciate the fact that this person wont say their name...

As far as Star War's is concerned...? I'm 3-CPO (Virgo). What a riot! I love reading the posting's...and then?

Thea,

I think this is your mystery writer...not mine...

Ichthyo must have gone out without us...ah, well...'twas my own fault. I watched a movie and went to bed early..

Or maybe you did go out??

I will have to get in on the next one! Frozen Margaritas are fun! Been quite awhile since I have done shots though! I mean, years!!

About Ichthyo, he is the coolest guy...man, he cracks me up! This site used to be a bunch of people trashing Pisces...the men in particular...
Anyway, I am glad that through our friendship, Ichthyo and I have managed to change that somewhat...

I guess I am OK with a number for this one, especially since I have no choice!!...But now we can call him/her 3-CPO...so, do you think it is a guy or a girl? I say it is a guy...

So, you think Darth is a bit edgier, eh?
You think he would be fun to party with...NOT! I just don't trust him...I still say that he is Aquarius gone bad! He is unlike any other Aquarian I know...gives a clue to treat us nice and not piss us off though, huh! LOL!

So, a piece of the mystery is solved. Not much, but, a piece.

You might want to run up and talk to Wanda when you get a chance...

Well...off I go to work on my breathing exercises!

Take Care!
Star

Whoa!

Slow brain waves this morning...that means that 3-CPO is definitely NOT Josh...as Josh is Capricorn, but, does have Virgo Rising (not Pisces..I checked it out when he gave his DOB and time of birth)...

Lastly 3-CPO...I will "write for you" as you call it, if you wish...but, you must supply the info...I am not a mind reader...think about it...

Now, Back to my breathing...
Star

Yeah- I watched a movie and went to bed too. The movie wasn't very good either. Great special effects but they should have put more emphasis on the plot. So our mystery writer's name is 3-CPO since that's all we have to go on.....hmmmmm..I don't have a clue if "3-C" is a guy or a girl but I think I am in agreement with you. Usually we women ramble on and on (Of course in a good way..). These are short and sweet posts screams a guy if you ask me. (Josh being the exception to the rule 🙂) ~Thea